I m afraid that my grandfather will suddenly leave one day

You have felt a lot of things that were wrong in the past, you have realized that your grandfather is old, you have thought of repaying your grandfather, all of this shows that you have grown up, and I am glad to see this. Yes, human life is limited, no one can get away from the day of death, the problem is that there is no regret when a person leaves the world, that is the highest state, let your grandfather die behind you, this is a selfish performance, just imagine, you are not willing to accept the fact that grandpa left you in the future, then, can you bear to let grandpa watch your departure and leave him alone to live? Therefore, you must come out of this shadow, be a good person, do things seriously, honor your grandfather, don't let him worry about you anymore, let him see your growth and progress, don't let your grandfather work for you anymore, learn to take responsibility and obligation, let your grandfather be proud of you, let your grandfather be happy for you, this is the greatest filial piety in the world.

The old man needs to be accompanied, the old man needs to communicate, the old man needs to be cared for, without too many words, action is the best proof, when your grandfather is tired, you stand quietly behind him, gently rub his shoulders, beat his back, when your grandfather watches TV at night, you quietly bring him a basin of hot water to help him soak his feet, when your grandfather sleeps, you gently tuck the quilt for him, when your grandfather gets up in the morning, you put his favorite breakfast in front of him, when your grandfather needs to talk, you sit silently in front of him and listen carefully, there are many such details in life, find it with your heart, do it sincerely, you can feel happy after doing it, let it become a habit, you do it, you will not feel guilty, you will not regret.

Some things, don't be afraid of losing face and don't do it, he is your grandfather, Enbi's parents, do what you can for him, chat with him, take a walk or something, the old man is most afraid of loneliness, but he doesn't say it, use actions to prove that he is a relative you care about, and say to him: Grandpa, I love you. Then everything doesn't matter to him anymore, because he is already very happy to have you, a grandson who cares about him.

However, many people ignore that some feelings are not easy to discover if they are buried.

Have the opportunity to hug your grandpa and let him know that you have done so much for you, and you remember it in your heart.

You can name these things to show that you have grown up. People want their relatives and friends to live a long life, but the truth is that everyone has to face death eventually. Do what you can! Sometimes it's a relative relief to leave.

Since you think it's very sensible to say it, it's better to take some practical action and honor him more, otherwise you will regret it in the future, my grandfather died of a heart attack yesterday, I am very sad and regretful, I feel why I didn't accompany him more at the beginning, I hope you won't be like me in the future, when the old man is there, I don't know how to cherish.

Sleep well, birth, old age, sickness and death, the law of nature.

I've had the experience of dying last year, but it wasn't long before he was gone! I can't even see him for the last time!! I'm also sad ,...But at this point,,, we can only accept reality!! You don't have to worry so much, you just need to spend more time with him...

Love him well and don't regret it.

The love of relatives makes people stand up.

People's birth, old age, sickness and death are natural laws, but you can cherish the time in front of you, do not leave regrets to the second elder, if you have the conditions to lead the two elders to do what they want to do and did not do within the scope of their ability, life will inevitably have some regrets, it is also a kind of happiness to be able to complete it in the twilight with the help of relatives, you will also find good memories in it, and comfort the soul when you miss it in the future.

Don't be too sad, think about everyone's life is running out of oil, and in the end you can only drag your old body, maybe leaving is a relief, as long as you don't suffer. To them, that's what you should be doing right now.

Instead of worrying, it is better to spend every day with them.

Birth, old age, sickness and death, joys and sorrows, these 8 words you don't understand. It shows that you are mentally immature.

Hello, this kind of thought must make you feel anxious and afraid! If these thoughts come up repeatedly, you think they are irrational and do not correspond to reality, and they cause you anxiety and pain, and you want to control but can't get rid of them, then it is obsessive-compulsive thinking. When you have anxiety, if you repeatedly adopt certain behaviors to relieve your anxiety, then it becomes a compulsive behavior.

Because the brain cells in people's brains are so active, hundreds or thousands of thoughts are randomly generated every minute, most of which are fleeting, while some of them persist because of our attention. This kind of attention is usually caused by our rejection and confrontation of these ideas, and it is recommended that when similar thoughts arise again, do not identify with them, do not regard them as reality or associate with your own character, but only as ideas, like clouds floating in the sky, drifting back and forth, to see if you can improve.

This close friend, if you think of these things for no reason and linger, I am afraid that you have a tendency to obsessive-compulsive disorder, and you should see a psychiatrist for correction or medication**.

Obsessive-compulsive disorder is a type of anxiety disorder, which is a group of neuropsychiatric disorders with obsessive thoughts and compulsive behaviors as the main clinical manifestations, which is characterized by the coexistence of conscious compulsion and counter-compulsion, and some meaningless thoughts or impulses that even go against one's own will repeatedly invade the patient's daily life. Although the patient experiences that these thoughts or impulses are self-conscious, they try their best to resist, but they are always uncontrollable, and the strong conflict between the two makes them feel great anxiety and pain, affecting their studies, work, interpersonal communication and even daily life. The nature of obsessive-compulsive disorder is complex and inconclusive, and it is believed that it is mainly related to psychosocial, personality, genetic, and neuroendocrine factors.

Hope you get well soon!

Problem analysis: When adolescents face strangers or in an unfamiliar environment, timid and shy people often seem cramped and uneasy, unable to interact with people frankly and naturally, and at the same time make the people next to them feel uncomfortable; When encountering unfamiliar but familiar classmates, timid and shy people often do not greet people because they are embarrassed, and the result may be misunderstood as arrogant and unsightly, which affects interpersonal relationships.

Suggestions: After we realize that timidity, shyness, and withdrawal will have a negative impact on our study and future work and life, we should learn to help ourselves to help ourselves get out of the trouble of timidity and retreat, and become a self-confident, independent and fast-paced, brave to meet challenges and point to difficulties, good at seizing opportunities, happy and relaxed people!