With all your heart, why do you get nothing but pain or pain?

Think about practical issues such as your finances, time, and youth. If you continue to be stuck here, when will your happiness come to you?

The love that has turned back is meaningless and will not last long, let alone such a woman.

Friends, we don't deserve this, and we are the only ones who are sad and hurt like this.

Find something to do in the near future, try not to go to her, or find your closest friend to do something happy (or even crazy) with you that you have always wanted to do, maybe at this time, a confidant of the opposite sex will be more helpful to your mood.

Can't you see it that way?

That girl is taking you as a spiritual comfort, I used to do the same thing, when I was hurt, I remembered the person who has always been good to me, but that's not love!

Since you can't get the love of others, love yourself well!

You can keep temporary feelings in your heart, because time is very powerful, and there is no wound that cannot be healed.

When I think about it a few years later, it's all a relief.

Hey, didn't you owe her something in your last life, and you have to pay it back in this life

Hehe, joke.

It can be seen that you really love her so much, and the one who loves has lost herself, the most important thing for you now is to find yourself, don't be centered on her anymore Think about what you have given so much and what you have gotten.

You should find someone who deserves your love, someone who can see your love, not this, you know, it won't be too good for you for a long time.

You can accept that kind of girl.

Admire. It's me who dumped it early.

It's as worthless as rags.

Feel sorry for your efforts, both emotionally and in the workplace.

Humans are complex creatures. Many times, they will deliberately fail the people who give to themselves.

Take myself as an example. Excessive efforts are not cherished. Every time I beat my chest, I regret not being at the beginning. The fundamental reason is that the understanding of human nature is too shallow.

He is kind and honest. will think that the other party is like this. In the end, I found that the quality of honesty and kindness was the most useless.

I remember what my ex said to me. You're too honest and too easy to trust people. So I have repeatedly met people who are unladylike.

So far, he has been cheated in the workplace. More times. People are numb. There is no consciousness.

When I was young, I always felt pity for others. When I saw someone asking for food on the street, I would always pull the corner of my mother's clothes and give them money.

When I was in junior high school, I was followed on the street by a tall man who asked for food. Chased me for a while. I was accompanied by my cousin and her classmates. I was older than them, and in desperation, I gave him a dime. Since then, I have no pity for those who ask for food.

I am very kind and always think about others. In the end, I am always let down. Seeing others getting mixed up for their own reasons, I was down. There is another taste in my heart.

It's been a lot. Just look down on all this.

I began to wave goodbye. Cut off the infinite regret of the past.

Live your days in the days that follow.

I started ** and tried to start all over again.

Remove all the negative energy from your body. I just want to tell myself that I forgot everything that was before. It's as if you've never met before.

This is also my last negative energy essay. Life has not been kind to me. And I choose to be kind to myself.

If you don't ask for anything in return while giving for yourself, you won't feel pain.

So it's up to you how you look at it.

From the perspective of love, while we give, we hope to get a response from the other person, but if not, it will be very painful.

So this situation is understandable.

If it's emotional, it should be like this, feelings are two people's affairs, and both parties need to understand and give to each other. But if it is in terms of improving yourself, that is, the more you give, the greater the gain.

Success is wonderful.

Failure is superfluous.

Love is not about gains and losses.

Because when you really fall in love with someone, you will really give without asking for anything in return, even if you still fail in the end and are betrayed, it doesn't matter, at least you have loved it. As the saying goes, the old doesn't go, and the new doesn't come. One day you will meet the right person.

Meet someone who genuinely treats you. Good luck.

Everything in life is proportional.

True love is selfless] Love is willing to do anything for each other, whether it can last forever, whether it can be long-term or not, all sincerely hope that the other party can be happy and happy! True love takes a lifetime to comprehend--- in real life, the one you love the most often does not choose you; What loves you the most is often not what you love the most; And the longest, it's not what you love the most and it's not the most that you love No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, he can't pretend not to love you when he loves you, and similarly, he can't pretend to love you when he doesn't love you. When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him, if you don't love him anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem; If you still love him, you should want him to live happily and happily, and hope that he will be with the true love, and it will never stop him; If you prevent him from attaining true happiness, you don't love him anymore, and if you don't, who are you to accuse him of changing his mind?

Love is not possession! You love the moon and can't take it down and put it in your basin, but the moon's rays can still shine into your room. In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, making the lover an eternal memory in your life.

The real victor is not you, me, him, it's time! He is the culprit of love, it makes you crazy for love, and at the same time it devours your love without a trace. He never changes his pace for your emotions, even if you plead with it and refuse to stay for a while, and you can't even see its face of ignoring everything, so the spring night is always short, and the pain is long, so the parting is always fast, and the wait is long, so love is fleeting, and life is a little bleak.

We can't grasp the response of our love, we can only pass on the message of our love, we can't grasp it, we can only grasp our own pay, we can't guarantee that it will last forever, we can only manage it with our hearts!

Remember.

You are not alone, there are many people like this! Therefore, if you pay, don't ask too much for the return, the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment. Maybe you have some problems doing things, so the heartache will be more frequent.

You can't understand the reasons and consequences of what you do, you don't understand things and people, you are not good at relationships. and so on, there will be more disappointment and sadness. For example, if you feed a very hungry wolf, you think the wolf will show you favor, but you don't understand his wild nature, and you may end up with a wolf bite.

That's it.

Because you are not the right person to pay, so you are heartbroken, disappointed, and it is useless to pay more. So if your heart hurts, it's a very normal phenomenon, normal people will have this kind of reaction, and you don't get the kind of reward you hope for, I just want to see that.

The reality is that it is not satisfactory, and there will often be efforts that not only do not get a return, but will end up with a lot of complaints, which is unacceptable. You should pick yourself up and face it bravely.

Lover first learn to love yourself, blindly unconditional pay will only make the other party take it for granted, if the other party does not know how to cherish it after you pay, it is his loss, you must take it and put it down, don't be sad for people who are not worth your pay!

When you give, you have to hold a concept, don't think that the other party will definitely hug you back, like this. Whatever happens later, there will be no heartache. When you make a decision, don't regret it.

Sometimes, you do good deeds and give them, but your obsession with your own goodness will make the other party hate it. As a result, the value of those paid in the first place is greatly reduced.

Ask yourself, when you give, is it true? If it is sincere giving, then it is giving without regrets, and it does not have to be anything in return from the other party. Otherwise, it becomes an exchange of interests. Since it is an exchange, others do not necessarily have to "do this transaction".

Well, if you are sincere when you give. It's all about each other. Regardless of whether the other party reciprocates or not, you must be mentally prepared. Make a responsible attitude towards your choice, do not ask the other party for return, if there is a return, it is better, no, the original choice has been psychologically prepared.

With such a red heart prepared with both hands, after paying, there will be no heartache.

Because you love the wrong person.

Why give to someone who doesn't love you.

Is this kind of love worth it?

Does he care about you when your heart hurts?

In the relationship, it is always the one who gives the most who is hurt.

In a relationship, your contribution is not worth mentioning in his eyes, because he doesn't care about you. Love is like this, the one who gives the most, and in the end, the one who is hurt the most. You should think about it, do you want to continue, is it worth paying so much for this relationship?

People's tastes, realms, upbringing are different, words and deeds are not the same, read more, exercise more, even if you love her, you must be responsible for her, love is two souls to two spirits.

Your efforts have not been reciprocated for a long time, I think there will be a return in the near future, heartache is time-consuming, you can find some joy by yourself, Lele.

Don't be discouraged, I believe that the effort will always be rewarded.

You fell in love with the wrong person, because you were blinded by love, and you couldn't recognize what was true or false, and now you know, in fact, it's just right, don't be sad.

There is no such thing as absolute fairness in the world. If you don't choose the right angle and effort for your effort, it's more likely to be a disservice to you than the reward you want.

It's hard to balance the effort! Everything will pass!

When the effort is not proportional to the return, think about whether it is worth it, consider whether it is worth it, it depends on your heart, if your heart is still there, it hurts, and you can't let go.

That's because you're thinking too much, don't care what others do, don't be right, face reality, get married if you want to get married, don't care what happens to others.