is also ignoring Daiyu, Zhou Rui s family was scared back, why was Qingwen let go?

Lin Daiyu in the Dream of Red Mansions was favored by Jia's mother as soon as she entered Jia's mansion, and even because she was the last to receive the palace flowers sent by Zhou Rui's family, she was angry that Zhou Rui's family sent everything that others didn't want to her, which shows Lin Daiyu's true temperament and being favored in Jiafu. But there is one person who has passed Lin Daiyu but was let go by Lin Daiyu, this person is Qingwen. Although Lin Daiyu was secretly sad about Qingwen's words to him, she also understood that Qingwen was actually mocking Xue Baochai, and ran to Yihong Courtyard if she had nothing to do.

1. Qingwen once Lin Daiyu went to Yihong Courtyard to play with Jia Baoyu, and when she didn't get there, she saw Xue Baochai also go in from a distance. So Lin Daiyu knocked on the door gently with her hand, who knew that at this time Qingwen was arguing with another maid, and saw Xue Baochai coming over, so she wanted to move her anger to Xue Baochai, and angrily scolded Xue Baochai for running to Yihong Courtyard if she had something to do, and let people not rest? At this time, I heard another knock on the door, and I was even more angry.

Lin Daiyu knew that these maids were inert on weekdays, so she opened her mouth to speak, but Qingwen didn't hear Lin Daiyu's voice, and said that no matter who it was, the second master said that no one was allowed to come in. <>

Second, Qingwen's intentionsWe all know that Lin Daiyu has been entering Jiafu since she was 6 years old, and has eaten and lived with Jia Baoyu for many years, and Qingwen, as the maid next to Jia Baoyu, can't not hear Lin Daiyu's voice, so Qingwen didn't open the door to Lin Daiyu on purpose. As for Qingwen's move, Lin Daiyu did not go back, in fact, it was a tacit understanding between the two of them. On the surface, Qingwen didn't open the door to Lin Daiyu, which made Lin Daiyu angry.

But the real object of Qingwen's complaint is Xue Baochai, because Xue Baochai comes to Yihong Courtyard very frequently, which has affected the life and rest of the maids in Yihong Courtyard. <>

3. Suppressing Xue Baochai To sum up, Qingwen showed through a paragraph that Xue Baochai intended to approach Jia Baoyu's careful thoughts. And Xue Baochai is a person who pays great attention to feudal etiquette, and the reason why he does this is because he is too young and forgetful. Since then, Lin Daiyu's attitude towards Xue Baochai has been a little more cynical, so Lin Daiyu will not step on Qingwen.

Because Daiyu felt that Zhou Rui's family didn't take her seriously, her self-esteem was damaged, so she went back. And Qingwen is just a messenger, she thinks this is what Baoyu meant, so she is embarrassed to scold Qingwen directly.

Qingwen didn't open the door to Sister Lin because she thought that Xue Baochai came to play with Jia Baoyu, but in fact, this was an indirect reminder to Sister Lin, so Sister Lin let Qingwen go.

Daiyu in the Jia family except for Jia Baoyu and Jia's mother doesn't necessarily pay much attention to her, Zhou Rui's family was scolded because he is from a foreign family, and Qingwen is a family member, so naturally just say a few words.

Because she is out of good intentions, she is actually in the same camp as Daiyu in her heart, so she doesn't want Daiyu to be at a disadvantage, so she will be understood and will not be angry.

Because the scenario is different. At that time, Qingwen mainly scolded Xue Baochai, saying that she had nothing to do and ran to Baoyu's house to disturb others' rest, Daiyu happened to catch up with being scolded by Qingwen and scolded Baochai, and because Baochai was actually going to Baoyu, Qingwen scolded her Daiyu naturally wouldn't mind.

The seventh round: send the palace flower Jia Lian to play Xifeng, Yanning Mansion Baoyu will Qin Zhong.

After Grandma Liu left, Zhou Rui's family went to Lixiangyuan to talk to Mrs. Wang, and Xue Wang and Wang talked about housework and human affection. Aunt Xue asked her to go to Mrs. Wang's place to send palace flowers to Sister Feng and the sisters. When Zhou Rui's family gave the last two palace flowers to Daiyu along the way, Daiyu was suspicious, thinking that someone else picked the rest and sent it to her.

So, Daiyu used words to mock Zhou Rui's family.

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In the Dream of Red Mansions, Zhou Rui's palace flowers were given to Lin Daiyu at the end, which actually meant to bully Lin Daiyu, because everyone in the Dream of Red Mansions had to pay great attention to etiquette, and Zhou Rui's family did not do a good job in etiquette, which was deliberately neglected and did not give her the due number of courtesies.

First, the order of sending palace flowers.

Zhou Rui's family was entrusted by Aunt Xue to give three girls to the Jia family, two for each person, two for Hualin girls, and the remaining 4 for Wang Xifeng. The order of sending palace flowers should also be in accordance with what Aunt Xue said, first send two to the three girls of the Jia family, Yuan Chun Xichun, Tanchun, and then two to Lin Daiyu, and the last four directly to Wang Xifeng. But Zhou Rui's family didn't send it like this when it was operated, when Zhou Rui's family sent it, he first sent it to the three girls of the Jia family, and then went to Wang Xifeng's yard to give it to Wang Xifeng, and finally went to Jia's mother's yard to send Daiyu.

Originally, the treatment was ranked second, but Zhou Rui's palace flower ranked Daiyu last, and she didn't have to pick yet.

Second, the number of etiquette is not thorough.

In ancient society, etiquette is very important, especially the rules between master and servant are the records of the Zhou Rui family, which is relatively strict, keeping the master asking the word first, and the slave can squeak, Baochai first invited Sister Zhou to sit, and Zhou Rui's family sat down with a smile and said hello. When Zhou Rui's family sent flowers to Tanchun, Yingchun and cherished spring, he took the initiative to explain the reason and tell them who they sent the flowers for, how many flowers per person and so on. But when Zhou Rui's family sent flowers to Daiyu, Daiyu hadn't spoken yet, and Zhou Rui's family said directly:

Miss Lin, my aunt asked me to send flowers to bring with the girl. At this time, Lin Daiyu hadn't spoken yet, and finally Lin Daiyu asked her if she was alone or everyone else, at this time, Zhou Rui's family just said simply and perfunctory: Everyone else has it, this is for the girl.

Zhou Rui's treatment of Lin Daiyu was very inconsiderate in terms of etiquette.

Third, Zhou Rui's family is very snobbish as a slave.

In addition to the Zhou Rui's family's lack of thoughtful treatment in terms of etiquette, Zhou Rui's family mainly works for Wang Xifeng and Mrs. Wang, because he is a housekeeper, so many people respect him. In addition, Zhou Rui's family more or less knows what the master means, for example, Wang Fu Zhuhe doesn't really want Lin Daiyu to marry Jia Baoyu, and Lin Daiyu is an outsider in the Jia family after all, and he is a sojourner, so Zhou Rui's family will treat Lin Daiyu politely. <>

Because in his heart, Lin Daiyu is a person who is not taken seriously, but he is not quietly reminded that Jia's mother attaches more importance to him, and in his heart, Wang Zheng Ling Xifeng's status is more important, because he himself is a person who is in charge of courtesy everywhere.

Because Mrs. Wang has always disliked Lin Daiyu, Zhou Rui's family just didn't want to see her, and she did it on purpose.

Mrs. Wang didn't want to see Lin Daiyu, so Zhou Rui's family didn't pay much attention to Lin Daiyu.

Qingwen's death, the attacker bears great responsibility - it was because of the attacker's whistleblowing that led to Qingwen's expulsion from the Grand View Garden. At that time, Qingwen was seriously ill, so Qingwen died soon after. A person named Erzhiren, a critic, when he talked about the death of Jin Chuan and the death of Qingwen, he said:

Attacking people is the first of merit and the chief of crimes. She made a meritorious statement to Mrs. Wang, and she was the one who made the first contribution, and she was also the culprit. A few decades later than him, during the Daoguang period, that is, in the thirties of the nineteenth century, there was a person named Tu Ying, which was even more serious, if a person is cunning, but she pretends to be very humane - "adulterous and affectionate people are difficult to distinguish", such people are not easy to distinguish, those rape are superficial, you can see it at a glance - attacking people is "a traitor and close to people, read his life, die Daiyu, die Qingwen, chase Fangguan, Huixiang, provoke autumn lines, musk moon, etc., its abuse is rampant.

The bad things she did were too serious, too many, and Qingwen had a bit of Lin Daiyu's style; "Raiding is the hairpin vice", saying that attacking people is like Xue Baochai's second. Raiders and Baochai have an important thing in common, that is, they both sincerely believe in feudal morality, and they both consciously use feudal morality to regulate their words and deeds, not only to regulate themselves, but also to regulate others, and to demand others in this way. Therefore, it is precisely out of such a motive and such an understanding that the attacker made a statement to Mrs. Wang.

However, from the conversation between Qingwen and Mrs. Wang, Mrs. Wang believed it. On the one hand, it shows that Mrs. Wang is confused; On the other hand, the most powerful proof is that the attacker has never mentioned a bad word about Qingwen, and she has never even talked about the existence of Qingwen. Mrs. Wang didn't know that there was a girl named Qingwen next to Baoyu, so the reason for Qingwen's death:

1 Here, I will first start with Qingwen's personality. To put it simply, Qingwen's personality was out of step with the environment at the time. 2 Qingwen is also as straightforward and unscrupulous as Daiyu in terms of speaking, and sometimes she will speak more harshly, which is easy to offend people.

3. The upper class of Jiafu struggled for power and profit; 4. After the "Embroidered Spring Bag Incident" occurred, Qingwen became a victim of Mrs. Xing and Mrs. Wang's fighting. 5 Some mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law represented by Wang Shanbao's family took the opportunity to attack and retaliate against Qingwen.

She killed herself.

Let's not mention how many people she offended in Jiafu, and no matter whether Mrs. Wang drove her out or not, if she was only kicked out, she would definitely not live?

When Mrs. Wang went to Qingwen for questioning, although Qingwen was a little sick, it was far less serious than being bedridden later, and it was not incurable. If she doesn't have such a big temperament, if she looks away, isn't she just kicked out, what's the big deal, marrying a man like her, then she will definitely not die.

Although Qingwen's family background is very poor, she herself is smart and beautiful, good at needlework, and sharp in speech, these qualities are all capital for women in the old society, and they must not worry about getting married. Even if her sister-in-law loves money and sells her as a concubine, it must be a wealthy family that can afford this bride price. Food and clothing will definitely not be bad, and what is the difference between the status and the concubine of Dang Baoyu.

A man may be a little ugly and obscene, but with her intelligence and beauty, she may not be able to turn over like Jiao Xing or Chunmei in the Golden Bottle.

Therefore, character determines fate. She was kicked out of the Grand View Garden, maybe because someone framed her, but in the end, she died because of her own character.

Even sick with gas!

Qingwen was already sick before she was kicked out, and after she was kicked out, the conditions were so bad that her brother and sister-in-law didn't care, so illness was a reason!

Another reason is that Qingwen was kicked out of the Grand View Garden in the image of a fox, and in that era, such a statement was an insult to her daughter's reputation, a society in which chastity and chastity were greater than life.

Therefore, Qingwen died of a physical disease, and also died of the disease of that society!

Zhou Rui's family sent palace flowers to Lin Daiyu.

What Lin Daiyu said was: Or did you give me alone, or did other girls have it?

Zhou Rui's family said: Everyone has the sedan core, and these two branches belong to the girl.

Daiyu sneered at Yuan Fanshan and said: I know that if others don't pick the rest, they won't give it to me.

Because Lin Daiyu is in Jiafu.

There is a feeling of being under the fence in the hail, her mind is very sensitive, and she always thinks that others don't pay attention to her and look down on her, so she says this.