Love someone too much, love can t extricate yourself, how to learn to let go?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-02
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In fact, you are just greedy for his feelings, and deliberately ignore whether this person is worth it or not, try to make your life full, learn more things, read more books, do more sports, think more about those who love you, how much they want to see you with someone who is worthy of your love, set more principles for yourself, and don't indulge yourself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Force yourself to distance yourself first.

    Spend free time with friends who have fun.

    Watch less romance movies.

    Love yourself a little more.

    Try to buy yourself what you've always wanted to buy.

    Throw away all his things.

    Rare is better.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you want him to listen to some happy songs immediately, don't listen to sad ones, that will only hurt you deeper, and don't help him too much, just a friend... Maybe you don't have to give up, why do you have to be together if you love someone? I already have such a love, and I hope you can choose it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I'm just like you, but if you love, you love well. If he loves himself the same, you must cherish him. Just like my husband, although he doesn't have an outstanding face or outstanding knowledge, he loves each other, although now I can't figure him out, and I always quarrel with him, so that he doesn't care about himself now.

    Every time he said that he wanted to leave him, but he was reluctant to do so, because he loved him so much. Sometimes, when we are sad and have no one to accompany us, we learn to be independent. When we were in a bad mood and had no one to accompany us, we learned to be strong.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I guess your heart must be soft, right? Think about your sadness, cry a lot, and then sleep (and repeat this for a few days) and forget about him/her. I've had this kind of experience before) Finally, I wish you success!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Character determines what you do. If you can't leave, I hope you communicate with him more, maybe sometimes he inadvertently hurts you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's better to find a good man to start a new relationship, his love will give you confidence and give you a new life.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you can't extricate yourself, ask someone to help you pull it out.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you love someone too much and can't let go directly, you tell her your love directly, if he accepts it, you can love her logically, if she doesn't accept it, because you can't let go of her directly, you must be cheeky to find her, but you must not hurt her, use extreme methods or some means to obtain her, if she directly refuses, you can turn grief into strength, and transform this power into other places, such as work.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Reply. 1. Adjust your mentality and face the reality seriously Living on the road of love, it is not that you can get something in return if you give love; There are many times when you love someone, it doesn't mean that the other person loves you too; If you can't have the love of the other person, you don't have to be sad, and you don't have to be entangled; Adjust your mentality and face reality seriously; Hiding the other person in your heart is also another way of loving; So if you want to open some, you don't have to worry; As long as the beloved is happy, as long as the beloved is happy, why not be sad if you are a little sad. 2 3 Second, stay away from each other, out of sight and out of mindOn the road of true love, in the ocean of true love, it is normal to love someone until you lose your way; So when you can't have each other, and you can't stay with each other; The best way is to stay away from each other, so that you can feel out of sight and out of mind; If you don't leave each other, don't move away, then you can't start over; Only when you are far away, can you experience the happiness of life and the perfection of youth in your heart; Change your environment and state of mind, and you will naturally be happier. 3 3 Third, find someone and release the love in your heart On the road of love, there is love in your heart, if you don't find a place to vent, your heart will be special.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I love someone too much, I can't let it go, I have to let it go if I can't let it go, I can't help it.

    Love is like this, when two people are together, they are very happy, and when two people who love each other very much are separated, they will definitely be sad. So love is beautiful and painful.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you love someone too much and can't let go, then give yourself a vacation, time will erase everything, you can pursue what you like to do to divert your attention, or travel, eat and drink, and put your mind on other places After a long time, you can let go of her.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Love someone too much and want to let go, first of all, don't contact him, don't meet, time can dilute everything, after a while you will find that in fact, what we love is what we once were, and what we couldn't let go of was the relationship that we had to give.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Love a person too much to let go of going to him until you are completely disappointed, or don't think about everything about him. Don't go to take a souvenir, don't look at his **, don't look at his circle of friends and dynamics. Cut it all out so you forget it, time will wash away everything, you have to believe that.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Hello, if you can't let go of a relationship, then it is recommended that you do not need to force yourself to forget this person. You can go out for a walk, meet more people or establish a new relationship, and use time to help you forget this person through a fulfilling life.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    When you love someone and can't let go of each other, and the other person is not with you; Then you can turn your grief into strength and do a good job on your own life path; Make yourself a successful person, I believe that one day, when the other party sees you, there will be a feeling of being unattainable, study hard, work hard, and strive to become an excellent person.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Seeing that a person can't let go, if you still have the possibility, then try to pursue him and strive to be able to get his care. If I don't have the possibility, you try to find a way to fill your life with something else and divert your attention from his love.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You can find other things to do, divert your attention, you can put your emotions into another person, and then gradually forget, they will write in this relationship, and if you catch you, you will change a new life.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Either let time dilute everything, or let yourself know how much he or she doesn't love you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    When you find that you can't easily let him go out of your world, you should let yourself have more time and energy to put into your own life, that is, because you don't have a clear goal and what you want to do, so you will always leave your thoughts on the other person, if you have your own goals, you have the motivation to meet a better person.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I love someone too much and can't let it go, I think it should be cleaned by time. After a long time, he will slowly forget about him. Either start a new relationship again, and then you will slowly forget about him.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you can't let go of that person, then you hide it secretly in your heart, you should look forward and move forward, after all, the future is not him, and there are many people in your future. Don't leave, the tree will give up a forest, you have to come on, you are the best.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you can't let go of someone you love, if there is a chance to reunite, you can try to repair the relationship, if it can't be repaired, it's best to shift your attention elsewhere, or find a replacement person again.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you can't love it, it's best to be categorical and find a new partner, and if you have a new lover, you will slowly let go of the old relationship.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If the other party really can't accept you, then you can only choose to let yourself go, find something to do for yourself, slowly get busy, fill up your free time, and put something else in your heart, and slowly your feelings will be squeezed into no space, and you will let go.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you love someone and can't let go of it, you can recognize the reality and the future of two people, don't hold on tightly if you can't be together, break it completely, don't meet each other.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Throw away everything related to this person, you can't lose the memory, but you can not think about it, you can throw away all the items he bought you in real life, or the items that the two of you use together, to avoid thinking about people because of things.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you can't let go, you should divert your attention, such as going on a trip with a friend or going out for work, working hard, getting a salary increase, or just talking to a friend and crying.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Love someone can't let go of the solution: if it is worthy of love, be brave to grasp it, if it is love but can't, then go with the flow, love is good, not necessarily accompanied to old age.

    1. If it is worthy of love, be brave enough to grasp it

    In all unsuccessful relationships, there is a person who does not work hard or works in the wrong direction, if the relationship is not smooth, stop and see if it is a deviation. Feelings are the game of the brave, not the game of the inferior, all people with low self-esteem, who want to try to improve their self-confidence by others love themselves, will eventually fail.

    Self-confidence comes from within oneself, and only from the inside to the outside self-confidence can make oneself truly happy, and all unsatisfactory can be solved by returning to the level of hard work.

    2. If you can't love it, then let it be

    Love is a long process, enjoy the happiness that love brings you, you don't need to deliberately suppress your feelings, and let love develop slowly over time. Now you have this kind of thought, but you are just immersed in love, and you don't know how to treat it yet, just let it be, all your uneasiness, will slowly get used to it, and slowly adapt.

    Love is not only dry firewood, but also firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. You can never wake up a person who pretends to be asleep, you can never touch a person who doesn't love you, and you can't keep a heart that is destined to go.

    3. It's good to have loved, not necessarily to be with you until you get old

    "Letting go is never the price of growth, letting go is growth itself. "As the saying goes, if you can afford it, you can put it down. Many people often only "can afford it", but ignore "can put it down".

    In fact, letting go is a kind of bearing, but also a kind of courage. Before a person puts it down, he will always feel that what he holds in his hand is the best. You can't even imagine what you're missing out on when a person puts it down.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Because everybody is afraid of losing, having had and then losing, it's very uncomfortable, and if you haven't had it, then there is no concept of letting go. The pain of loss is greater than the joy of gain.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Love is in the heart, and love is only in the eyes; Love will disappear with time and external factors, but love will only deepen with time.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    A loving heart can only fit one person.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I've tried, at least I won't regret it.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Choose your own path, and the advice given by others can't change your own mind, right? Think about your life together and what kind of person he is and you should also understand. Good luck.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Use selfless study to numb yourself with this unfruitful first love flower, after being admitted to a good university, better and more suitable boys for you are waiting for you in a good university. Remember: it is impossible for this world not to turn without anyone, and you will not be unable to live without him, come on!

    Strive to get out of the confusion and adjust your mentality!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's a matter of time. Just because he loves you now doesn't mean he will in the future. After the college entrance examination, they went to the east and west

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Let it go, if you think you're a good girl, it's not going to work out with him.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It's better to find someone who loves you.

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