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Take the initiative to chase, you don't chase him and you don't know that you like him. What if he likes you too and is too embarrassed to chase you? What if he deliberately doesn't pay attention to you? If you don't do it, you won't know anything, and you don't know if he's happy. Hurry up, if you miss it, it's a lifetime.
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What do you want to chase. How can you be so sure that the other party has never paid attention to you? Maybe he's not very good at expressing emotions.
If you don't chase it, you just watch it silently and you will definitely regret it later, but now it's at least possible to chase it.
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I've been having this problem with you lately, and I'm even more unfortunate than you are when he tells me something about it, and then he tells me to forget everything about us and we're good friends.
The only way to do that is to be a good friend by his side until he breaks up.
There's another way that I think is more effective, and that's to just get away from him, to reject everything that has to do with him, to force yourself to forget about him. Don't want him. And when time has diluted everything, when you face him, you will find that you don't feel anything anymore, and although it is very uncomfortable to reject him, it is also a way to do it once and for all
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For the sake of your own happiness, you should still strive for it.
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This asks your heart.
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It is very common to like someone to the point where you can't extricate yourself, and this kind of liking makes you want to stay close to him, want to confirm your place in his heart, and crave love and attention. However, this excessive attachment may make the other person feel stressed and may also make you feel exhausted in the relationship.
In this case, try to adopt the following strategies to adjust your mindset:
1.Set boundaries for yourself: Limit the frequency of contact you have with each other appropriately, leaving a certain amount of space for yourself and the other person to maintain a certain degree of independence from each other.
2.Boost self-confidence: Focus on your own growth and improvement, and develop your interests and talents. The improvement of self-confidence will make you more confident in the relationship, and you will no longer rely too much on the other person.
3.Expand your social circle: Make new friends and participate in various activities to broaden your horizons and reduce dependence on someone.
4.Learn to be independent: Learn to face problems and challenges independently, and don't always expect the other party's care and care. This can make you stronger and more mature in your relationship.
5.Accept the reality: Understand that feelings cannot be forced, and sometimes it is better to let go. If the relationship never gives you the love and attention you want, try to let go and give yourself a chance to start over.
Finally, remember that love is not all there is to life. While pursuing love, it is also necessary to pay attention to your own growth and development. Only by becoming a better version of yourself can you attract a partner who is more suitable for you.
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Some somehow like him inexplicably 190 male god height I never thought I would like someone else It's amazing I just like it.
I was an hour's drive from his school.
He's the kind of gentleman who sings very well, and then he's a little bit of a boyish boy, very clean, very fresh, and has a very good face, and he's very tall in ordinary clothes.
Because he's very good.
So I feel that I also want to be beautiful to be worthy of him.
On the second date, I talked to him about everything from his high school life to the books he reads to his own bizarre ideas, and it was very pleasant.
Then go back to reading books and listen to all kinds of ** Buy beautiful clothes Learn makeup skills from makeup masters I 165 48 my face is not ugly I want to make myself better.
So, if I like him, I'll be even better, and I'll be very happy, although I don't know if he likes me or not, I don't regret it at all, and I've been happy enough for a long time.
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Hello, the handwheel is very happy for your land stove problem This is also a common problem for children of your age, who will think about what is wrong and will fantasize about a person who does not exist. First of all, it is recommended that you live a regular life, do not stay up late, ensure adequate sleep, and secondly, communicate more with classmates and friends, communicate more with your parents, and do more exercise, which will help you. Third, if you feel that the current situation has a great impact on your study and life, you also need to tell your parents to take you to a psychiatrist and get yourself out of the predicament with the assistance of a psychologist.
At the same time, if you know that you like him, you should turn him into a driving force to move forward, work hard to improve yourself, and use him as your pillar of fine early potatoes!
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You are a gentle and kind person, so you will treat everyone who cares for you with sincerity and want to grasp everything in your hands.
Maybe you haven't been in a relationship, sometimes you can give it a try, and only after experiencing it do you know how to cherish it.
If you like someone, you may not need to be together, just pay silently.
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Presumably, you will be more likely to respond to the person who expresses a good impression of you first, and you will win your favor more.
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Because your personality is more passive and you are afraid of being hurt.
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That person definitely has something you like as well!
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I've been having this problem with you lately, and I'm even more unfortunate than you are when he tells me something about it, and then he tells me to forget everything about us and we're good friends.
The only way to do that is to be a good friend by his side until he breaks up.
There's another way that I think is more effective, and that's to just get away from him, to reject everything that has to do with him, to force yourself to forget about him. Don't want him. And when time has diluted everything, when you face him, you will find that you don't feel anything anymore, and although it is very uncomfortable to reject him, it is also a way to do it once and for all
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Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Many times, what we think is earth-shattering love is nothing more than a joke in the eyes of others.
Remember this and never love someone who doesn't love you. People who don't love you, no matter how much you sacrifice for them, they will only move their hearts of pity at most, and they may be a little sorry, but they can't make love, so it's not fair. Maybe love is an unreasonable game, and the person who is loved can always control the power of life and death of love, even if it is arrogant to lawlessness, it is also tolerated and spoiled.
In this world, if you don't love you, they will love you, and if you fall in love with someone who doesn't love you, it's destined to be just a pain and hurt for you... If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to wander around the door anymore, or hit your head and never wake up, learn to give up, and then turn around and look for a skylight that is open for you, where you can also see the stars in the sky...
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First, life is too peaceful, there are no magnificent ups and downs of love, and it is difficult for ordinary people to understand what true love is.
The second year is too young, you don't know enough about life, love, and family, and you don't know what kind of other half you need in your life.
Third, you haven't met a man like me, so you can't experience the love that you can't extricate yourself from. Wow, quack, quack, quack!
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Love should be in moderation, love to the point of inextricability, in the end it is still yourself who is hurt, those who commit suicide for love, is it considered inextricable, in the end it is our parents who are sad, and one more point I think, love is inextricable, it is because he doesn't love you anymore, you will be unable to extricate himself from him, then you will feel very stupid, since one party does not love, why let yourself fall into pain.
Not being able to forget is to prove the existence and depth of your love, don't deliberately forget, don't immerse yourself in pain for a long time, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience everyone is the mark left by life, whether the memory is beautiful or painful, it has happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted. >>>More
Change yourself and learn to fit in. For feelings, liking is liking, because you also have the right to love, as long as there is an opportunity, we have to create, because there are not many people in life who can make you like; Boys treat you as a buddy, it's nothing annoying, you can fit in, you can play together, why care about the boundaries between men and women, can't there be pure friendship between classmates? What do you think.
Liking someone is voluntary, and how much you give is also something you can control. Everyone likes others to a different extent, so the results of what they pay and get are definitely different. Not all likes can be favored by the other person. >>>More
When you like someone, you want to be with him because he will bring you joy; After leaving, you will miss, laugh at the thought of it, and then move on with your peaceful life and look forward to seeing him again. When you love someone and you want to be with him, it is a kind of reluctance to worry about him, afraid that he will be wronged, afraid that he will not be able to take good care of himself; After leaving, you will also miss, thinking about it and sighing, "I wonder how he is doing now?" Then you go on with your peaceful life, hoping that he will return to you soon. >>>More
Well, it's hard to get into this kind of problem.
Actually, it's very simple, if you don't like it very much, don't confess it easily, otherwise you will lose 2 good friends. >>>More