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The two have been together for many years, the boy is very good to the girl, the boy is older and the girl is five or six years old, the boy graduates and works, the two quarrel and break up, there is intermittent contact during the period, and the boy starts a new relationship after a year, and after half a year, the boy gets married.
Two people have been together for more than three years, probably already very familiar, if you have not encountered the situation of talking about marriage, and have been together for so many years, you are used to adding dependence, feelings, etc., if there is no new relationship, it is difficult to break off, and the process is similar to drug rehabilitation.
Another situation is that if one of the parties has reached the age of marriage, they are still noisy and have no idea of getting married, then they should reflect on whether there is a way out of this relationship. The party who wants to get married (especially a girl) will feel that after being together for so long, the other party doesn't want to give an explanation, which should mean that the other party is not very sure. As soon as this thought appeared, the cornerstone of the existence of the relationship between the two parties was shaken, and all kinds of self-confidence in the relationship definitely disappeared, coupled with the influence of his age and various forms around him, he naturally withdrew.
There is another factor, and that is work. After work, most of my energy is taken up, and many times I need to think about problems with a rational and restrained attitude, and I don't have much energy to spend on things like you, I don't have much energy.
Socialize, talk to the buddies around you about the car ticket, basically there is no time. On the contrary, I will feel that I should be taken care of and considerate by girls, instead of being unhappy and playing a little temper at every turn, crying, making trouble and hanging myself. In his eyes, he has to face all kinds of pressure, pursue career gains, and hope that there is a little woman behind him who can give him warmth.
And that kind of so-called hard-hearted feeling of love, in his eyes, has been so tired that he is overwhelmed.
As for girls, in the face of the man who is humble and spoils him from time to time, he suddenly becomes tired and neglects himself, and he will probably retreat.
Besides, the latter question, marriage after a breakup. Probably because I felt that the feelings that paid with 10% of my strength may not have good results, and finally I found a relationship that I didn't have in my previous relationship, the kind of feelings that can be warmly cared for, humble and gentle, and live a small life at home quietly.
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Have you or your friends ever had such an experience?
You have been in love with him for many years, but he has been delaying in marrying you, even if you give him countless hints, he will not answer.
In the end, you really can't help it, so you just pick it out:
When will you marry me? ”
And he will always say:
What's the difference between us now and getting married? Why do you care about that piece of paper? ”
Or. I've been very busy lately, so I'll talk about it later. ”
Or: the economic conditions are not enough now, let's wait until you make more money. ”
Perhaps, you think he has a point, so you continue to endure it, continue to wait, and finally you can't wait anymore, so you break up.
Or, the other party can't afford to spend it under your forced marriage, and takes the initiative to tell you:
Don't wait, I'm an unmarried. ”
So, you break up with hatred and blame yourself for having no eyes.
However, it didn't take long for you to get new news from him, and it turned out to be the news of his marriage.
You're so angry that your lungs are blowing up.
It turns out that if he doesn't get married, he won't marry you, and he may want to marry someone else.
Ekin Cheng, who became an instant hit with "Crazy Boy", instantly became everyone's male god and the dream lover in the eyes of women.
However, in his life, several women occupied it one after another.
Ekin Cheng gave the first 7 years to Maggie Shao.
Why have you been in love for many years without results, but in a blink of an eye, he got married to someone else?
The second 7 years were given to Gigi Leung.
Why have you been in love for many years without results, but in a blink of an eye, he got married to someone else?
It's a pity that he and these two women have no fate and don't go to marriage.
Later, actor Meng Jiahui entered Ekin Cheng's life, and he finally married her in his 7th year with Meng Jiahui.
Why have you been in love for many years without results, but in a blink of an eye, he got married to someone else?
In this relationship, Meng Jiahui is the one who pays more.
She waited for Ekin Cheng for a long time, and finally came out of it, and finally broke Ekin Cheng's idea of not getting married.
Why have you been in love for many years without results, but in a blink of an eye, he got married to someone else?
Back then, Ekin Cheng only sent a short message to announce their marriage:
We enter another stage of life, gratitude! We are no longer alone, thank you! ”
Why have you been in love for many years without results, but in a blink of an eye, he got married to someone else?
So, what are the advantages of comparing Maggie Shao, Gigi Leung, and Meng Jiahui, and why did they win?
In fact, the biggest advantage is the timing of Meng Jiahui's appearance.
Really answered that sentence:
If the order of appearance of people is changed, there will be a different ending.
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I have summed up the experience from you, learned to rationally analyze the personality characteristics of girls, and found a goal that suits me, of course, I will get married immediately, and let others snatch it if it is late.
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The two of you have no fate, they are a couple who fell in love at first sight.
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Summary. Dear, hello, my boyfriend who has been in love for a few years suddenly got married to another woman immediately, this is the reason why this boyfriend is not sincere enough to your feelings, and he is disrespectful to you because of his emotional empathy.
Dear, hello, my boyfriend who has been in love for a few years suddenly quarreled with another woman, and the first grandson of Qinshou immediately got married, this is the reason why this boyfriend's feelings for you are not sincere enough, and he is not in love with your emotional empathy, he is disrespectful to you.
Dear, hello, my boyfriend who has been in love for many years suddenly got married to another woman in Liangnian, this is the reason why this boyfriend is not firm enough to respect your feelings, he has a new relationship when he sees the high draft, he has a betrayal of you, and he is not loyal enough to your feelings, he is a betrayal of you and disrespects you, he is inappropriate to do this, and he should apologize to you.
Dear, hello, my boyfriend who has been in love for many years suddenly got married to another woman who returned to Shen, this is the reason why this boyfriend's family may have pressured him to get married as soon as possible, he feels that the woman can attract his feelings more, so he let go of his feelings for you, his way of doing this is a departure from your feelings, and it is also the source pants that are not sincere enough to you, you can talk to him, let him explain Hail Xiaojian, and apologize to you.
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The girlfriend who has been in love for two years has a flash marriage at home with a man who has just known him for two months, and will decisively choose to leave at this time. Although the two-year relationship does feel very precious, and everyone may be reluctant to have this relationship, if you trap yourself in the past, it is easy to affect your future life. Since the girlfriend has chosen to get married, it means that it is impossible between himself and the other party, and if he forcibly entangles the other party at this time, it will make people feel that they are a person with three wrong views.
If there is a misunderstanding between two people that will lead to a quarrel, you can indeed choose to communicate well and solve the problem. But if the other party is already married, there is no need to explain, because no matter how the other party already has his own family, he will only break up the other party's family at this time, so it is better to choose to leave and live his own life. Everyone should be centered on their own life, and they should go around themselves and not lose themselves in the process of getting along.
You must know that no one in this world has left anyone who has no way to live well, because everyone should have their own life, and they also need to live their own life well. If you can go on well, it's a good result, but if you can't go on, you should be okay. Although this relationship is not particularly beautiful, and the ending makes me feel very uncomfortable, it is also a very meaningful experience.
At least this can remind yourself not to make similar mistakes in the future when you are in a relationship, and as a man, you should also let go of your ex-girlfriend at this time to seek the next possibility. Although it is true that you may feel a little uncomfortable for a while, you should start a new life after the discomfort is over. Don't limit yourself to the memories of these two years, look ahead.
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may dissuade your girlfriend, but you will also understand your girlfriend's thoughts, and you will solve this problem by communicating with your girlfriend, and you will ask your girlfriend how she feels.
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will definitely ask about the specific situation, if the other party is not willing, the relationship should be broken, and there is no need to continue contact.
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Marriage recovery in today's era is not as stable as it was in the past. Moral ideas are also becoming more and more ambiguous. As for the end of a marriage, there are too many reasons for this. But basically they are separated when they don't love each other. There are also many strange reasons for breaking up, which will not be mentioned for the time being.
Flash marriage is not a new term now. Flash, is the fastest, short, marriage is marriage. Generally speaking, meeting within three months and then getting married is considered a flash marriage.
This kind of quick marriage is mostly based on an encounter of love at first sight, and the reckless sublimation of the relationship to the top.
A flash marriage is also marriage, so it is normal to get rid of one marriage and then re-enter another marriage. It's just that you are more questioning why is it so fast? Is it true that true love can really be found so soon?
No, the flash is fast, and the departure is fast. The reason why I chose Flash, maybe it was a sudden heartbeat, maybe it was because I didn't want to wait any longer. But there is no exemption for marriage things.
Who would know what happened later?! So do it and cherish it.
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