Emotional question, is this relationship broken or continues like this? Solving...... 20

Come as you like in the dead of night and listen to your own heart.

Do what you want to do There is no regret medicine in life.

When two people are together, we have to learn to tolerate and tolerate.

As long as you feel worthwhile and you won't regret it when you're old, then you can do whatever you want.

There is no need to ask someone if the feelings are yours and not someone else's.

It seems that you are very entangled with each other.

There is a certain reason why things happen, is it that she has someone else, or doesn't want to drag you down and break up or something??

First of all, you have to understand what your girlfriend thinks in her heart, and then solve them one by one, of course, including what problems you have, you have to figure out first.

Some things don't mean that a breakup is over.

I suggest you think more about your future and her before making decisions, such as what you can give her, what she needs, and what your future will be.

Long pain is better than short pain, so break it off as soon as possible.

I've had a similar energy like yours We're all honest people who can't understand this woman and they are always contradictory about what they do, and I can see that you're hesitant right now, and my opinion is that if you want to go long, give up on the relationship.

I can tell you very bluntly that there is marriage and divorce. What's more, you're in college right now, and you're not going to get married right away, but now you're all young and have a lot of contact with the opposite sex. So, you get it.

Is the relationship a problem continuing or ending?

Sometimes we are not happy in a relationship, but we don't know what to do with it. If you find yourself in a state of stagnation, here are some questions you can ask yourself and get you to do something.

1. What is the problem? Or is it in me?

The question is a bit of a trick. In general, your relationships with others are dynamic. (If that's the case, skip to question 3.)

But sometimes, at one extreme point, if the problem is yours, maybe the relationship that needs to be paid is your relationship with yourself. If you feel that this question is more than 60% on the other side, please skip to question 2.

2. Is the other party willing to self-reflect?

Introspection is a prerequisite for change. If the other person denies his or her own role on the issue, it may be helpful to confront him gently. But if you think that he or she is simply not admitting mistakes, and that it has always been like this, can be regarded as a matter of character or character, then you can conclude:

The relationship is bound to end.

3. How much effort does it take for me to turn the relationship into what I want or what I deserve?

Be honest about how different you are from the other person's. How hard do you have to work to cross this distance? Maybe at another stage in your life, you're willing to put in that level of effort, or you're having children together, or maybe you need a job that's more desirable than your current job.

But for you at this stage, at this special moment, are you willing to put in that effort?

Too often, people pretend that a problem will get better on its own or with minimal effort. Don't deceive yourself about what is truly engaged. Improving relationships takes dedication and commitment. You won't be frustrated along the way.

4. How painful is this relationship for you? Does it deprive you of the joy, energy, and pursuit of life?

Consider this in conjunction with question 3 – does it take more away than it brings to you? Also, will it make you put in a lot of effort to change? If that's the case, you should have the answer yourself.

5. Is it really that valuable to you?

Sometimes we fall into the trap. Habit is the path of least resistance, the fear of confrontation, the need to please others. You have to think about what you value in your life, in your relationship, and whether this particular relationship fits your value system.

Through these questions you will find the theme: brutal honesty, get rid of denial. What I'm trying to say is that these methodological questions will lead you to where your intuition and heart really want to go, but it can also be a place that is too messy for you to admit at all times.

First of all, are you happier or more troubled in this relationship? Secondly, whether the other party brings you positive or negative energy. Finally, see if the other person is willing to give or take.

Love can't be vigorous for a lifetime, there will always be a day when it will be calm, after two people have been together for a long time, many people will feel that the relationship is starting to become very boring, thinking that this is not the love they want, or even breaking up with each other. How do we judge what kind of relationship we face, and whether the relationship should continue or end?

1.Are you happier or more troubled in this relationship? For a good relationship, there are many more happy times than unhappy times because there are no major problems between the two people and they are willing to solve the problems in their own way.

However, if two people are always arguing together, their troubles will increase a lot more than when they are single, which means that the two of you are very incompatible, so your relationship needs to be stopped in time and let go, after all, loving yourself is the most important thing.

2.Whether the other party brings you positive or negative energy. Everyone wants to have a light in their life to illuminate themselves and make themselves feel empowered at all times.

Therefore, if the other person is someone who can be the sun for you, it means that the two of you are perfect together. You will achieve each other and make each other better. But if you are full of negative energy all day long and always complain to you about the world, he must not be the right person for you.

Being with someone like this will only make you pessimistic, so you can let go of the relationship.

3.See if the other party is willing to give or take. A good relationship will bring benefits to the other person, because it can balance the other person's psychology and make him feel that his efforts are not in vain.

Also, he prefers to do more for you to make you feel happy in the relationship. However, if the other partner always asks you for something but is never willing to pay for you, it shows that he is a selfish person who does not know how to be grateful, so it is better to give up the relationship for the sake of his own happiness.

I think you can tell by the number of times you argue, if you argue too much, then the relationship doesn't need to continue.

Whether the other person loves you or not, in fact, you can feel it, if you question the relationship, question his love for you, it means that you should not continue the relationship.

In fact, it is very simple, if the other party loves you more, the relationship can continue. If the other person doesn't love you anymore, I think the relationship should be abandoned.

Emotionally, no matter which party is deeply involved, it is easy to lose oneself, but when people are in love, they always ignore what will happen after the love period, and blindly immerse themselves in the relationship and cannot extricate themselves. In this way, when they encounter problems in the relationship, they are even more troubled and do not know what to do. So when we truly experience that a relationship encounters problems, how should we face it correctly so that we can not regret it in this relationship, and we can also make ourselves have a clear conscience in this relationship.

When couples faced this relationship at the beginning, they didn't think about how the relationship should go in the future, but they were immersed in the ambiguous period and love period at the beginning of the relationship, which was also the period when a relationship warmed up the fastest. However, even if the relationship is very good at the beginning, there is no guarantee that as a couple, there will be no cold war or a series of emotional problems in the relationship. Then when you experience the initial sweetness of the relationship, it is difficult to understand the feeling in the cold period, and you will be confused about this relationship, and you don't know whether to continue or give up.

But if you really want to give up, whether the sweetness of the previous relationship will disappear like a passing cloud, and if you continue, will the two be able to go through this emotional gap and still be reconciled.

In fact, it is very simple to face this kind of problem, if two people get along after falling in love for a period of time and think that the three views of the two people and many views on things are the same, then it means that it is very suitable for two people to be together. In this way, when two people encounter emotional problems, they can understand each other and think more from each other's point of view. If it is really because of some small things that cause problems in the relationship, then you should explain it as soon as possible, and you can't let your feelings be estranged because of some small things.

BiIt's actually two people who are suitable for each other, and when they encounter problems, not only you but also him will think about these problems. Wait until the two of you calm down and you will understand that this matter is not as serious as you imagined, unless something irreparable happens to the two of you.

In the same way, if the two of you feel that the other party is not very suitable for you after being in love for a while, in addition to the current beginning, there are many points of view that do not coincide in the subsequent relationship and cannot get along, and this problem is also an opportunity for you. You can choose to talk to him about the problem and then talk about the problems he has had before, so that you can let him know how many things he has done to break the relationship during this time, and you can also give up with a clear conscience in the relationship. Of course, the final result of these methods is to be decided by yourself, if you have too much reluctance to this relationship, then you can choose to consider continuing the relationship, if you are exhausted from this relationship, then in the end you can choose to give up this relationship.

You should persevere, because the relationship is not something that you can escape when you encounter problems, you should learn to persevere, if you can't persevere, then you will become a dead cycle.

I think we should solve the problems we encounter first, and if we can't get over it, we should give up, after all, if we stay together, it won't have a good impact on both parties.

Of course, we should insist on continuing to solve the problem together, so that it is more conducive to the deepening of feelings and the development of feelings, and do not choose to give up and escape when encountering things.

Choose to continue, sometimes you still have to choose to persist in finding a way to overcome difficulties, rather than choosing to escape and give up, it is a pity to give up a relationship.