Emotional issues, continue to be right or wrong

Actually, this problem is complicated, but it is not difficult to solve, and you also know how to do it "This has been done more than once, so if you don't dare to think about it, you just let it be".

From what you said, it can be seen that in fact, you all understand, but it is only temporarily "messed up".

Just go with the flow according to what you say, don't think about it, in fact, sometimes trick yourself into believing in the word "fate", which is also the best answer for yourself. Whether it should be fate or fate sometimes has to come and go, it's all natural. Let's help those who should help, who makes us a "good person", believe it, good people are rewarded.

But one thing must be clear, men must be decisive when love comes, and they can't float left and right.

I wish you a happy day.

She doesn't love you, she just takes advantage of you. Maybe it will feel a little once in a while, but then reason will remind her that she doesn't love you at all.

In front of such a woman, wake up, brother. The more mud and water you drag, the more it hurts.

Although I haven't experienced feelings yet, I think you should first ask yourself whether you still have her in your heart, in fact, the important thing is whether she still has you in her heart? If not, you should leave decisively and start a new life of your own. Maybe the beginning is painful, but it will pass, and life will still go on.

Cut the Gordian knot! Don't be so reluctant!

Sometimes people are a little dissatisfied, just because you care too much about her at first, maybe she takes it for granted, or she doesn't want you to lose yourself for her. But if she was tempted by you, she would have been tempted a long time ago, and she wouldn't have told you so much, in fact, it's all excuses, and in general, she just doesn't feel it. Maybe she already has someone else in mind, maybe it's just not calling you.

In fact, you can change the way you like her, care is caring, but you must have yourself. If you ignore yourself, then how can you ask others to care about you? Many people are like this, when others are so kind to you, you don't feel it, and when others suddenly don't regard you as the center of gravity in life, you feel lost.

This is the best time to impress someone. Also, feelings can't be forced.

Love is numb You are blinded by love As a girl I can tell you that she doesn't like you Even if she likes it a little bit She doesn't plan to develop you because she dislikes you in other aspects To be honest, this type of person is really too much If it's not suitable to be together, just say it Why drag others It's not good So please landlord You better give up A girl's experience She won't be with you But I'm embarrassed to refuse you This delays you You think you've got a chance But no I'm sorry I'm very direct But I've been in contact with it There are a lot of such types, and I would also advise them that if they are not suitable, they must say no, don't drag others or don't say it because they are embarrassed to enjoy the feeling of being pursued, in fact, she also tells you very clearly, you should not think too much about being friends.

This matter can't be summed up simply by deceiving or not, or you haven't known her well after you have been in contact for a year. She said that you are annoying in front of her friends, but she is not really saying that you are annoying, I think you can understand this sentence. And her good reputation among friends is also evidence that she didn't lie to you.

It can be seen that she is unwilling to accept your love, but she doesn't tell you very clearly, so the reason she does this is that she doesn't want to lose you as a friend, otherwise she would have told you clearly. Since you can't be lovers, you should be friends, otherwise your friends will regret it if you can't do it.

It's very similar to my previous experience, but I'm the heroine of your story, it's actually normal, girls like to be loved, cared for, cared for, and cared for, and sometimes we don't know how to refuse in the face of this. At first, you may want to try, maybe it's appropriate, but sometimes it's just a matter of whether it's right or not, and if you don't like it, you don't like it, no matter how good you are. You should be glad that she is not a girl who changes with her will, she didn't promise you, she respects you and herself.

You will meet better, find someone who loves you more, and you will be happier. You also have to pay attention. After hearing this sentence, she used being a friend as an excuse for refusing because she thought you were still useful.

Think about it, though, don't let emotional issues bind your life and live happily. Men are ambitious!

Since she doesn't like it, she shouldn't accept your concern for her, she doesn't dare to face your feelings for her, but she has to accept your kindness to her. This kind of woman is greedy. There is no grass at the end of the world, you don't need to be sad for this kind of woman.

Some things don't have results if you don't like them, so you must analyze whether this person is worth your efforts to him. Otherwise, not only will you not get her in return, but you will also say that you are annoying, do you think it is necessary to continue? Give up and find a girl who is worthy of your love.

Alas, this is a kind of unrequited love, as the saying goes, people have to have a part Maybe you are just destined to meet each other, maybe your kindness to her is only for a while, or for a period of time, but in the future, you will meet again and you will like At that time, your feelings for him may be the same as her feelings for you now——— just friends, maybe it will be a very good friend. Since she can't change it, you can change it yourself, and I think you'll feel better.

She doesn't like you. This one is for sure. I just don't want to lose an object that cares about her after rejecting you directly.。。

Girls are like that. Tell you in the most tactful way that she is conflicted. I don't know how to deal with it...

But she still knows very well in her heart that it is impossible to be with you ... Or don't think too much about her. Go find your true love.

It is estimated that she doesn't like you, and she has a sense of vanity that she can't bear to be loved and liked, so she can't cut off contact. But because I don't like you, sometimes you feel uncomfortable caring about her. Anyway, she doesn't like you, that's why she treats her like this to you, but she doesn't want to talk to you about this kind of thing, and I'm sorry.

Girls, vanity and whatever, there's always there.

You treat her, she just treats you as a good friend, it doesn't mean that she will love you. Just because you're nice to her, she treats you like a good friend. Just because she likes you now doesn't mean she loves you now.

Actually, she's always changing, isn't she? From the beginning of nasty words to you, to her understanding and recognition of your kindness to her, she is changing, trying to accept your love, it may be that you are not ideal in some aspects, she is hesitating to accept your love, you give her some more time, she can't eat hot tofu in a hurry!

I don't know why you have such an idea, I think I can guess :

1. You don't think about the problem comprehensively enough.

Emotional problems need to be considered too much, if you are not thoughtful, you may do the wrong thing, but not how to do it is wrong, you have to think about it comprehensively, find the best fit point, and then think of a way to solve the problem, if you feel that the emotional problem is more complicated, then it is recommended that you communicate more, after more communication, you will know what the other party wants to do, what you want, what you can give him, how you and him should deal with these, things will become much simpler, you might as well try!

2. You are not wrong, the so-called mistakes are imposed on you by others.

If you are a woman, this problem is rare, many times it is a woman who is quite unreasonable, no matter how you say it, how to do it, how to deal with it is right, there is only one wrong, that is, everything is a man's is not, so if a man has this problem, it is normal, whether you are wrong or not, it is your fault! If you think about it like this, the world will be too peaceful, and your little princess won't catch you! In fact, it doesn't matter if you're right, that's what he imposed on you, and if you let him, he'll be fine!

If you are a woman, I think there is a very serious relationship problem between you, and even makes you feel angry to a certain extent, maybe the relationship problem you are facing is definitely not optimistic.

If you are a man, I don't think you need to find a reason, just coax her, if you don't make too much trouble, let her go, if you are weaker, just admit your mistakes, don't be serious, otherwise you are very childish, if it is a woman, you have to think about it yourself!

There is no right or wrong in this kind of thing, and when the relationship is about to end, it dawns on me. There are three kinds of emotions in feelings: family affection, friendship, and love, so will we really handle these three kinds of relationships well?

People often say that it takes someone with high emotional intelligence to deal with feelings, and I also agree with this view, no matter what kind of relationship we are facing, it is the best way to deal with emotional problems in a harmonious relationship.

At home, if we don't listen to our parents and make our parents angry, we are not willing to admit our mistakes to our parents, always thinking that we are right, so that the gap between us and our parents will become more and more, and sometimes, unexpected bad events will occur, on the contrary, if we can communicate with our parents in time, we can reflect on ourselves, and change our bad problems, our parents are also very relieved to see us.

In friendship, we will meet a lot of friends, maybe at a certain moment with friends have a conflict, and do not want to resolve the conflict, then it can only be a good gathering and good dispersal, if we can understand each other, share the joys and sorrows, enjoy the sweetness together, and bear the pain together, which will help the friendship with friends to last forever.

If you always feel that you are wrong in dealing with feelings, then reflect on yourself more, know what you have done wrong, and correct it, and naturally our ability to deal with people and things will improve.

Because feelings are inherently complicated, if you are wrong no matter what you do, then it means that you have not met the right person, and when you meet the right person, then your confusion in the relationship will be solved.

There is no right or wrong in the relationship, only whether the other party understands! You can deal with it when both sides communicate, it's better!

First of all, when there is a problem in your relationship, you should not rush to admit your mistakes, so that in the long run, your partner will naturally feel that you are wrong.

That means you don't believe in yourself, and you make yourself happy in the way you feel like, and that's right.

It's not appropriate for you to hit the man when you're very angry. Her own affairs should be handled according to her own wishes. This door is closed, and maybe something else is open. There is no endless road.

You're not wrong before, but it's your fault if you don't fight for it.

Hurry up and find another one, what's the use of indulging in the past.

In the marriage continue to change themselves, make themselves better, but also for the other party to make appropriate changes and compromises, in order to make each other's love more long, not long after marriage to conceive a baby, due to malnutrition, but also because I don't know how to cook, my husband has no time to take care of me, so I can only go to my mother-in-law for a while to go to my mother's house, at that time I feel that I and my husband slowly began to appear estranged, I told him many times, his mother is not my mother, It is impossible to treat me like my mother, but he doesn't listen, he always says that his parents are very good, how is it, but when I arrived at my mother-in-law's house, my mother-in-law played mahjong every day, and the cooking was not on time, and my father-in-law smoked at home every day, and it was useless to say, and at this time he always said that I was not sensible and so on, and slowly found that I was unwilling to call him ** to say these things.

Second, later I went back to my parents' house, and my mother took care of me, she had a lot of things to do, but she was also taking care of me wholeheartedly, because I was too pregnant and vomited, my appetite was really not good, and I was very picky, so I could feel the distress of my parents, and then after giving birth, my in-laws did not say to help take care of the confinement, nor did they say to help take care of the child, in short, my confinement was taken care of by my mother, and he felt that his mother's waist was not good, and I had to understand if he couldn't come.

Third, then we couldn't take the baby alone, and it was true that a person would not take care of it, so I took the baby back to my parents' house, and his parents didn't hit one, at first I and he would be a day **, and then slowly I didn't want to pick him up, and I didn't want to talk to him too much, we separated for about ten months After I went back, I felt that the two of them could not be like the feeling when they were in love, at that time we had just been married for three years, and the feeling at that time was that I wanted to return to a person's life.