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1. Let your son be in a dilemma, not a person inside and out.
Many mothers-in-law do not treat their daughters-in-law well when they are young, and they always embarrass their daughters-in-law thinking that this can be a good declaration of their sovereignty, thinking that no matter how much they bully their daughters-in-law, when the daughter-in-law needs to take care of herself, she must also be filial to herself. But you must know that you are unkind to your daughter-in-law, you can't blame your daughter-in-law for being unjust, you have done something to hurt your daughter-in-law, and your daughter-in-law forgives you with affection, and it is your duty not to forgive.
2. If you don't treat your daughter-in-law well, your grandchildren won't treat you well;
For a mother-in-law, if she doesn't treat her daughter-in-law well when she is young, and she doesn't even care about her grandchildren at all, then when she is old, she can't blame her daughter-in-law for not being filial and disrespecting herself, and she can't blame her grandchildren for disrespecting and treating herself well.
3. Mistreating his daughter-in-law well, causing his son's marriage to collapse;
The sharp conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will directly affect the relationship between the husband and wife and affect the marriage. Therefore, I would like to advise all mothers-in-law to treat their daughters-in-law well when they are young, not always self-centered, and not always assume that their daughters-in-law are their natural enemies. Try to be a good mother-in-law, accumulate good fortune, and be able to make your old age better.
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The consequences of a mother-in-law's mistreatment of her daughter-in-law may include:
1.The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is tense, which may manifest as quarrels, cold wars, etc.
2.Family disharmony affects the quality of life and feelings of family members.
3.The son is torn and may feel helpless and confused.
4.The daughter-in-law is dissatisfied and may be dissatisfied and resentful of her mother-in-law.
5.Affect the marital relationship and may lead to the breakdown of the marital relationship.
In family relationships, mutual respect and understanding are very important. As a mother-in-law, treating your daughter-in-law well can better maintain family harmony; As a daughter-in-law, respecting and understanding your mother-in-law is also an important factor in maintaining family harmony. I hope that every family can live in harmony.
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It's going to be a loss. Human nature is mutual, when you don't treat your daughter-in-law well, then your daughter-in-law in her old age is not to say that she is not filial to her mother-in-law, but that she may not be sincere, and this is not much good for her mother-in-law.
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Summary. Dear, I'm glad to answer for you the consequences of your mother-in-law's mistreatment of her daughter-in-law, who puts her son in a dilemma, and is not a human being inside and out; Because during his wife's confinement, his mother did something to hurt his wife, so the two have since formed a confinement feud. I thought that after so much time, these hatreds in his wife's heart would be let go, but what Mr. Li didn't expect was that when the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law lived under the same roof, all the little things would become big things.
Dear, I'm glad to answer for you the consequences of your mother-in-law's mistreatment of her daughter-in-law, like a mountain, so that her son is in a dilemma, and he is not a person inside and out; Because during the confinement period of his wife's confinement, his mother did something to hurt his wife, so the two have since formed a confinement feud. I thought that after so much time, these hatreds in his wife's heart would be let go, but what Mr. Li didn't expect was that when the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law lived under the same roof, all the little things would become big things.
In real life, some mothers-in-law have some problems with the way they treat their daughters-in-law, because some mothers-in-law are a little snobbish and do not respect their daughters-in-law many times, and they are also calling for their daughters-in-law. In fact, such a way is very disadvantageous, it will make the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law very tense, and may affect the marriage of your son and daughter-in-law.
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