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I will love and I will believe in love!

What is the reason for so many divorces, people are married, don't they have love? If you have love, you can live your life well, are you tired? Man.

I don't have love, but with the crystallization of love, with the continuation of my other life, I am happy. But I don't believe in love, I've been hurt too much, I just want to raise my children. Children are my motivation.

I heard about love, ten out of ten and nine sorrows, but I still believe in love, believe that love is beautiful, waiting for the arrival of his beloved I love.

I won't want to have another relationship, and I won't believe in love anymore, this love is already very bitter, and I won't put myself in pain.

It doesn't matter if I believe in love or not, I already have more important things in my life, my child, I will raise her well until she grows up in life.

Divorce means that I have been hurt by love once, it will be difficult to carry out the next relationship, and I still have children, and I will have one more individual in my life who depends on me in the future.

There are too many divorced people in this world to be surprising, so why don't I believe in love, I will continue to look for another love with my children and give him the best life.

It's hard to believe in love anymore, and I already have children, I want to devote my whole life to children, and the rest of life will be lived together by the two of us.

It doesn't matter if I believe in love, I don't believe in love, but I won't love anymore, I have another life experience when I have a child.

Children are the best medicine in a love, even if I am divorced, but children will always give me a happy and lovely smile, and having children is enough.

Everyone is a yearner of love, and each of us has the right to choose love and believe in love.

Especially after the parents divorce, remarry, and have children, the feelings for the children in front of them will become more and more indifferent, and human nature is like this.

After a cousin and my cousin divorced their sister-in-law, they soon remarried and had their own children. So I didn't want my original daughter, so I kicked this daughter around like a ball. In the end, there was no way, my uncle raised this daughter by his side.

Parents are not things, they just pity the children. So the parents divorced and both remarried and had children, and the children they had together were no one to love, pitiful!

So don't overestimate human nature, let alone father's love and mother's love. A cruel truth in marriage: whether a man or a woman, as long as they still have children after remarriage and have a good relationship with their current partner, then they will love their current children very much, and they often don't love the children in front of the boy so much.

If you don't see each other often, you won't love the children in front of you even more. Regardless of men and women, after getting married, they generally don't pay much attention to the children in front of them, and the reality is cruel.

Parent-child relationship also needs to be cultivated, and children can only be close when they are raised by their side.

In fact, it is normal to think about it, if the husband and wife divorce, the child only lives with one party, and the other party does not see the child for a long time. After the divorce, the party who does not have children will only get farther and farther away from the children, because the children are not around, and they have not brought them up. In addition, if this party has another child, the time and energy are focused on the child in front of him, and the more he pays, the more he loves, and his heart is full of the child in front of him.

How can there be time to think and love the child who is not around?

Generally, the more you pay for your child, the more it hurts, the more you see your child, the more it hurts, and the less you pay and often don't see it, the less distressed. Human nature is like this, not to say who is good and who is bad, but all feelings need to be managed, even if it is their own children, the feelings that have not been contacted and managed will gradually become strange over time, and only when they are often together can they have feelings. The reason why people are affectionate is that there is no replacement, and once there is a replacement, they can be forgotten.

Men and women love each other, especially men.

In a family with good husband and wife, children also grow up in full love. Because people love each other, if both husband and wife love each other, then they also love the life they conceive together.

Especially for men, if a man loves a woman, he will love her children 100%, which is the instinct of the male to please the female. When he treats the child well, she is happy, and he can be happy with him.

If the man does not love a woman, the child certainly does not. The ones you see who divorce their mothers and are still good to their children are all single fathers. Because there is no other woman to please for the time being, he can only put his love on his offspring, but once a new woman appears later, the love will immediately shift, and he will even love the children he brings over, even if it is not his.

So many parents divorced and remarried and had children, and the original common children were no one to love, pitiful!

I think if I remarry, I will love each other's children, of course, it depends on the situation.

First, I don't think there is love between people for no reason, and there is no hate for no reason.

If the child is well-behaved and sensible, does not act in heaven and earth, and does not reject adults unreasonably, I think he should love it too! If the parents really have a good relationship, then the other party will also tolerate your child.

But now there are many people who remarry, not to find a partner for themselves, but to find a mother or father for their children, I think the motive is late and itself is not pure, remarry with such a mentality, the expectations of the other half of your child's attitude are too high, if the other party does not meet your expectations, you will definitely be disappointed, and the contradiction will naturally arise.

Second, I personally believe that no matter whether a man or a woman wants to remarry, there is no reason to force the other half to treat your child, your child has his own parents, if his own parents can't love him well, he should throw the pot of loving the child to the stepfather and stepmother, which is clearly a moral kidnapping.

Third, of course, if both parents have feelings and love each other, how can the other half be bad to your child? And such a small child is also very sincere, only worthy of the adult can pay sincerely, the relationship should not be difficult to deal with, I am afraid that the adult will set limits for himself, if you suspect that others will not be good to your child at the beginning, in such a heart hint, even if you find a kind person, the result is not better.

If you remarry, you will love each other's children, and remarriage needs to love each other is the premise. Love each other, love each other's children, Gao Xun, and the remarried family will be harmonious.

Extend. Remarry and get along.

1. If you remarry, don't have any more contact with your ex. When you have to, you can go to your ex with the other half of the current cave attendant; If you look for it alone, the impact is not good.

2. Having experienced a marriage, so each other should cherish the current married life more, and the two should work together to face the problems in the second marriage, and do not bring the problems in the previous marriage to this marriage.

3. Look forward, try not to recall the original life, and don't mention the ex in front of the current one. Even if there are still some things that you are reluctant to do in the past, you must learn to let go and live well with the present.

4. After remarriage, you should also be honest with each other financially, and don't hide it. Since they have both experienced a marriage, and now that the two have come together, they must be absolutely trusting and not suspicious.

5. Treat each other's children as if they were your own, and don't be partial. We need to know that children are innocent, so we should try to treat children fairly and make them feel happy.

6. Give each other some personal space. Since it is a remarriage, both parties will more or less have a past that they do not want to mention. Therefore, there are some things that the other party doesn't want to say, don't ask to the end, and leave a space for each other to think independently.

Tell the child that the father and mother will be separated for a period of time, and may have to follow one of them, so that the child will be less harmed.

You can directly lead the child to the parents, and then tell the child about the matter, and explain the reason, hoping that the child can understand.

Divorce can tell the child generously, tell the child why he will leave Zenchen and call for marriage, everything is clear to the child, so that the child will accept it, don't hide it from the child under the banner of being good for the child, which is also a harm to the child.

You can tell the child directly, so that the child's growth will not be harmed by any blindness, and the child should not be deceived by the gods, otherwise it will have a greater impact.

If you are divorced, you must tell your children truthfully and guide them correctly so that they can understand your parents.

Many parents feel that their children are still young and ignorant. But in fact, when the child is a few years old, he already understands things. At home, you can also feel whether the family atmosphere is right.

So, never hide the news of your parents' divorce, because children have a sixth sense. But don't be too blunt, because the child is still young after all and doesn't understand why the parents are separated. Either way, you have to let your child know that even though his parents are separated, they still love him.

To tell him that his mother is still his mother and his father is still his father. The difference is that there will be other changes in the future. For example, Mom and Dad Ye Qingchang's mother don't see each other every day.

Dad should stay at Daddy's house and Mom should stay at Mom's house. But your parents will still come to see you, and you can go to your parents' house to play and so on.

The most undesirable way is for parents to deny their ex-wife or ex-husband in front of their children, so that the children lose their judgment. Even if the father and mother are at fault, it is a matter between adults. You should not speak ill of each other in front of your children, as this will only make them feel insecure about their lives and future.

Allowing children to grow up healthily in the future is a problem that many parents who have broken down their relationship are confused but must solve. No matter what causes the marriage to change, the child is always innocent. Harm to children by parents is unavoidable.

The parties to the divorce have just failed to face up to this somewhat cruel reality. However, in order for children to face up to this reality, divorced parents must first have a good attitude. Therefore, divorced parents should tell their children the truth and let them know that divorce is only a parent's choice and will not affect their love for him, so as to help the child face the reality correctly and understand the parents' choice.

I think you should be honest. You should tell your child that you are going to separate from his father, but even if the two people who shout at the rough are separated, the two of them don't like the child very much, and I hope the child will not be sad.

If you are divorced, I think I should talk directly to the child when the child is calmer, and at this time, I must promise the child that after the divorce, no matter who fights for the right to raise Li from my parents, the other person will maintain love for the child, and will not let the child lack the love of either party.

You can talk to your child directly, because your child can also understand and understand what is going on, so you must respect your child and just say it directly.