I love it when a guy gets found out by his parents! What to do?

It's not feudal, it's that they can't accept that you fall in love in junior high school, you also think about it, your parents have great expectations for you, look at your parents' sideburns, is it a little white. Don't let them down, don't let them look at you with very disappointed and sad eyes one day. You'll regret it when you grow up.

You like a boy Yes, puberty, and now precocious, it's better to study hard! Knowing this, your parents have also said it to you no less than n times, but this is a good word, I am 21 this year, and my parents have also said it to me many times, but I didn't pay much attention to it, to be honest, I have regrets about living until now, I regret not listening to my parents, but it's too late, Ruth has to go on, it's useless to look back. I hope you can adjust your mentality, concentrate on studying, and when you get to university, you have the time and energy to go, fall in love, play games...

3rd Floor Connotation!

Little sister, don't be afraid, let my brother hurt you!

It's hard for your parents to find out that you don't like boys! Savor my words.

Are you dating this boy If you just like it, it's okay After all, your parents should also have experienced it from your age, as long as it doesn't affect your learning, it's okay Two people can make progress together, I wish you every day.

Junior high school love has a result, virtue only accounts for one in a thousand sister, think about it carefully, your parents are not feudal But they don't want their baby daughter to be hurt a little bit.

In fact, it's not as complicated as you think, your parents are good for you, and they won't say it. This is reassuring.

Besides, normal people will have their own emotional world. What to be afraid of, this is normal. This kind of thing is not as serious as you think, as long as the grades do not fall, the parents will not say anything, because their purpose is here.

If you usually have a good relationship with your parents and can talk or something, just sit down and talk like friends. The problem will be solved, be optimistic, school is already stressful enough, and it will be very uncomfortable to let this pressure on you.

Let's change our mindset. Don't think of it as something big.

I'm only a year older than you.

What I'm doing with my boyfriend now, basically my mother knows

But my mother was more open-minded

I think sometimes these little secrets can be shared with a close friend or with a mother, because after all, mothers are from the past.

Ask what to do if your parents find out about your crush.

That's still a child. How did the parents find out? What did he say without asking questions, write the names of the two people, draw a love heart in his pocket, and his parents found out who he was when he washed his clothes.

Because you are still very, very young, Mom and Dad are worried that you will not be able to recognize the hazy feelings correctly, and they will be very worried about you.

It is recommended that you tell your parents directly: "I think this boy is great, he is very good at reading, I envy him, and I want to be such a great person." But don't worry, I don't mean anything else, reading is my primary purpose. ”

Your parents won't talk about it, don't think too much about it.

They're your parents, and they're not going to do anything that would disgrace you.

They say this about you, just afraid that you will delay your studies, and I think every day that boy will not forget to lock it up next time, oh, the diary should be hidden, hehe

I'm worse than you, the ** who took a photo with my girlfriend put it in a drawer, and it was locked, my dad actually picked the lock open and looked at my privacy! I quarreled with him, and he actually said that I was his son, and I couldn't do anything to see my things. I was on the verge of a breakdown!

I hate my dad!

It's not a big deal, although I'm a man, but I'm as old as you, and I can just talk to my family about something, like when I pursue girls, I just talk to my family.

== It's okay, study hard, take exams well, time can always take away everything, and it can also bring better male silver

Girl. Be brave sometimes! Grit your teeth and it's gone, it's okay.

It's embarrassing, but after a long time, they won't talk anymore

What's going on with your teachers, are you educated or not, will you see the signs, your own students, it's normal to have a good impression, and it's normal to want to be an ordinary friend. As long as it's not in puppy love, what's the big deal.

How old are you? 12？15？

18？If you are too young to make simple friends, it doesn't matter if you are old enough to be a boyfriend and girlfriend, but don't affect your studies, because this is an important capital in your life. Because no one wants to live a life of poverty.

Including the guy you like. The best way to do this is to divert your attention. Chat and play with friends of the same sex.

The attention of small children is easily diverted. Don't worry too much about it yourself.

Actually, I feel the same way, I have the same experience, but no one knows, hehe, we are not together now, we may not meet again, I didn't cherish the good times I had when I cherished this relationship, and cherishing this relationship is the most important thing! But on the premise that it doesn't affect your studies, it doesn't affect your future, don't learn from me, thank you.

It's okay, as long as you explain it clearly, and if you treat early love well, it won't affect your learning As for parents and teachers, you deny it, and you don't admit it if you kill you...

Go with the flow. You can encourage each other to study, and if your academic performance goes up, your parents and teachers won't think you're in early love.

Yo There are many in our class, and the head teacher is helpless, just pull it, and no one will doubt you if you study well.

I also have boys I like, but liking is not the same as love, so don't worry, as long as you don't delay your studies, then you have a clear conscience, and if you talk to your homeroom teacher, if he is talking to you, you tell him, I just appreciate him, I hope you don't target me again. You will interfere with my studies by doing so).

It's a bit too straight. I don't know your specific situation, so that's all I can say.

It's okay to add points or not, I hope to help you.

In fact, there is a way, even if it is a drag, it doesn't matter.

took the initiative to talk to his mother, lying that he had no feelings for him anymore.

At school too, be cold to him.

But when the head teacher was away, he secretly told him why he was cold.

If the homeroom teacher targets you, you will get a good grade.

Pretend to be a good student. Don't go-for-tat, or you'll be the one who suffers.

And, in this case, the boy will also think that you care about him.

Your relationship is also easy to get close.

I'm 14 years old.

But as long as you study well, the teacher doesn't care about anything.

PS: Although I don't study well.

Why don't you go to the hospital to find a psychiatrist for consultation? Support you.

It doesn't matter, let them want to go whatever they like, you just count it.

It's not a serious matter anyway.

Go with the flow.

I understand you. But I want to know if that male classmate is in the same situation as you?

Let's be honest. You can't blame your parents and teachers. Who told us that Chinese education has always been like this. Very depressing.

If that guy hasn't worried about your recent situation, then he's nothing, not even a real friend.

If two people have thought about this problem, then I will make a suggestion, this is the most effective, but it may not be able to do, that is, the original good grades continue to maintain good grades; It turns out that the grades are poor or generally progressive, and the teachers and parents all look at the grades to speak. I'm like this, as long as I have good grades, as long as I don't do anything too out of line, I won't talk about you.

Actually, I'm very depressed about this, but the students can't help it.

ps: You two don't frolic in front of the teacher, the teacher must be crooked.

Me used to be too.

It was posted online by classmates for discussion.

Even the school leaders knew.

But at that time, I was very calm.

Just treat this person as an ordinary good friend.

I didn't let go of my studies at all.

In the middle of the term, he won the second place in the grade.

Slowly, the teacher's distrust disappeared.

Alas! Go with the flow, your parents may be considering transferring to another school.

You're still young, even though I'm only a year or two older than you.

However, you'll find out when you enter high school. Everything before was so naïve, high school, that matures, . .

At your current stage, the decline in grades is not good for the future, maybe if I speak to you in this tone, you will not listen.

But, think for yourself, you can't be miserable for a few years of happiness, right?

The most precious thing in a person's life is these few years.

It's a waste.

I'm just like you before.

Later, I knew it hurt. .

I also regretted it, and I worked hard, although the results caught up, but you don't understand how many hardships of the night battle.

Let's go back. There is no cliff in the bitter sea, and don't hate your head teacher, he is also good for you...

Ask you again, the person you like, do you confirm that he will not change his mind and will always be good to you?

If you're sure he's not showing you what he's doing, but he's really getting better, then don't worry about the obstruction at home.

Do your parents' work first, it's best to do it, if you can't do it, you can only choose one of the two choice questions, no matter which side you choose, I can only tell you that the vast majority of marriages without the blessing of your parents are unhappy, you have to think clearly.

Break off the father-daughter relationship and be with him if he's really good.

On the 2nd floor, how can there be a scum like you in this society, to put it bluntly, you are aiding and abusing.

Little sister listens to my brother Your parents are from the past. Trust your parents, they will never hurt you.

When I first read your first few words, I thought to myself, is it encouraging you to continue your relationship with this man! But after reading it, I realized that the people around me, whether it was your father, and other people said that this boy was not good! Then it is very clear that this man will not give you happiness!

Sometimes you have to think about it from other thoughts, why he is good to you, he just wants to be with you, but after being together, can you guarantee that he can continue to be good to you? Although human nature is very good, people are also very greedy! We are not celebrities, we are not gods, we do not have noble qualities!

Even celebrities, there are a few celebrities nowadays who are not in it for money!

You are introverted and can't express it, it doesn't matter, you can go online, there are bad people on the Internet, but as long as you guard against it, he won't bully you! Slowly you will learn how to make friends from the Internet, which will be very helpful for you in the future!

Don't let one tree give up the whole forest, although it is a joke, but if you think about it, there is some truth to it!

Give it to your dad, say it's a surprise ...... for him

The description is not detailed, how old are you? If you're about the same age, why not just tell them?

First of all, please ask your age, if you are still a student, you may want to study hard! When you reach the age of love, you will naturally meet your dishes!

Is your parent's concern about you spending money indiscriminately or who are you spending money for?

It depends on what you're sending.

What grade are you in now? What gifts did you buy?

Since that boy is very hard-working, he should be good in all aspects of his work in the future, so why are you worried that your parents look down on him? Love is your own, and the future will be your own, you have to grasp it well!! Since you think it's a good boy, don't give up.

Sister, you are an adult and have the right to decide. Have you figured it out? Never give up for a lifetime, and if you think about it, you will implement it ruthlessly. Assert yourself.

If you don't really love him, let go of your precious little hand.

Understood?? Younger sister..

First ask your parents why they don't agree with you, parents are really good for their children, there must be a reason, ask the reason before making a plan.

Well, cherish your true love! Don't wait for the loss to regret it.

Your parents are also good for you, after all, it must be the girls who suffer. You can be good friends, as long as you don't do anything out of line. Let's make progress together.

You like a boy and feel sorry for your parents. It's so sad. It's because you're still in school and fall in love without a job, then you're really sorry for your parents, they work hard to want you to get ahead, you don't work hard to find your future, but you are entangled in your children's private affairs.

You should keep your likes in your heart, study hard, strive to achieve success in your studies, and of course you can also compete with each other to see who has good grades. If you are of marriageable age, then tell your parents and reassure them. In this way, love and love for your parents are not wrong.

You're so cute......What's ...... about this

First of all, how old are you? Is it good to study?

I think it's normal, everybody goes through it, even if your parents have had ......If you're in middle school, it's best to tell your parents that they'll understand, and at most it's just a "don't interfere with your studies" or something like that, and maybe your mother will ask you how the boy is......

It's really normal, and if you want to open it now after reading my words, then you don't have to say it to your parents......Finally, I wish you progress in your studies and a happy ......

Hahahaha... It's okay. Be brave and chase it.

Why do you feel sorry for your parents, are you a boy?

Then you have to take the initiative to admit your mistakes to others, only in this way can you strengthen the relationship between you.