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Hello, I'm used to giving someone something, she's used to it, and she doesn't feel it, and she doesn't even have a thank you, I think this is true, and if you don't give it in the future, she will think it's wrong with you. Therefore, gifts should be given once in a while at the right time to appear precious and surprise the other party.

Yes, when this behavior becomes a habit, she takes it for granted. Remember the story of an egg? A doesn't like to eat eggs, and gives B to eat every time he sends eggs.

At first, B was very grateful, but over time I got used to it.

Once you get used to it, you take it for granted.

So, until one day, A gave the egg to C, and B was not happy.

She forgot that the egg was originally A's, and A could give it to whomever she wanted. For this reason, they had a big quarrel and broke off their friendship ever since. This is the story, if one day, you don't give her anything anymore, then, it's also the day you break up.

Give something to a girl, the other party is also used to your gift, not even say thank you, can only say that your feelings are getting deeper and deeper, ignore this link, if you are good, get along well, if there is a result, it will always be like this, if you feel that there is no result, give up as soon as possible.

Yes, everything is used to it, and it slowly becomes a matter of course, the first gift he may be very grateful, the second time will be, the third time will be grateful, but after a long time, he will get used to it, if one day you give something to someone else and don't give it to him, he will resent you, thinking that this thing should have been given to him, he forgets that this thing is yours, from gratitude to resentment.

This is a very typical case, human nature is very greedy, after all, there are a few people with a grateful heart, I hope your gift will not be wasted!

When a woman really likes you, she will naturally consider you, and if she doesn't like you, she will always try her best to make it convenient for herself, but when she really likes you, she will pay special attention to her image in your heart, and girls will ask themselves to become more sensible, will think more about you, and can't help but pay for you.

Yes, he felt that he should give it to him, and he didn't say thank you.

If he is used to giving something to a person, he may feel that it is a matter of course, and he may not have feelings for you but feel that this is something you should do. Therefore, we must treat everyone with the right amount of degree.

I've also met, a very good friend, some time ago I went to Hong Kong to buy a bag to give her, and I went to the courier company early in the morning to send it to her, and she didn't tell me when she received it, so I didn't say thank you. I've known her for years, and I know that she is such a person, but I feel very uncomfortable. You can only be this kind of person, and you don't know how to be a person.

Or maybe she thinks she's too familiar with you, so she doesn't say that, thinking you know in her heart that some people have personality like that.

You give someone a lunch box for no reason, you just want her to say thank you, nothing else?

Don't worry too much about it, just adjourn the meeting.

It's so talented.,The first time I heard that I was going to send a girl's lunch box to when I fell on the spot, it's really awesome.,Is it that every time you send her something, it's to run to her thank you.,She accepted it.,Of course, you're used to it.,You just said that your mother sent you a clothes lunch box or something like that, do you say thank you?,It's related to a certain degree of politeness.,Of course, this is my personal opinion.,For reference only.。

Don't be overly concerned, that will turn into an indulgence for her.

didn't treat you as an outsider, accepted you from the heart, you can boldly ask her and hold her hand.

She's used to your goodness, and I don't think it's important to be attentive every day, but to be focused

Saying thank you means that she treats you as an outsider, and if you don't say it, you're used to it, and you don't have to say thank you.

How much is a set of lunch boxes worth? It's too cheap.

Got used to your kindness to her.

Do you care so much about that thank you.

If you want to chase, send it for a week. One week is the period of habit cultivation for people. If you don't dump her after that, you'll have your way.

She is probably tired, you should think about whether she has something on her mind, and as everyone said, are you just sending it for a thank you? Obviously not, if you have any special feelings for her, you can say it boldly.

I think it's too much to say thank you.

You're willing to send it, why do you want to ask for a thank you word.

That means you're in a better relationship.

You just want a thank you from him for giving him a gift?

Once you're familiar with it, you just need to know it in your heart.

Take it for granted, this kind of woman rarely touches.

That's because he thinks the lunch box is too simple.

I took it for granted and got used to it.

said that it was your ex, and you gave her a gift, you are so easy to deceive, she naturally won't take you seriously.

It's right to despise, you can't be a person who doesn't even understand basic gratitude and gratitude.

Of course yes, if you miss each other, it will be difficult for two people to get together again, and it will be difficult to have a chance to become boyfriend and girlfriend again, so everything about him has nothing to do with you.

Yes, since you have missed it, it means that everything on the other party in the future has nothing to do with you, and the reality is like this.

Since you have missed it, the relationship between the two of you is a stranger, and he really has nothing to do with you.

If I miss someone, everything about the other party has nothing to do with me, because missing is missing and there is no way to get back.

Yes, since they have all been missed, it means that the two are not suitable for being together, everything about him has nothing to do with you, and you should no longer be entangled with him, otherwise it will only make each other more uncomfortable.

Yes, because he has missed it, then he will never have anything to do with himself, everything about him has nothing to do with him, let it go quickly.

Yes, you've missed her, so you shouldn't bother with her life anymore, everything about her has nothing to do with you anymore, and the two of you are no longer strangers.

I feel like everything about him still has something to do with me, and I will still pay attention to him, after all, he is my past.

It can be said that since you have missed it, there is no need to contact again, and there is no need to ask the other party about anything, just live yourself.

I think that whether it is the same sex or the opposite sex, the premise is to like or appreciate the other person, will be good to a person for a long time, this will be upgraded to a habit of being good to a person, caring about all the joys, sorrows and sorrows of the other party, and there is also a willingness to be able to become a habit, and I have no feelings.

I don't think it's possible, I think whether it's the same sex or the opposite sex, the premise is to like or appreciate each other, it will be good to a person, and after a long time, this will escalate to a habit of being good to a person, caring about all the joys and sorrows of the other party, and there is also a willingness to be a habit, and I don't feel it.

It's possible, for example, that the other person is of the same sex as you, and I am also very good to my sisters, and of course I am also very good to the opposite sex, like you said, and then, he becomes my boyfriend...

Friend: You are used to being nice to someone, you are used to caring about someone, but you are not a friend you like. With this possibility, habit becomes natural.

Yes It's very likely, I've had it, and I've seen that he is jealous of others, but he really doesn't like it at all.

1. Instead of worrying about the ingratitude of others, it is better not to have expectations in the first place.

This principle applies both in the workplace and in everyday life. Don't think about what to do if others don't know how to be grateful, but keep a calm mind and don't have expectations, which is the right way to deal with it.

2. Gratitude is the result of upbringing.

We can't expect everyone in this world to have a good family education and a good family upbringing. But keep a good attitude, be yourself, educate your next generation, and teach them to be grateful. You can't let yourself grow up to be the person that others hate the most, and you can't train the next generation to be a person that society hates.

3. Improve your strength.

In interpersonal communication, everyone has their own purpose, and it is only because of everyone's different pursuits, values, ideas, standards and other factors that different results will occur. Dissecting the phenomenon to see the essence, in fact, behind people's interpersonal interactions is the purpose of finding "importance" in life.

4. Make flexible use of "willingness".

No matter how complicated the human relationship is, those who are willing to pay will always get their own results. This is the "giving" in interpersonal communication, and only by giving can there be gain.

A person who is never willing to suffer losses and is unwilling to pay, it is impossible for him to understand the mystery of "giving" in interpersonal communication. This is also the reason why people always suffer losses are blessings, and why people who are dedicated to the company and strive to improve themselves in the workplace are promoted quickly.

5. Not all people can become friends.

People gather by like, and things by groups. No matter how many people are the same, they can't be exactly the same. In the workplace, there is no such thing as a friend, because as an employee, the reason why you become a colleague with him is because the two of you have the same goal, both for your own workplace life.

The interests of colleagues are conflicting, because there are so many things in a pot, and the more you get, the less he will inevitably have. This affects the competitiveness of interpersonal relationships from the material.

I advise you not to be too utilitarian, if you help people just for others to say thank you, then it's not worth it, this also varies from person to person, maybe people don't say it, but be grateful, I think as long as you do things worthy of your conscience.

Help doesn't need a purpose, if there is a purpose that asks for help, do you ask yourself is help? Of course, help others, and she is not worth helping, then next time you don't help, the help is not necessarily manifested in the mouth, maybe she remembers it in her heart, and when you are in trouble, you can see whether she (he) is not grateful.

I have also met such a person 20 years ago, I lent him the money for medical treatment, and the money was not very much, alas, what was the mood at that time, and I haven't paid it back yet, and he is still avoiding me, but this kind of person will not contact it next time, and there are still many good people.

Things gather like things, people divide by groups, and helping people should also look right.

Not everyone knows how to be grateful! The quality of a person is related to the education he has received since childhood, and it is difficult for a person without education to learn to respect others. The landlord is understandably confused, and I hope the landlord can face the reality and make educated friends! (All hand-hit, the landlord gives points).

Stick to your heart and be ungrateful, two ways, either continue to help her, hoping that one day she can recognize. Either stop helping her, you have done it to help others, follow your heart, and have a clear conscience! People like her don't deserve your help!

There will be a wall in people's hearts, but the thickness is different, you can't see each other once, but it doesn't mean that you will never see it, don't change your original intention because of other people's attitudes. Follow your heart, and you will have your own happiness!

In the face of people who don't know gratitude, we don't have to care, because the purpose of helping others is not to get the gratitude of others, but to bring convenience and benefits to others with your kind intentions and good deeds. We firmly believe that "giving people roses, hands have fragrance".

Going back to your original intention of helping people, you don't help people to get any good reward. If that's the case, you'll be very insincere and tired, and you'll be sad if you don't get paid.

It's best to be prepared for this kind of preparation before helping, think about those who help the elderly on the road but are framed as the perpetrators, what kind of mentality should they have to face all this? Eat a sting and grow a wisdom.

The purpose of helping people is not to repay, and the one who counts the reward is not called help! Helping others is a very kind thing, so you need to have the right attitude and treat it with a normal heart.

As the saying goes, you don't expect to repay kindness, it is your cultivation to do it, and it is human nature to not do it. And for an ungrateful person, I don't think you need to care too much, this is his immorality, over time he will taste the bitter fruit, of course, if you want to help him, it will be a very meaningful thing.

Well. This kind of thing is very common. Helping others doesn't really want to make others grateful.,But others take it for granted.。。

It's better not to have a deep deal with her for this kind of person. What you want to do the most should be happy. Don't be afraid to help others again.

Think too much, this society is like this, we are not heroes, many times we can only adapt instead of change, this kind of thing is to learn from experience, everything is to eat a trench and grow wise.

The gang still has to help, he doesn't thank you for your problem, the world is so big, it's normal to meet one or two such people, I believe most of them are good, grateful.

In fact, the purpose of helping people is not to make people grateful to you, if they are not grateful, we will not do good deeds? We have to face it with a normal heart, you do good deeds that is the accumulation of your life, and it is also a Chinese virtue, I want to carry forward this virtue, and use our actions to influence those who do not know how to be grateful and reciprocate.

For example, in Buddhism, generosity is good, but if there is a desire to reciprocate after giving, and there is still greed in this heart, then greed is not good. To give favors, you must be sincere and sincere, it is for his good, and there is no heart to report fame - do not seek fame and profit, do not be greedy for other people's returns, this heart is pure.