When children reach high school, they have a strong sense of vanity and always want brand name shoes

If a child's vanity.

Very strong, indicating that his grades are average, he does not receive enough attention at school and at home, and he also mistakenly thinks that his parents do not love him. Once this happens to a child in high school, parents need to talk to their child and review whether they have neglected their child's feelings because they are busy with work. First of all, parents should express their love for their children and let them know that it is important.

It is also necessary to tell the child that a minor's use of a name tag can only show that his parents are very wealthy, and do not show the minor's own ability, and guide the child to focus on learning.

Why do some children have extreme vanity?

Because the child thinks that his presence is weak and wants to be noticed by others. Perhaps the most important thing for students is their academic performance, appearance, and dress. Studies have shown that wealth is worth.

In the hands of a few, that is, only a few children will have wealthy parents, and only a few students can afford to use the brand, and these few people are often the center of attention. Some obscure kids may want to be in that spotlight as well.

Children who are obsessed with brand-name products may have psychological distress

It is true that a high school student can get more attention with a famous brand, but if a high school student's parents are not wealthy and he wants to attract the attention of the public by using a brand-name mobile phone, then he may have psychological problems. This high school student may have average academic performance and relatively ordinary appearance, and has never been the focus of attention in the eyes of his classmates, and his parents are also indifferent to their children, he has no sense of existence at home, and he will mistakenly think that his parents do not love him. If a high school student has such a psychological misunderstanding, parents should open their children's hearts and pay more attention to their children in life.

Parents should affirm their children's uniqueness, tell them to do their best in learning, and can also help their children enroll in some interest classes to let them develop some specialties, so that their children's lives are enriched and their hearts are fuller.

If a child is loved enough by his parents, he is focused on his studies, and his heart is rich, then he will definitely not pursue the brand.

At this time, parents can say to their children that vanity is not to bring you real inner fulfillment, even if you give brand-name shoes and brand-name mobile phones, it is also obtained through parents, if you want to achieve real success, you can only get it through your own efforts.

I think parents should tell their children some truths, in fact, they should also tell their children that such a behavior is very wrong, and it will also bring certain impact and harm to himself, which is a wrong behavior, and should give children a good guidance.

It is necessary to let children know the correct concept of consumption, do not have a comparison mentality, talk to children about this issue correctly, and at the same time, parents should also review themselves to see if they are ignoring their children.