Vanity is at work, what is vanity?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-07
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Everyone has vanity, and who doesn't want to live a good life? Who doesn't want their own.

    Male and girlfriend are good to themselves, rich, powerful, and have good food and housing.

    Okay, that's all normal, but remember that feelings always trump that.

    Materially, when you hear again your friends after a few years because of feelings.

    It's not good, it's a divorce, a division of property, a house, a car, your boyfriend at the time.

    I still don't have a house or a car, but I have a good relationship with you, and I have a good relationship with you, what will you have in your heart.

    How do you feel? It's definitely fun.

    Material things can be created with your other half as you need.

    What everyone needs is a person who can endure hardships with themselves and create wealth together, not a person who shares the fruits of your labor as soon as they come

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    People are yearning for a better life, not only you have this kind of thought, this is normal, who doesn't like a life with a car, a house and money? But everyone has a different life, other people's scenery is not necessarily happier than your ordinary, learn to be satisfied, be content and happy, life does not have to be rich to be happy!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Maybe it's human nature. I think everyone feels this way at some point. A quote I loved"Cherish what you have now"

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Always see the goodness of others, do you see the sadness of others?

    You don't have to think about these all the time, because comparison will only make people narrow, and you can live your life well. Thinking that their love is smooth sailing, and their work is still satisfactory, they can't envy it. Life is your own, and what you think is good is good.

    365 days a year, do you think about how others live, I don't want to, I just want to live well.

    Relax and live well.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Rich men are buying women's hearts with money, and although I used to be such a man, I now feel that I can't get someone who loves me like this!

    Don't care how good others are, as long as you both love each other, you are an incomparable pair in the eyes of others! Although there is no money and no car, but that's just the appearance, as long as you work together, one day these things will still be there!

    I'm sticking with you! +u for you

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Comrade, I'm about the same as you, it's okay, I'm sure we'll be happier than her in a few years. You're good. It's so much better for your boyfriend to have you than to have a car and a house.

    Remember, though, don't be too bad for yourself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Every girl wants to marry a man who is tall, handsome, rich and loves herself, this is not vanity, this is substance! It's a dream!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You are not vain, people are more angry than people.

    In fact, although she seems to be better off than you, she may not be happier than you.

    Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Vanity is a psychological state of human beings, whether ancient or modern, Chinese and foreign, whether men, women or children, rich and poor, rich and low, all have self-esteem, if self-esteem is distorted, it is vanity. It is an excessive expression of self-esteem, a character flaw in the pursuit of false appearances, and a social-emotional and psychological state that people exhibit in order to achieve honor and attract universal attention.

    Vanity is manifested in behavior, mainly blind comparison, great joy, excessive emphasis on other people's evaluation, too strong desire for self-expression, strong jealousy, etc.

    1.People with strong vanity have a strong dependence, lack of independence, and think they have the ability"Lacking"。

    2.People with vanity have stronger self-esteem than ordinary people However, due to dependence, they lack self-confidence, outwardly manifested as excessive self-esteem, overly sensitive to certain things, concerned about others' evaluation of themselves, and internally manifested as inferiority, not believing that they can achieve their wishes through hard work, and hoping to get what they want through a quick way.

    3.This kind of dependence is caused by the incomplete and incorrect education of parents, often parents also have vanity, dependence and do not know it, generally this kind of parents pay attention to the cultivation of children's morality, but do not know how to cultivate children's ability, or their ability is not very strong.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The reasons for the formation of vanity are roughly due to the following:

    1.It has a strong dependency.

    People with strong vanity are generally less independent and like to rely on others, which also leads to defects in their abilities.

    2.Low self-confidence.

    Because of the strong dependence, resulting in their own self-confidence is insufficient, they are too persistent in self-esteem, and they care very much about others' evaluation of themselves, hoping to cover up their shortcomings through superficial brilliance.

    3.Improper parental education.

    Many people with strong vanity, their parents are often vain, and in the childhood exposure, they gradually become the same people as their parents, or their parents have adopted an improper training model in education, resulting in the lack of children's ability, lack of self-confidence, and self-esteem is distorted into vanity.

    The main manifestation of vanity.

    1.Showing off: People with a strong sense of vanity will start to show off as soon as they get a little material or spiritual achievement, because such people tend to have low self-esteem to the extreme, and only then do they need to cover it up by desperately showing their strengths and shine.

    2.Comparison: People with strong vanity tend to slap their swollen faces and become fat, care very much about what others say about themselves, and are afraid of falling behind others and being ridiculed.

    3.Lying: Sometimes in order to support the scene, people with strong vanity even do not hesitate to cover up the facts with huge lies in order to save their face.

    4.Easy to be jealous: People with strong vanity have low self-esteem in their bones, and they are very envious of others who have better material conditions or greater achievements, and this envy is often distorted into a kind of jealousy by vanity.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Vanity is:1Vanity is generated by comparison, and it is the result of competing for scenery.

    2.It is false glory, detached from reality.

    3.It is a distorted self-esteem, an excessive manifestation of self-esteem.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Vanity, as I understand it, is the desire for things and treatments that are beyond one's ability without looking at one's own immediate situation. This is a bad mental activity, and we need to remind ourselves from time to time to stay awake and avoid being dominated by vanity in our lives and actions.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Vanity is a psychological state, vanity is manifested in behavior, mainly blind comparison, great joy, too much attention to the evaluation of others, too strong desire for self-expression, strong jealousy, etc.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Vanity is a psychological state of human beings, vanity is manifested in behavior, mainly blind comparison, great joy, too much attention to the evaluation of others, too strong desire for self-expression, strong jealousy, etc.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Vanity is a kind of psychological expansion, like others to praise you, and you also like to show off, and it is also a kind of psychological disease if it is serious.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Vanity is special envy, or um, seeing what other people's vanity is, is special envy, or well, seeing what others have, what they want. Particularly vain.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Vanity ostensibly means that what others have and you want to have.

    Vanity is to show off and compare and love face, and excessive flaunting and comparison to love face is an unhealthy psychology and is not worth advocating.

    But a moderate amount of vanity can also sometimes help us to strengthen our attitude of pursuing our ideals.

    In short, as long as there is nothing wrong with not violating ethics and morality and not being too vain in reasonable needs, it is also human nature, and there is a degree.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You care a lot about what other people think, and you want to show off yourself and do something that makes others feel that you are good. Too much vanity can lead to a sick life of "living under the eyes of others". For example, the purpose of becoming excellent is not because I want to achieve my ideals in a down-to-earth manner, but because I want to surpass so-and-so, I want others to see that I am stronger than so-and-so, which can be said to be vanity.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Vanity is about paying too much attention to superficial things and constantly comparing yourself to others. Vanity is actually a rather abstract concept. Everybody basically has a little vanity in fact.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    a thirst for vanity; arrogance about one's appearance, learning, role, possessions, or achievements; A thirst for a show or a compliment. Psychology considers vanity to be a distorted form of self-esteem, an excessive manifestation of self-esteem.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Vanity is actually common to everyone, especially women, but some people have too much vanity, and it's normal to have a little bit of vanity, that is, they like to brag about it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Vanity is a state of mind, a derogatory term.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    To put it simply, it is to slap a swollen face and become fat.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    What is vanity? I think vanity is a change in a person's psychological qualities.

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