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Anonymous users2024-02-121. Adjust yourself.
Don't criticize yourself just yet, but make adjustments. Feel what emotions you have about your own behavior of resisting your parents' concerns? What's your idea?
Then analyze what is the message of your emotions? After this awareness, you can wait until the real reason for your resistance, and then think about what you can do to meet your parents' concerns. Then accept the care of your parents with peace of mind.
2. Communicate with your parents.
You can communicate with your parents about the difficulties you are facing, and don't carry everything alone. Let your emotions have an outlet, and communicating with your parents is a good choice! Trust your parents, and when they know your actual situation, they will definitely understand and be considerate of you.
When we were children, we felt that our parents were omnipotent, and when we grew up, we were always afraid of causing trouble to our parents, in fact, if you can have a smooth communication with your parents, your communication will be smoother in the future.
3. There is no right or wrong to receive, and the feeling will not disappear completely because he wants to restrain him.
On the basis of not being able to refuse, it seems that you have to pretend to accept what they give you, I wonder if you have room to be yourself? At the same time, you also mentioned that you haven't graduated yet, and your family has already begun to help you arrange work in advance, I seem to see parents who are always afraid that their children will "not have enough to eat", and there is some anxiety in their care. And the most depressing part is that you can't express it, and I don't know if if you say "no", will you worry about causing an attack on your parents and family?
When people's emotions accumulate to a certain extent but cannot be expressed, the body will help us to express it, and you use the word somatization, I believe you also understand something.
In fact, there is no right or wrong feeling, and the feeling will not disappear completely because he wants to suppress him, nor does it mean that we will definitely do something impulsive and bad when we feel it. Their love is real, but your "need" is also real, and the need and giving are inconsistent, which is difficult to evaluate with right and wrong. It is because you are an individual that you feel different from your family, and even if you can't refuse your family's concern now, please stop whipping your feelings.
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Anonymous users2024-02-11It is possible that your family members are not very good to you, and every time they contact you, they don't care about you, encourage you, and always say things that you don't like to hear, so you reject contacting people in your family.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10At this time, you become more independent, you will rarely contact your family, you don't want your family to control you too much, although your family is very concerned about you, you also understand, but you just don't want to take the initiative to contact, even if you occasionally contact will feel very bored, want to live independently.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09Maybe it's because you've been under too much pressure lately, so you don't want to contact your family, it may be because your family is really nagging, but no matter what, our parents love us.
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She is 24 years old because of adolescence, she may feel that she has grown up, she feels that she can face life independently, she feels that she can go to society, she no longer needs you, she doesn't need her mother to nag every time, she wants to have her own opinions, she wants to do something she likes, she thinks that her mother is so nagging and everything has to be said again and again, otherwise she will not agree with her to do this and that, but you and she still don't understand some mother's love for her, the mother feels uneasy and afraid that her daughter will be hurt, there are thousands of people in the world, young girls are easy to believe that others are easy to be deceivedThere are too many such examples, young girls have not yet been able to distinguish between good people and bad people, you will not find out that the bad people are well disguised, and it will be too late to find out, and the mother will tell her because she loves her, so she can't bear to see her regret it for a lifetime in the future, she should understand her mother's good intentions, understand more, be more filial and accompany her mother, this is what should be done.
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