Why do I have no feelings for my family, and what causes my lack of feelings for my family?

The main reason for the occurrence of this phenomenon is that the atmosphere in which you grew up in a family is not particularly good, it may be that your parents have quarreled all year round or they have divorced. Especially when you were young, some of your parents' behaviors and practices towards you hurt your heart. You feel that your parents don't care enough for you, which leads to your growing up and you become very indifferent and have no feelings for your loved ones.

I have a girl who is just that, and when we were still enjoying campus life, she left her hometown alone and started to struggle, and she never returned home once a year. The reason is that she also has a younger brother, and when she was young, her parents were very doting on her younger brother, and they beat and scolded her.

Another reason is that you are a precocious person, and you have been a very independent and indifferent person since you were a child. I didn't worry much about my parents about anything, and at a very young age, I was able to take care of my life and study in an orderly manner. You feel that you can live well alone, and your parents' little meaning to you is limited to childbirth, and you usually don't have anything to say when you see them, and you don't know how to communicate with him.

In fact, you feel that you have no love for your loved ones, in fact, this is only limited to the daily trivial life, when something really big happens in the family, such as a serious illness of your parents, or sudden death. You will suddenly find that you love your parents very much.

Your parents are people who are not good at expressing love, and at the same time you have inherited this kind of personality from them, in fact, it is not that they do not love, but they are shy to express it in words. Feel the true thoughts of your heart and repay them for their nurturing kindness, how can anyone not love their relatives?

Hello nihao, it may be that there is no regeneration since childhood, or there is less time together and less communication. It's good to talk more together and get closer and closer.

I felt like I lacked fatherly love.

I imagined a father figure.

Hope I am.

Summary. There are generally two reasons for this situation, one is that the family is not harmonious, and the family members are relatively indifferent to each other. If the child grows up in this kind of family environment, then it is easy to lack family concept and have no feelings for the family; In addition to the environmental factor, the other aspect is the personal factor, some people are indifferent by nature and have no feelings for anyone.

The former can be adjusted appropriately to improve the situation, while the latter is difficult to change.

There are generally two reasons for this situation, one is that the family is not harmonious, and the family members are relatively indifferent to each other. If the child grows up in this kind of family environment, then it is easy to lack family concept and have no feelings for the family; In addition to the environmental factor, the other aspect is the personal factor, some people are indifferent by nature and have no feelings for anyone. The former can be adjusted appropriately to improve the situation, while the latter is difficult to change.

Everyone will be affected by the outside world in the process of growing up, and change, the general family will not feel the bitterness of life, so they will not feel the importance of parental kindness, there is no opportunity to feel family affection in life, as you grow up you will understand the kindness of your parents, especially when you become a parent.

Anyway, I wish you happiness.

Summary. Hello dear, I think that some people are indifferent by nature in the situation you described, and this practice is not necessarily some disease, but it may be like a snake by nature, cold-blooded and ruthless.

Hello dear, I think some people are indifferent by nature in this situation, and this practice is not necessarily some disease, it may be that they are like snakes, hungry and cold-blooded, and ruthless.

But if the person is inherently optimistic, enthusiastic, and positive.

Later, it became the feeling that there was no clear key to the family. It is possible that this is a change in the heart and mind, and at the same time, there are also changes in the nerves, and there may indeed be some mental illness.

At the same time, having no feelings for anyone does not mean that this person is not good, which means that this person is very rational, has no weakness, is very strong, and is also a very key rubber person. Wild bright and slippery.

I've been a different child since Hyoji was born, I'm bored with everything from others, and of course my IQ is also very good, my mom and dad are very busy, so I and my sister are raised by my grandmother, and my grandmother they obey the big ones to be good to the small, so it's my fault that my sister has something bad to do, to disguise, to pretend to be what they want.

I got it.

Your family background is indeed the reason for your character. And you say that you were born like this, but you can actually feel it.

Because there are indeed such children, who are more detached in their minds.

I feel like it doesn't matter in the world. At the same time, you must have a high IQ.

I understand how you feel in this disguise. You have something that you just keep in your heart.

In fact, I think everyone is equal, and I don't say that the big one must give way to the small one. The thinking of the older generation is not so advanced.

Pretending to be the way they look is actually very dark-bellied, and no one understands what you really think in your heart.

Then I felt disgusted, I didn't want to pretend anymore, I started to deliberately let my grades slip, what I got was Moyin and their disgust, I was very happy, but they turned their blind eyes to my sister, and it backfired, they saw that we were both useless, and began to double the pressure on us, and we started to harm ourselves.

Dear, first of all, what you do will not gain anything, and you will not let others be punished, but will only really hurt yourself.

I guess your personality should be an avoidant attachment personality. The more others hope that you are good, the worse you are, the more others look down on Yinbi and you change your Zen, and the more disappointed you are in the nuclear dust, the happier you are in your heart.

You love the feeling of people looking down on you. In fact, you have a slight tendency to be a sadistic companion. Because of the rebellious at this age, and he avoids the reed-style personality, it will cause this omenous consequence.

You're happy, they hate you. But in fact, if you think about it carefully, you are complacent here, in fact, each of them has lived their own lives, and the other party doesn't care too much about you, you have always been a self-conscious Zen.

Therefore, it is recommended that you do not do this kind of behavior to hurt yourself, and you must protect your body.