I m in love with a boy who is five years younger than me, but his family is against it, what should

I had a girlfriend who had a boyfriend who was two years younger than him, and then broke up because of family reasons. However, after the breakup, I found out that he was not the most suitable for her.

Although sibling love is now very common, there is a lot of external pressure and pressure on oneself.

You imagine if you could bear the disapproving eyes of his parents and relatives, if you could bear the face of him younger than you in n years, if you could bear it.

Well, you can go ahead.

Otherwise, let's get along calmly for a while.

The key question is not what you should do, it depends on the attitude of the boy, believe me, from his attitude, you must be able to tell what you should do.

I believe that he is the one who loves you the most, because many men nowadays like women who are a few years older than themselves.

You like him, and he loves you, as long as you are determined to be together. Will get married.

If it's true love, age isn't an issue at all.

Raw rice is cooked and cooked, and it depends on what his family still says haha.

There are too many to face in the future, and it is too painful.

Sweat. Can a child's love have a future?

What are you afraid of, as long as you really love each other, regardless of your parents' opposition, go out and stay outside for two years to have a child and go back.

If two people really love each other, they will work hard for their own happiness, he is marrying a wife for himself, not a daughter-in-law for his mother, it is a lifetime for the two of you, not a lifetime for you and his parents.

If the two of you are really going to be happy, think about whether you should give up your happiness for your family, and don't leave yourself a reason to regret it.

You can try to let your boyfriend meet with your parents, let your parents really feel good about him and your boyfriend, and let them know that it is OK to give your daughter to such a boy, and you will not be wronged by your daughter. And although this boy is young, he can take care of people, know his daughter's interests and hobbies, and know what his daughter likes to eat. I'm sure your parents will try to accept your boyfriend slowly.

If your parents are the kind of people who are more traditional and stubborn in their thinking, then I think you should tell them that you are going to grab a lot of sibling love outside now, and you don't mean that you must have sibling love, but the main thing is that this boy is really good to himself and really loves himself, so you have to talk to your parents about these things. Try to slowly open the knot in your parents' hearts, and they will try to accept your boyfriend

In fact, there are no parents in the world who don't want their children to be good. They all want their children to live happily ever after. They oppose sibling love, just because they are afraid that if you get married in the future, you will be pointed at by people outside, and you will end up sad.

So at this time, you have to make it clear to your parents that you don't care about other people's opinions, only your parents' opinions, if your parents don't agree, it will hurt your daughter's heart. I'm sure your parents will change their minds when they hear these words.

The most important thing is, how he treats you. Is it worth entrusting.

As long as two people really love each other, age is not a problem, and now there are many sisters and brothers who are very happy, like Jia Jingwen and Xiu Jiekai, Zhao Youting and Gao Yuanyuan are very happy.

I think it's better to make your own decisions about your feelings, and communicate with your parents

As long as the two truly love each other, slowly do the ideological work of their parents.

Forget it, sooner or later, the sister-brother relationship will end badly. Let's find someone of the same age.

Falling in love is your own business, and your parents can only give advice. If the two of you love each other, then stick with it and trust that your parents will understand and support you.

Listen to your heart and like it.

Parents are right, if the age difference is too large, you may face a lot of problems that will affect your life.

In my opinion, it is not too much of a problem for the boy I like to be five years younger than me, after all, age is not a problem, and the parents should talk about it.

, and live with people who like themselves for a lifetime. I believe that parents who love you and want you to live happily will support you.

Why? You're only 19 years old, you're either studying or you can't make any money, and you should be 24 years old, even if he has a chance, he will have to wait a few years, at least 3 years, when you are 27, he is only 22, do you say he still wants your sister? A woman's youth is precious Unless he is a rich second generation When he is 22 years old, he will be able to marry your 27-year-old sister immediately I believe that other families are unwilling

Can a boy 5 years younger than you take care of you? I'm telling you, I can't have your share in taking care of him It's only 19 pairs, I suspect he's sensible, such a boy is first ignorant, second, immature, third, it's basically just a trick, fourth, there is no economic foundation, what if you have a BB, what if you raise it alone? He's only 19 years old, and he can make a few bucks, unless he's a rich second generation, otherwise don't think about such a young man, you can be a friend, but it's better to avoid feelings, otherwise you'll regret it, really, I was in love at the age of 19 at that time, and we didn't have the ability to take on this responsibility at that time, I'm 23 now, and I still feel like I need to work hard for a while to play friends.

Parental considerations are not unfounded. Because after all, if a boy is younger than a girl, it is difficult to ensure that he will always take care of the girl. After all, age is a sensitive issue.

It's hard to avoid. However, if you really like this boy, it is recommended that you talk to him about your psychological doubts and see how he deals with them.

You also know that you are 5 years younger! Even if you like each other, you have to wait for him to mature a little, maybe the family can accept it!

It's too small, right, you think, women are already older, and when you get older, he's still very young, and you'll look a lot older, even if he doesn't think about it, you'll feel bad in your own heart.

He's too small... Not mature enough to give you a home or even to give you promises.

That boy is only fourteen years old, and his current parents belong to the category of hoping that their sons will become dragons and daughters will become phoenixes, and they must hope that you will focus on your studies now, and your parents should think that it is not too early to talk about these things. I should be!!

Girl, you're looking for your brother...

Four words: He's too immature (hey, it's four words, it seems to be).

It's just that people are liked, and boyfriends are two different things, the age gap is too big.

He doesn't have any money, huh? Your parents take pictures of you, afraid that you will suffer in the future.

Maybe he'll be better when he's older, if you're willing to be patient.

Not mature enough = = still studying Sister = =