I m a 23 year old boy and I ve wanted to be a girl since the fourth grade of elementary school

Friends, may be their own gender orientation biased towards defining themselves as girls, but this is actually nothing, must not feel pessimistic and hopeless, just like there are actually many, many marginal problems in the eyes of everyone in this world, such as homosexuality, transsexuals, etc., etc., but just like taking the gay community as an example, the formation of homosexuality is roughly divided into two dominant factors: congenital and acquired, which may be because genes and heredity may also be due to the experiences and experiences in the growth environment. This is normal, first of all, you don't need to be confused and sad all the time, you are the only one in this world as a single individual, and you don't need to deny yourself because of a certain point and group difference. Specific to the problem you said, it is recommended that you make a brave decision and choice based on your own specific situation, please be sure to deal with this problem with the basic mentality of loving yourself, if you make a choice against yourself in order to avoid the potential pain of others, then the person who loves you and the person you love, in fact, in the end, is still painful...It's very abstract, I'm sorry, and I wish you all the best.

Everyone's personality is different, and your situation shows that you can't correctly recognize your gender.

Well, there's not a lot of this now, and it's not uncommon for pseudo-mothers to be uncommon, but you have to make sure if you're gay, so that your mindset can be determined faster.

For psychological factors, you can see a psychiatrist.

I don't know about that, but parents like you will be worried...

The teacher said that it is not difficult to write so beautifully and improve the grades, indeed. Whether you do a good job or not is directly related to your own efforts. I am also convinced that people who can do one thing well can definitely do many things just as well, but society also needs people like you.

As for your poor studying, the main reason is that you spend too little time, or too little effective time. When I was going to graduate school, the teacher made a comment: This person is very introverted and suitable for research!

Introverts are more suitable for learning, because extroverts basically can't sit still, and learning requires sitting down and quietly swimming in the ocean of knowledge.

Everyone who becomes a top student is a person who studies very hard. The so-called heart is in an art, and its art must be refined; The heart is in one position, and its position must be lifted. If you can write very well, you must have put a lot of effort into writing, and if you can put more effort into learning, it is not impossible to become a top student.

Come on, come on, 520 write a few words for me today.

Be content, it is enough for a person to have a gift. I remember that there was a guy named Wang Xizhi, who was not bad.

Studying hard, serving the motherland, and repaying your parents is what you should do.

Bury it in your heart, study hard, and study well so that he can look up to you.

I like him silently, and I must not fall in love.

It's still small, don't blindly worship or like.

Don't worry, it's yours who will eventually study hard, get along well, and keep the relationship.

You're so young, study hard, kid.

Take the initiative, there is no reason to be unsuccessful.

Hehe, I still like my first year of high school.

Ask the doctor, it's so professional!

Why are girls born skinny? Because the skeleton is smaller than the skeleton of a man. And women are not athletic by nature.

At least Oriental women don't like sports. Lin Daiyu is generally beautiful. And the general atmosphere in society now is white and thin.

So the women are like thin hemp rods one by one.

If you want to become a woman, you have to live like a woman. First of all, you can't exercise. Second, eat less, fast more, and drink plenty of water.

You can lie down and don't stand, and you can sit and don't exercise. Eat more vegetables and fruits, and eat less high-calorie and high-fat foods. In short, let yourself slim down and let the muscles disappear.

Also, you can do some yoga exercises. Stretch stiff muscles. The figure will also be better. In short, do less strength-based exercises, and it's better not to do them. Do more stretching exercises. Get in better shape.

A man's skeleton is different from a woman's, and it's hard to think that you're going to be as thin as a girl, but you can try it out through various exercises, and if you want to become a woman, you have to live like a woman. First of all, you can't exercise. Second, eat less, fast more, and drink plenty of water.

You can lie down and don't stand, and you can sit and don't exercise. Eat more vegetables and fruits, and eat less high-calorie and high-fat foods. In short, let yourself slim down and let the muscles disappear.

Also, you can do some yoga exercises. Stretch stiff muscles. The figure will also be better.

In short, do less strength-based exercises, and it's better not to do them. Do more stretching exercises. Get in better shape.

It is recommended that you still face up to your gender, don't make unnecessary efforts, think about how you will have to have a girlfriend and marry a wife in the future, and ask which girl can accept these behaviors of yours, unless you want to fundamentally change your gender.

I'm the same, I want to shorten my bones and make my body thinner, which is what I want to achieve through surgery, but although I want to have surgery, I don't have the money to have surgery, at most I can only take some ** medicine.

Eat less high-calorie foods, eat vegetables and fruits, exercise more, and do more shoulder stretches.

First of all, you have to keep your male hormone secretion to a minimum. The easiest way to do this is to cut off the eggs.

It can be done by surgery, but why should a boy pursue thinness, being strong is also a kind of beauty.

Being strong and thin are relative, and if you can't change your body, you can only change your environment. The further north you go, the more big men there are. If you dress up a little more, you'll be a sprout in their eyes.

The body is strong and you can also exercise ** down, but the shoulder width is difficult, even if you lose weight, but the shoulder width can't be changed, so don't think about it unrealistically.

The bodies of men and women are inherently different, men should have the appearance of men, don't change themselves, even if the changes are very similar, it is a bit awkward to look at.

This is not possible.

Your own needs can only be realized when possible.

In addition, everyone's thoughts will change over time, don't point fingers.

The body comes first.

Then, eat less.

Exercise.

Shoulder width is its own skeleton, and it is difficult to change.

Girls are also fat, as long as you pretend well, you can do it.

Do you remember the hot cross-dressing boy on the Internet who turned into a girl? Thai hospitals are more specialized.

Drink meal replacement powder! Meal replacement powder is very easy to use, and you will lose 60-80 pounds if you stick to it for a few months.

In fact, the formation of this habit has a lot to do with your family environment when you were a child, mainly because no one will help you get ahead when you encounter things, and occasionally you will still be taught a lesson by adults when you win. Over time, you will be afraid of things, and the more you do this, the more others will bully you. Now that you've grown up, if you don't want to be bullied for the rest of your life, fight your own!

First of all, you must have a firm belief that as long as you are not wrong, do not compromise! Defend your dignity with your life! Don't be afraid, it's all two shoulders against one head, and if you are bullied, you will resist, otherwise you really can't change it.

Uh....I think this may have something to do with your family environment when you grew up. Because he didn't have his father's company, he had a cowardly personality. It's okay to see a psychiatrist, who can help you see yourself correctly and let you slowly have a correct understanding of yourself.

There is no need to practice martial arts, society is different from the army, and many things cannot be solved by force! The watchtower lord adopts!

It is recommended to read more books such as political inspiration to give you some insight. Why are we all human, what are you afraid of? There are bad people in this world and there will be good people, the world is wonderful because of differences, and the bad of others will always bring out your good, as long as you have a clear conscience, if you do yourself well in this life, and don't care too much about others, your life will be better in the next life!

Because the first half of a person's life is often influenced by his previous life, and the second half of his life has to rely on yourself! Believe in yourself, love yourself well, and you will always succeed! When you succeed, are you afraid that you won't find your daughter-in-law?

At that time, let alone looking for it, the beauties were all upside down. You're still young, don't wait until you're old to regret it. From now on, let those who look down on you see how they were blind in the first place!

The best revenge is that you want to live better than them, and then they will come to beg you!

There is not much difference between people, so you are not half a point shorter than others, so don't feel inferior in front of others, be good to others, others will also be good to you, and will not bully you. Work hard and work hard to pay off your mortgage. No one really looks down on anyone, it's a matter of your own mentality, and others will worship you if you have a skill.

Marriage should go with the flow, if you are in a hurry to make do with one, you will not be happy in the future.

You are a man, if you are a man, you must stand up to the sky, you must uphold, people do not offend me, I will not offend people, if people want to offend me, I will repay them! No matter how awesome a person is, he is also meaty.

I don't know how you can be so cowardly, you are always bullied by others and don't know how to fight back? But I always think that people like you may be quite scary, and they don't perish in silence, but explode in silence!

Your problem is nothing more than that you are stressed, you don't know how to deal with people, and it is impossible for everyone to target you.

It's time to get married at the age of 27, and the mutual respect and love between husband and wife can channel your emotions, and maybe your wife can protect you.

Be confident in yourself, it's important to be confident.

You're really a, it's all caused by low self-esteem. Take courage, your life shouldn't be like this.

If you can, you can fight, don't cause trouble, and don't be afraid.

Psychiatrists want to see, they can give you counseling, you said that you have been bullied since you were a child, did you not resist?

We're all in the same situation, but I'm 20

27-year-old boy, forgive me for laughing when I saw this.

I know why I'm so timid because I didn't get into trouble when I was a kid, maybe I guessed right.

Why don't I have a girlfriend yet!

Try to improve your level.

If you have a successful career, a good character, and a cultivated person...

Don't worry about not having a girlfriend...

So, it's imperative to be a good boyfriend for your future girlfriend first... Moreover, the boy is still very young at 23, okay...

One more time. Four or five years.

I don't think it's necessary to say what to do on purpose, it's best to show your true self, there is always something suitable for you, it's just that you haven't met it yet, just be happy with what you encounter!

Men have to be thick-skinned and will coax girls.

The most important thing is to let a girl know that you care about her!

Do the upstairs ones like Xingzi too?

Hehe, bosom friend.

23 years old is not too old, it is when I am working hard to start a business outside, how can I just think about these things every day?

You should start with math

Because math is more difficult, it will become more and more difficult after going to college. We all touch the language in the sky, I remember the teacher once said. The basic score of Chinese from primary school to high school will not change.

So more cram tuition. And now in the fourth grade, it will be troublesome to go to junior high school. Math can't be slowed down.

Boys are much later than girls, and girls learn well in primary school. Boys generally improve by leaps and bounds in their first year of junior high school, so there's no need to be in a hurry.

Make up mathematics first, mathematics is alive, language is dead, language can be copied and read a few times, but mathematics is different, mathematics depends on the brain to think and think.

It's okay, as long as I catch it now, my grades will skyrocket, my child is basically failing elementary school, going to middle school, turning the sky upside down, all the way up to the annual certificate, now in the second year of high school, the whole school can count.

It should be made up from the book where his grades have declined, so as to have an effect, and he should also accumulate more Chinese and practice more mathematics.

Then the basic knowledge must be not good, find an improvement class to mention the child's basic knowledge.

Since the first grade, your son's primary school foundation has not been laid.

Don't make it up, it's useless, it's good to be careful in class, and my family never makes it up.

It should start with calculations, followed by practical problems.

The main thing is to increase interest.

It feels very happy to be chased. It feels happier to be loved. So you should take it.

Although it feels ordinary now, it is necessary to believe that the relationship between people will become more subtle with the passage of time. I think you're going to get a crush on him. As for the family conditions, it should not have much to do with modern young people, as long as two people are healthy and happy with each other, they can stay together for a lifetime.

I'm 21 years old

Let's make a suggestion, the person you said is not bad, and then pick and choose may not necessarily return to a better one, maybe you like it and don't like you at all.

Why not find someone who loves you with all his heart?