My boyfriend knows the fact that I have plastic surgery, and he is now insisting on breaking up, wha

Updated on healthy 2024-04-02
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you tell your boyfriend that you have plastic surgery when you first start dating him, if the other party can accept it, then get involved together, if you can't accept it, it's separation.

    For plastic surgery, maybe it was not accepted by people before, and people who felt plastic surgery were wearing a mask, although everyone has a love for beauty, and they can improve a person's appearance by dressing up, but if it is plastic surgery, there will still be many people who are not favored. If your boyfriend knows that he has plastic surgery and wants to break up, I don't think he loves you very much, and if a person really loves himself, he shouldn't love his appearance. Perhaps, the reason why he broke up with you was not because of your plastic surgery, but because he felt that you didn't explain the plastic surgery you had before when you were with him.

    thinks that you are deliberately hiding it from him, which is also a kind of deception, so he can't accept it. Actually, this is also quite normal.

    To be honest, if you have plastic surgery, the other party just can't accept it and wants to break up with you, so what? If the other party can't accept himself like this, why should he force himself to be with him? is that he can reluctantly be with him, and he always feels very tired in the future, because he can't accept the fact that he has plastic surgery.

    In fact, sometimes girls still have to look a little bit away, and they can do such a big thing as plastic surgery, so for the breakup, I think it is also very normal to accept, if you can really appreciate yourself, you can love well, if you can't really appreciate yourself, then you will be happy to separate, love should be mutual, unilateral love, it must not last long.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Plastic surgery is something that many girls like to do, but they will also suffer a lot of pain and cost, such as plastic surgery failure or their lover can't accept this fact, etc., will make you feel that you have some problems, so you need to face yourself seriously and try to come up with a solution to the problem.

    First of all, you need to know that plastic surgery will really hit your boyfriend hard, he will generally think that you are more unreal, or think that you are a little vain, so he will use plastic surgery to change his face, and his heart will also feel unbearable because your appearance is not real, but you also have to understand that after all, you have experienced a lot together, so you need to talk to him and ask him whether he cares about his appearance or the person. If you only care about yourself as a person, you won't be rejected by your plastic surgery.

    Secondly, you have to show your boyfriend the way you looked before plastic surgery, and ask the other party if he will like this look, at this time you can see his reaction, if he is still angry, you wait for him to dissipate his anger before talking, if the other party said that he liked the way you looked before, although it seems that the facial features are not prominent now, but you will still see that it is more pure, and now this face is more fake, then you can refute the other party, since you don't like this face, why are you still with yourself, In the final analysis, it is for the sake of appearance, otherwise it would not be like this, because this kind of comparison is against the will. And if the other person says that he doesn't like you before, then you will tell the other person that if you don't have plastic surgery, the two of you will still not be together.

    Again, when you find out this series of practices of your boyfriend, you will understand that he is just a person who cares about his face, if the other party must break up, you don't have to force it, but you must let the other party know that his thoughts are still not worthy of his love.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It depends on whether you really love him, if you really love him, you can talk to him well, but if you have lowered your value when you talk, and he is still so arrogant, then I don't think there is any need to continue. After all, you don't have to stay for a long time for a person who doesn't understand you, even if you reconcile this time, you will quarrel and break up with you because of similar things in the future.

    If you really figure it out, you will feel that you will break up, to put it bluntly, there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower. Besides, love is really nothing in this era, follow your own heart, how to be happy, to put it bluntly, you are using your own money to do what you want to do, why look at other people's faces? Why do you want to use your dignity to keep that kind of scumbag?

    I still remember, some time ago I was joking with my boyfriend. She said I wanted plastic surgery, and then he said you want to have a plastic surgery? I said a lot of things, and he said I don't care what you look like, as long as it's you, I like it, but if you think you want to be happier after plastic surgery, you can do it.

    So I'm still angry with him, I said that he dislikes me, and you can find that I'm really much happier than you, right?

    In fact, it can be seen from this incident that he doesn't love you so much, if you really love you, you care about this? Besides, everyone has a woman's love for beauty. Why can't he understand you?

    In fact, to put it bluntly, I just want to break up, this is just an excuse, I think this kind of man is really super scum, if you don't like it, just say it, why do you bother like this. It's like someone else can't live without you, self-righteous.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think plastic surgery is really a very common thing in today's society. If the plastic surgery is not too excessive, it doesn't look like the original at all, and it has changed a person. I think it's all acceptable.

    The snake face on the Internet made his face look very different from a person, and I think this is too much. Everyone who wants plastic surgery has their own reasons, if they all look as beautiful as the fairies, who would choose to go for plastic surgery?

    In fact, we can understand your boyfriend's thoughts to a certain extent. After all, most boys still don't understand the idea of plastic surgery. It's not that they don't love you enough, it's just that they can't accept this reality right now.

    I had a good relationship with my boyfriend, but one day I suddenly told him that I wanted to have a double eyelid cut, and now double eyelid cutting is not a big cosmetic surgery, it's just a small facelift. My boyfriend's sudden change of temperament made me start losing my temper with me. He wasn't that kind of person.

    He told me in great detail that he couldn't accept this kind of girl, and their family couldn't accept it, so he advised me not to go.

    It's certainly impossible for him to accept your current situation all at once. And when you are willing to have plastic surgery yourself, it takes a lot of courage for you to tell him. So I think you give him some time to discuss with him, and you really like her.

    I'm sure a guy may have a big prejudice about this, but if he really loves you. It will not leave you because of this preconception. The person you really like, no matter what you become, he likes you.

    If he really can't stand the fact that you have plastic surgery, then you just break up. If the two of you are reluctant to be together now, there will be more controversy in the future because of this matter, and both of you will have a bad time. Instead of torturing each other like this, it is better to find your other half early.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    From your boyfriend's point of view, you oppose your girlfriend's plastic surgery, and the reason is nothing more than the fear that plastic surgery is risky and the sequelae of plastic surgery.

    The economy of plastic surgery, and the fact that my own girlfriend's appearance was already fixed when I liked her, and what I liked about her was the way she was, or her charisma.

    Or the merit that surpasses ordinary people. A stiffer nose and bigger eyes don't necessarily increase liking, after all, it's a risky project, and I, as a boyfriend, definitely don't want my girlfriend to do that. People matter!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Say it directly, show your mind, are all boys nowadays so beautiful, I think people nowadays are all good-looking, not particularly ugly,I can see it all in the past, I can't figure out why a man goes for plastic surgery, whether the food is not delicious, or the milk tea is not delicious, I want to become more and more beautiful, but I have a girlfriend, and what kind of plastic surgery is I going to make, it is difficult to understand.

    I can accept the other party's plastic surgery, before I know me, after I know me, not allowed, before I know you, we don't know each other, what you do, I can't stop it, and I don't have any name to stop it, but after having me, what I do needs to be discussed together and approved by the other party. This facelift requires my consent.

    I can accept women's plastic surgery, but I can't accept it for men, I think a big man, what kind of plastic surgery, no matter how good or bad the appearance is, I already have a girlfriend, what is missing, I have a little sister next to me to go to plastic surgery in order to be more beautiful,became more beautiful and found a boyfriend, who was also very good to her.

    The reason for the little sister's plastic surgery wants to become more beautiful, I accept this reason, but what is the purpose of the little brother's plastic surgery, I still haven't figured it out, you can first understand, why your little brother wants plastic surgery, according to this reason, you can talk about this aspect, increase his self-confidence, the desire for plastic surgery is not so strong, maybe he gave up plastic surgery.

    If your boyfriend still wants plastic surgery, then just say that you don't mind, and I hope you don't have plastic surgery and be the real youIt's good to be yourself, I like you no matter what, and by the way, confess and show your love for your boyfriend.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Then you can talk to him about it, but you should also pay attention to his feelings, and compare the face to his own.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Check the *** of plastic surgery on the Internet and list it for him. Also tell him that you like the way he looks. The original him, he doesn't like carving, if he cares about himself and you, he will definitely consider your suggestion carefully.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There are many bad cases after plastic surgery, and they are all found out for him, so that he can retreat.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It is understandable that today's society is a society that looks good, and both men and women have advantages in terms of good looks.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Maybe it's just to make your appearance higher, so that you can have more face when you lead him out, if you mind it very much, then you can only talk to him, and strongly stop it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    He may be too inferior, you can tell him not to do this, because you like him in the most raw way.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    He is more handsome in pursuit of appearance, plastic surgery is still risky, ask him why he wants to go for plastic surgery, there may be unspeakable hidden!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You just compliment him on his appearance, and if he still doesn't listen, then don't want him, haha.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's not you who have plastic surgery. What right do you have, he is not your husband.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It may be that he himself is too inferior, and he is afraid that he will not be able to admire you, so he wants plastic surgery and praises his advantages.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I'll mind. First of all, I think that the body is skinned, and the parents are the most beautiful, and the whole person's face will have an unnatural feeling after plastic surgery, and I am more natural, if he goes to plastic surgery, I may not be able to accept it, I have always believed that the natural is the most beautiful. I think there is a certain risk in plastic surgery, and some people are disfigured because of the failure of plastic surgery.

    Some serious direct lead to the loss of life, there are many reasons, such as the doctor's skills are not up to par, or the plastic surgery is difficult and risky, and patients usually do not consider these, for their beautiful appearance, with a fluke mentality to do surgery, it is very risky, if for the sake of beauty, to hurt their body, then it is not worth it. Although this society is now the era of looking at faces, if you really have the ability, why not be afraid of other people's opinions? If you have the ability and self-confidence, isn't that a kind of beauty?

    It may also be due to personal habits, I think that since I have become accustomed to a person's appearance, if he suddenly changes, whether it is a big change or a small change, I think it is very scary and unaccustomed, and it is possible that the feeling and affection for him will change. Because I like the way he is, not the way he looks like plastic surgery, the unnatural, unaccustomed visual feeling, I feel that this gives me a subjective feeling that I can't adapt to, and it is difficult for me to get used to this change.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I shouldn't mind, because I'm a nymphomaniac, who doesn't want to be able to find a handsome boyfriend, and plastic surgery is also a very common thing now, everyone has a love for beauty, which is understandable and acceptable.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    In today's world, not only girls, but boys also care very much about their own image, I don't mind boys plastic surgery, after all, everyone has a love for beauty, but if you abandon your wife and children for plastic surgery, it will be bad.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I will break up with him, I used to be ugly, what is the use of being handsome now, it's all fake, use a fake mask to talk to me about feelings, if it comes to the point of talking about marriage, I also have to think about the children in the future.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Although your boyfriend is ugly, you still loved it, and now you are more handsome, isn't it better? Who doesn't like their lover getting better? If both of them love each other, the appearance is secondary, and the most important thing is to love each other in the heart.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I won't mind, two people together is to tolerate everything about each other, and if he dares to confess to you about plastic surgery, it means that he already likes you.

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