Should I contact him??? help 65

Of course, you can contact him, as long as you are in the right mind, there is nothing you can't do.

In your state of mind, it's better to avoid contact. The main reasons for considering you are as follows:

1.People who love human beings, you have to think clearly.

2.He already has a girlfriend, although this doesn't mean anything (after all, he is not married), but he can't avoid the suspicion of digging into the corner.

3.There are many boys in the world who are better than him, why don't you give yourself more choices? If you just want to play emotional games, that's a different story.

Maintain a normal relationship with classmates, and the relationship should not be ambiguous.

…If you love, you will love ,..., forget it, forget it,...”

Control yourself, just think of it as a feeling of hunger among classmates! But don't show your feelings.

I was in the same situation as you, I couldn't help but contact him after 5 years of separation, but I regretted it after contacting. I advise you, there is no need to contact Really, he already has a girlfriend, what can you do if you contact him? Be an ordinary friend with him, will you be psychologically balanced?

Unless you feel that you can't do it unless you have to, and you really can't control it, then you can try it and let yourself die

You can get in touch, and you're an old classmate! It's like getting to know each other from scratch.

To connect, to connect. If you still like it, you have to go for it. I heard that he had a girlfriend, and that was just heard.

Since you miss him, contact him and see if there are any opportunities for development. However, be sure not to let yourself be hurt. Take your time, and the water will flow for a long time.

I believe you will be happy.

I think mentally thinking that a person will feel very happy when he drinks, there is no connection or not, the answer may disappoint you, just think about him quietly One day he knows that you like him ,..Let him feel good about himself.

The connection is it.

It's not bad to be friends either.

contact, don't wait until he gets married to say to him, I love you...

You can contact it, otherwise you will feel uncomfortable.

It's best not to contact, even if people have a girlfriend now, it's not to disrupt people's lives, he may not have a good impression of you at all, you are likely to be unrequited love, you don't want to say that you are just an ordinary friend when you contact him, I'm afraid that you will be unable to help yourself after seeing him, then you will not become a third party? There are many good men, when fate arrives, your prince charming will appear, wait slowly, good luck!

Don't contact him. He is a public lover, and there may be many people who confess, and you haven't been in touch all these years, let alone confessed. His feelings for you are definitely just classmates.

And you do have wishful thinking. What's more, he now has a girlfriend, you can't be a person who breaks up people, if he immediately likes you and hello to you, it proves that he is not dedicated. It won't grow long in the future.

So now you have completely forgotten about him, and in your circle of life, there will be a boy who really loves you, quietly waiting for you somewhere. If you love him so hard, why don't you look for someone who loves you...

There is no need to contact, because your starting point is already very clear, if it is just a contact between classmates, it is okay, now your idea is not to contact, don't disturb his current life.

You miss him now, I think you can contact, we are all friends, look at the changes in each other in the past 6 years, if you can talk about it later, you can often contact, if you can't talk about it, then there is an answer to your thoughts, come on, I know it takes courage, come on to support you! Hear your good news!

I haven't been in touch for 6 years, but I have been missing him, which means that you already have a plot for him, which will prevent you from finding your other half in the future!

So, I think it's best for you to go to him generously, don't have too many emotions and expectations, just meet each other, be friends, and after the meeting, I think you don't have to dream about him anymore.

He doesn't have a big impression of you, and his girlfriend has changed so much. In fact, the most beautiful moment is when you miss it, what's the point of contacting him to eat closed-door soup? Reality is not acting in a movie, do you still dream that he has been thinking about you for so many years, and then put down his girlfriend next to you and be with you?

..As you know, this is unlikely. Just make it a beautiful dream.

Wouldn't it be better to let him live in your memories than if you were bored with yourself now?

Let's get in touch.,It's okay.,Just meet as old classmates.,Don't think too much.。。

I gave up at the beginning, but now that everyone has their own lives, it's better not to get in touch!

I s, don't contact, or you'll be more miserable, and it's better not to see you.

Dizzy, since he already has a girlfriend, what else do you contact him?

Some things are missed forever.

Or concentrate on living your life well.

You just don't think about it until you have nothing to do!! You'd better get a boyfriend quickly!!

The best way to keep the people you love the most with forever is to be good friends.

There is a kind of love that can only be buried in the bottom of the heart.

If you only had ** disease before, it doesn't matter if you say it, ** disease is not a sexually transmitted disease, and it has been cured. But if the disease is related to the ex-boyfriend, don't talk about it. There is no man who doesn't care about his girlfriend's past.

Even if he loves you again, at most it doesn't mean that he minds, can he not mind in his heart? It's not to teach you to lie to him, since it's a thing of the past, don't dig into it, it's not good for anyone. Doesn't he have a past of his own?

If you tell him, he may forgive you generously for a while, and then turn it out when you quarrel, how troublesome it is! If he really doesn't mind at all, or he's a saintly man who loves you to this extent, congratulations! Either he doesn't love you at all, doesn't care about you, and doesn't care about your past.

Since he suspects you of having an abortion, he still cares. Think about it carefully, if you can't think of a way and can't make up your mind, just ask your parents for advice, they won't cheat you.

In fact, some things are better not to say than to say them. Maybe your current boyfriend really loves you, but no man will be indifferent after hearing these things, it's just that every man uses a different way to express it after hearing it

If you say it, maybe he can tolerate you, but there will definitely be a pimple in his heart, but because he loves you, he won't say it and bear it alone So I don't think you should talk to him, because it's not only for you, but also for him A very old-fashioned sentence, a white lie is not a good thing

The above is a good result, and if your boyfriend is not open-minded enough (imaginary), then the other result is self-evident

It doesn't matter, let's say, the most important thing for two people to be together is to be honest, do you think you feel good if you don't tell him, or if you tell him a little less? Do you think it's necessary to tell a lie with a lot of lies? And what you don't say will cause more misunderstandings, be brave, tell him everything, and the rest is to see his attitude!

Say it, the man who loves you will trust you and forgive you! That's how my boyfriend is! It's best to tell him everything he cares about, he who loves you won't blame you, he will care about you, and love you more! It's true!

If you have no physical problems, it is better not to say, don't say in such detail, if there is a problem, it must be cured

It's really troublesome to be a woman, and if you don't keep your chastity, you will harm yourself for a lifetime. Leave him, it should be a spring dream. From then on, low-key until one day, a man came to you and said to you that I would not care about the past and the future, but only care about being with you,,, that is what you love.

Go ahead? If he really loves you, he will believe you, but it takes time, time for him to think about it? He'll understand.

If he really loves you, he shouldn't care about that. Go ahead?

It's not that serious! ~~

What to say ... As long as you do better with him now than you did before, he won't feel unbalanced! ~

Say it well. Do it well! ~

It's better not to say some things, and it doesn't necessarily mean that confessing everything is a good thing.

Hi I'm tired, my heart is broken.

He hurts you, and you won't leave until he doesn't want you at all.

Give it up......The man has found a spare tire......What are you still suffering from there?

If he really likes you and cares about you, he won't break up with you, let alone go to the so-called B woman after breaking up with you, he comes back to you because he is not convinced and doesn't want you to break up first......He doesn't have any feelings for you anymore, and some win or lose.

In the end, love is built on mutual trust, and without trust you resign yourself to your fate......There are so many men, there are always people you deserve to cherish and cherish you.

Break up! He obviously didn't have much to say! But! This substitute may be you're the one you put on the field! He may just want to find someone to take your place in his heart! lest I think of you and be sad! It depends on what you think!

This kind of problem. Don't think about it, pass it directly, as long as there is a problem, then 100%, there will be more and more problems, and similar problems will happen in the future, women, don't get hurt and think again.

A typical post-90s non-mainstream idol drama-style plot! What should the ministry deserve! If you want to divide it, you can divide it, what is impossible in these years? Married and divorced!

Give up, a man with a heart is not worth it, and you have to think about your happiness in the future

Give up, it's all fritters, and it's no longer powerful to speak.

Give up, the most important thing for two people to be together should be happy, like you will only make this relationship a burden for you, give up him, maybe you are reluctant at first, but then you will feel relaxed, you will be relieved, and you will find that there are better people. Why should you grieve yourself like this?

Ask yourself whether you like him or not, whether you miss him when he is not there, and whether you feel ......uncomfortable when you are not with himDon't think about it so much, what "suitable for better people" is not right, there are so many couples in the world, which couple is at the same level?

What abcd Lao Tzu is dizzy when he sees it!

It must be completely divided.,,Such a man is not worth it.。。。 Be ruthless as a woman.

Don't be enthusiastic!

You've made it clear that this person has said that he will treat you as a "choice", so he must have a new goal or you are not the goal he needs at the moment. This is the virtue of a man: the more you take the initiative, the more he wants to tease you, anyway, he has no loss, he is happy to have multiple choices, it is you who take the initiative and you become easily injured, and he will naturally be fine if he takes the profit.

Men's physiological conditions determine that they are active and impulsive creatures, and they will never be lazy and ignore the girls they like, if they know that the other party is interesting; Unless he's overly introverted or mentally ill, but your object is clearly not of that type.

So, in order to protect yourself, you should also treat him back as a "choice", neither cold nor hot. Doesn't he talk to you every Sunday, you have to seize the opportunity to find out what he thinks, what he means, and let him know about your situation and let him know that you are indeed the right person for him. Of course, you can also take the initiative to find him occasionally, but there must be a theme, such as asking him to help you solve your problems, and don't let him think that you are bored and want to chase him.

If everyone's personality is suitable, the time and place are right, and there is no unsuccessful.

I guess you'd better go with the flow. Don't be deliberately indifferent, don't be too enthusiastic, it depends on how he is, if he is not enthusiastic enough, then let time deal with it.

A man just loves face, he still loves you! Chase him back.

(People say that after a breakup, girls have to be indifferent to boys to be able to turn back,) it can be said that this sentence does not make sense at all, if a man does not love a woman, how indifferent you are is not interesting, and you will not be moved.

Another point, since you are separated, why are you still ambiguous? Is it still ambiguous and interesting to break up? Break up, he treats you as an ambiguous object, do you feel so good?

Have you ever thought about doing this yourself just to redeem it? Is this the only way to redeem it? I feel that a man who treats a woman as an ambiguous object means that the man really doesn't love that woman, and there is no need to maintain it like that, and on the contrary, not being ambiguous may let him know more about the gains and losses.

Love is redeemed....Rest assured! It's not too late to make amends.

Young people, you should take the initiative to contact her, he will still call ** every Sunday to talk to you, which means that she still loves you again, think about it, if she doesn't love you and is abroad, she will not contact you for a long time! So men, don't be careful, be big-bellied, how much you need the support of your relatives when you're out alone, friends, you go and work hard! Give her more ideas and ways in all aspects, support her strongly, and the victory will definitely belong to you.

Just go with the flow. Don't be deliberate about anything.

Yes! As soon as possible! A lot of things are done after the mistake! A lot of things are regretted when they are lost.

Don't you feel it? He went abroad and wanted to stay there. If he stays there.

He will definitely leave you. He's also looking for a way out for himself. And you, with a lot of ideas.

There's no need to make anyone care about whom. Even if you are trying a lot now, let him care about you and come back to you. That may not last long.

The important thing is his affection for you, if he really loves you, then no matter what you do, he will never leave you. This is the most reliable love, and it is worth relying on.

Of course, contact is necessary. As you chat, you can talk to him about your future plans. Understand people, listen to what you think.

No matter how it ends. Be sure to put yourself in your own shoes and figure out the current situation. Don't just think that it's a good thing that the relationship is back.

In such a situation, both of you should be sensible. Especially you.