What is the feeling of having to let go of a long distance relationship?

Having been in love for many years can show that each other is willing to spend time for each other, especially when they are menstruating, they are willing to go crazy together, go on adventures together, grow up together and even make silly together, which can only be said to be truly loved. But in the end, he chose to separate, most of them lost to reality, time wore away innocence, wiped away tears, and most of the rest were the unhappiness and fetters of real life, so the most affectionate confession is companionship. In the end, they became the most familiar strangers, who could greet but not stay together.

If I can't see you again, I wish you good morning, good afternoon, good night "Truman's World" somehow remembered this sentence. Giving up on the person you love the most, that feeling is that in an instant, the whole world is gray and loses all color. Slowly you regained all consciousness, slowly you healed the wound little by little, although it is impossible to forget, but every time you think of her, it ends with a sentence, you must be happy.

The ultimate experience is that you will compare with the person you love in the future with anyone you may have developed with. And then I can't fit anyone else in my heart.

There is only one person who loves most in a person's life, and if you don't end up with the person you love, this person will be a red rose, a cinnabar mole in your heart.

The world is gone, and then I always want to be with her. I'm afraid that if I'm alone and has no one to speak, my heart will be bored. That's it. Habits, maybe get used to habits that you don't get used to, and it will be fine. Goodbye to the person I love the most.

Some people are destined to grow up with you, there is no fate, there is no fate, this is a portrayal of real life, love is to pay, what you pay, may not be the answer you want in the end, if the two parties are immature and break up, and then get back together, it may form the right time, the right he (she), if it is because of money and no love and separate, after a few years, the two parties have not found true love, and get together again, that can only be said to be will, that can not be said to be love, can only be said to be a compromise of the realistic emotions of life, and most of the results should be that she married him and he married her.

It turns out that time will really change everything, thinking that he has to be in this life, but after a long time, there is nothing. Repeatedly flipped through the circle of friends, found the familiar avatar, browsed over and over again, and then the message was typed and deleted, and finally chatted and didn't know how to continue. It seems too hypocritical to say it, knowing that there is no result, and always comforting myself, maybe there will be a chance in the future, and there is no intersection in the first place, and I have to work hard to maintain it.

Unwillingness, no matter how deep the degree of love is, unwillingness is a necessary process, because you have to give, or you were originally together, and you broke up for some reason, how can love be willing? Unless you don't love at all.

Whether you let go or not has little to do with whether you love or not, love itself is just a feeling. But whether to let go or not is the result of reality measurement.

Although love is a pure feeling, maintaining a love and managing a love requires a realistic cost.

To maintain and operate a love, you need close contact, you need practical care, you need emotional intelligence to take care of each other's emotions and resolve some small conflicts, and you also need materials to create a reassuring coexistence environment.

And you can't put care into practice in a different place (no matter how hot you are talking about love online, it's really not as good as pouring water and a hug for your lover with your own hands), plus you are young and impulsive, and your emotional intelligence is not enough to resolve the conflict, and I am afraid that you are not completely independent in terms of material conditions. Isn't that enough of a reason to let go?

No matter how fierce the long-distance love is, in the end you will only marry someone who accompanies you day and night to give you love, and he will only marry the person who snuggles up to him every day.

Maybe you will say that you can solve the problem of distance in the future. How long will it take to dig up? Aside from distance, how long does it take for impulsivity problems to be resolved?

Is emotional intelligence enough to resolve conflicts? Are the material conditions enough to be independent? All of the above are necessary conditions for the long-term maintenance of love.

To sum up, you have empty feelings of love, but you can't come up with an effective way to maintain love for a long time. What's the point of consuming it if you don't let go? You may just feel love, and think that nothing else matters, and you don't need it.

But men need it! Men want real companionship more than women, men want a partner with stable emotions and high emotional intelligence to make him feel at ease, and men want to support a real home with a car, a house and a stable income.

If it is consumed, the actual needs of men cannot be realized, and maybe even the feeling of love at the beginning will be consumed

When in a long-distance relationship, you should communicate more with each other, if there are any problems to be solved by Li Liangshi, you can get together with each other when you are tired, and solve the differences and contradictions between the two enlightened people in a timely manner, so as not to let things get out of control and go to the point of letting go.

When you are tired of a long-distance relationship, you can calm down, and you can also think more about what the original intention of two people is together, give both parties a cooling-off period, and both parties can think about it at this time to see whether to continue this relationship or let go.

You can change the way two people get along, and you should give each other more links in life, and you should also share with each other more happy things and unhappy things you encounter in life, and usually buy more for each other. Gift.

I've experienced it. William Shakespeare once said, "Love is not true love if it is mixed with calculations that have nothing to do with it." Therefore, two people must remain innocent when they fall in love together.

And if it is a long-distance relationship, you must not commit the following "taboo", otherwise you may lose love.

Other couples went out to go shopping with their lovers on the weekend holding hands, laughing and playing. And in a long-distance relationship, you walk on a pair of streets He Feng, which seems very abrupt and lonely. Especially when you look at the casual hug between the couple in front of you, you think of her who is far away from God, but you can't reach it, and the mood of shopping is gone, full of sadness.

When I was sick alone, the first thing I thought of was my boyfriend. But he is far away from the world, he can't accompany you to the hospital, can't accompany you to the doctor, and can't face it with you. Especially when you are alone in the cold hospital, you are even more sad and want to cry, and you will feel that having a long-distance boyfriend is better than not having a boyfriend, after all, there will be no such luxury without a boyfriend.