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Okay, as a long-distance relationship has just ended, I'll give you some experience, give me points=v= I think you should talk to him now and solve the doubts in your mind.
And then you identify him.
Please stop doubting that newcomers come first.
I still doubt and doubt every day, and the ending is the same as mine.
You must have a common belief and believe that we will be together.
Two people have to work together.
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Don't doubt if there is no evidence, no person's living habits and ways of doing things are different, if there is a disagreement, she thinks she has an external heart, which is unfair, this is the characteristic of a long-distance relationship, since you have chosen, you must be psychologically prepared, it is not impossible for her to like others, after all, it is a long distance. I need you to feel more, whether she is sincere to you, whether she is single-minded, this person can't help you, you are the party, and finally send you a famous sentence: Brother long snack.
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It's a different place. Did you meet online in the first place? You're so similar to me.
If you think something is wrong, be sure to say it and ask about it. If she really has so many boyfriends at the same time, then you won't be wasting your feelings. Maybe there's something hard to say, so be sure to ask.
Because you don't see each other every day, you can't always keep track of what he's doing and contact him twice a day. Try to disconnect from you, will she look for you? Maybe it seems to us that it is love, but after a long time, it is easy to make the other party feel that this is what we should do, no matter what, if we find the problem, we must solve it, otherwise it will accumulate more and more, and in the end there is only one result, and that is to break up.
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Long-distance relationships are indeed very tested, not to mention the question of love or not love, this is a real problem.
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Long-distance relationships are inevitably suspicious, and if you want love to go long, you must learn to trust each other.
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Be sure to believe that the other party can't be suspicious. Suspicion is the biggest potential crisis, you can call her late to see if she doesn't answer or is on the phone, and if you believe in your feelings then talk to her slowly. If not, believe her from this time on.
**It's not a fixed few a day, it's going to be worthwhile, so that you are very satisfied after you hang up**. You can have a long talk for two or three days. Be sure to communicate.
Remember to be less suspicious and more communicative. I wish you happiness.
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Tell her frankly. Two people have a good talk. If you don't say this, it's always a pimple in your heart, can you tolerate it? The most important thing for two people to be together is to be honest, if this can't be done, where will the future come from?
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How to say it, habits are good, things are man-made.
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Yes. It's very uncomfortable, the pain of a long-distance relationship, that's a lot of tears. For couples, the cruelest thing is not that you love me and I love you, but that we love each other so much, but we have to endure the separation between the two places.
Of course, there are also people who enjoy long-distance relationships because of freedom. How hard a long-distance relationship is, if you weren't in it, you wouldn't have been able to understand it.
I wanted to kiss her face, but I could only look at her beautiful face through the screen. I wanted to hold her hand, but I could only watch other couples holding hands. First of all, long-distance couples live in two different cities, and even though the transportation is already very developed now, it is impossible to meet every day, so the usual communication is online.
In this way, there will be a drawback, it is obviously a very small thing, face-to-face, it is easy to solve, but on the Internet, it may turn a small problem into a big contradiction. Then there is the fact that in a long-distance relationship, the girl will be the most uncomfortable party.
Because girls are very fragile compared to boys, she needs the sense of security given by boys, so where does the sense of security come from after living in two places for a long time! And if you encounter something very urgent, and you don't even have someone around to talk to, the girl will feel very helpless at this time.
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It's very uncomfortable. Especially the girls are very aggrieved and uncomfortable, as if they have talked about a fake boyfriend.
First of all, it is not possible to see each other often. It's usually hard to get through, and when you call, the other party may be busy. And when the other party calls you, you won't be able to get it.
The connection between the two people is so intertwined. Or on holidays, I want to ask him to meet, but the reply I get is that I don't have time to meet and I want to go out to party. And you're left alone.
Secondly, there is no way to accompany you. Valentine's Day, Christmas and other festivals, it is inconvenient for the other party to accompany you from a long distance. There is also a person who eats, and he is alone when he goes shopping except with his girlfriends.
Walking on the street, I saw other people's small couples one-on-one, and I was very envious. And you can only contact him on your mobile phone.
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Lovers in long-distance relationships are indeed more uncomfortable. Because of the different places, there are too many uncertainties, and there are too many fresh people.
Girls are more vulnerable. When a girl falls in love, she wants to have more people to take care of herself, and someone to hug when she is sad. You can be in a long-distance relationship, don't say hugging, if you say a few more words about your bad emotions, he will hang up impatiently**.
Girls' minds are more sensitive. When she thinks that you are different from before, you may also feel a little unreasonable, boys are in a bad mood, drinking and eating can be alleviated, girls will not, all negative emotions are resisted by her alone.
Therefore, the relationship of a long-distance relationship should not be guessed at the other party, because once it is guessed, it will cause mutual distrust and a crisis in the relationship. Whether or not you can do this depends on your mutual efforts. Long-distance relationships are easy to get tired, after all, if you go to her location every month, you can insist that it will be sweet, but if you do the same thing over and over again, for a long time, you will have a sense of rejection, which you must have a bottom in your heart, how long you can last, unilaterally go to her location, you can also invite her to your school, so that they will interact with each other, and they will know what kind of atmosphere they study and live in.
Emotional matters are best handled in a long-term manner.
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Stick to it, keep the original love, and hope that all couples in long-distance relationships can achieve positive results!
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It's very uncomfortable, if the person you like is far away and you can't see each other for a long time, it's really uncomfortable.
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Yes, when you are hurt, there is no one to comfort you, and when you have a setback, there is no one around to cheer you up, and it can be very uncomfortable.
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Yes, living the life of a single dog in the name of love.
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A long-distance relationship is very uncomfortable, obviously there is a partner, and it is the same as being single, and it is not a long place if it can be a different place.
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Yes, because of the distance, although it is a nominal boyfriend and friend relationship, it will always feel insecure and lonely.
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It's really uncomfortable, you can't even meet often, you can't have intimate behavior, you can't be by your side when you're sad.
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It's very uncomfortable, when I need the other party the most, the other party is not there, and I can only be accompanied by the Internet when I am very depressed.
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It's really uncomfortable, the other party is not there when you think about the other party, and the other party can't find out immediately when you are sad.
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Yes, if both men and women are in a different place, sometimes it is impossible to help each other. Just like some netizens once said, what hurts me the most is not that I am injured or that I have a serious illness, but that you are injured in a different place. Or it rains heavily, and I can't do anything about it, that's where the pain is the most.
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Yes, because the distance is too far to see him.
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Yes, it is difficult for two people to meet in a long-distance relationship, so if there is a problem, they will always quarrel.
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I'm also in a long-distance relationship, and I miss him a lot.
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It's really not easy to live in a different place, but after surviving these hardships, the rest is a lifetime, and it is said that companionship is the most affectionate confession, whether it is a long-distance couple or a couple, the relationship needs to be managed and cared for with heart.
Because of the many realities faced by long-distance relationships, it is indeed a senseless torture of human nature, which is what people do not want to see and face, which is a fact. Let's talk about these aspects of long-distance relationships, each of which is sad and helpless.
1. "Long-distance relationship", as the name suggests, is the love between male and female couples separated from each other, it is self-evident, but all long-distance lovers do not spend much time together, and they are often alone, and loneliness is inevitable. The loneliness of long-distance relationships is completely different from the loneliness in general, the general loneliness can be found at random for something or what activity, it is easy to dismiss and eliminate, and it is not easy to bring people pain that cannot be shaken off, the loneliness of long-distance relationships is with the desire for lovers to miss, worry and worry about inside, but the reality to be faced is that the lovers are not around, and there is no helplessness and torture accompanied by lovers. In life, you have to face all kinds of pain. People live in the real environment, they will come into contact with the outside world, long-distance lovers in ordinary life, they will inevitably see or come into contact with many couples, and see that the things that couples should get and have have nothing to do with themselves, so they will be associated and compared, and then they will "touch the scene" and let themselves be hurt again and again without words.
3. In addition to "loneliness" and "injury" in long-distance relationships, the next thing should be "fear". Why is there such a thing as "fear"? Because of the long-distance relationship, the couple is in a different place, the two are separated, so that the time for the two to get along together is limited, there are few opportunities for communication, and it is easy to form estrangement and estrangement, just like we say "relatives are getting closer and closer", relatives are still like this, not to mention lovers who are not related by blood?
In this way, they are afraid of drifting away due to distance. In addition, due to the distance, there are many problems that are easy to deal with and solve between lovers, and it will become a thorny problem between long-distance lovers.
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Strengthen mutual trust and reduce unnecessary suspicion: increase your confidence in the relationship psychologically, and try not to be cranky and suspicious. Of course, you can't completely let your guard down, and it's okay to check the other person's whereabouts once in a while, which can not only reassure you, but also not disgust the other person, and even make the other person feel that you care about him.
However, we must grasp the scale well and not check it too frequently.
It should be noted that no matter how suspicious you are, you must not easily accuse the other party without conclusive evidence, so as not to wronged good people and cause unnecessary conflicts.
2. In action, pay attention to giving the other party a sense of security: the easiest way is to reply to the other party's information in time, if you can't reply to the message in time because of something, you must report it in advance, which will make the other party feel down-to-earth.
3. Explore some new things together in order to constantly create new topics: The reason why many long-distance couples gradually lose their topics is because they will not take the initiative to create new topics. The easiest way to create something new is to explore something new together.
4. Meet regularly to enhance tacit understanding and alleviate dissatisfaction in love: If you want to make a long-distance relationship last, meeting regularly is an indispensable link, because the purpose of falling in love is to run in with each other, so as to lay a good foundation for living together for a long time in the future, and only by getting along more in reality can all this be achieved. At the same time, seeing each other regularly can also increase companionship and alleviate feelings of loneliness and loneliness.
There are many disadvantages of only falling in love and not meeting, which is not conducive to the run-in between the two parties, but also slows down the progress of the relationship, laying hidden dangers for getting along in the future. The reason is very simple, couples often meet, they will know each other's temperament well, and they will have a more tacit understanding when they get along, of course, if they feel that the other party is not suitable, they can also stop the loss in time.
If you don't see each other all the time, you have to cultivate a tacit understanding of getting along from the beginning when you are together in the future, in case you fail to run in well and unfortunately break up, it will be a waste of years of feelings and time, and the gains outweigh the losses.
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