How to rectify the self centered? 50

The best way to remedy a self-centered person is to stay away from him and let him live in his own small circle. When he lacks comments, praise or reminders from others, he will feel lonely and helpless, and naturally his self-centeredness will be gone.

The best thing to do is to choose to ignore him. When you take action, there will be waves in your heart. Even if the remediation is successful, it may have an impact on you, and you will not be truly happy. Let go, in order to be calm.

Those who are self-centered, you can make them fit in with others and make them understand the power of unity.

Let those people know some of the bad consequences of self-centeredness, then they will know how to push themselves and others.

If you want to rectify self-centered people, you need to increase team building, and let individuals understand the importance of teamwork and correct self-centered thinking through everyone's cooperation.

Take him to do what he does best and surpass him fiercely, and laugh at himself.

I think this kind of thinking is very bad, although this kind of person is really bad, sometimes very disgusting, but we have to be a kind person, don't bully others and suppress others.

Self-centered people want others to cling to her and revolve around him, so when they meet such a person, they ignore him and don't follow him.

How to rectify self-centered people? The selfishness of people like this is heavier, and we still need people who do things on their own. All aspects of it.

Stupid people are trying to figure out how to fix people, and smart people will just hide far away.

How to remediate? In fact, there is no rectification, because his character has already been caused, and everyone cannot change a person's character in a short time. And they will always be easy to change, and their nature is difficult to change.

All we can do is stay away and give him appropriate hints. After all, it's not his parents, at most it's just a friend, so why bother so much with letting him change!

Blow him up, and in the end he's nothing.

1. Engage in self-reflection.

2. Strengthen communication and exchanges with people.

Is there a better way to "deal with" self-centered people?

Such a person needs to encounter setbacks, and when others have enough blows to him, believe that they will change.

Don't be too accommodating to him, let him do it himself, maybe it's better to suffer a loss, and at the same time, after isolating him, he will feel bored and have no face.

Of course, it is to make them realize that they are hurting others and themselves by doing so, so that they can correct it.

Do everything with a relaxed mind, look at things and people, don't just look at one aspect, think about what you do, think about everything, think more about it, and you will naturally change this self-centered phenomenon.

Such people are often because they take themselves too seriously, and they must understand that there are people outside the world, and they must try to control their possessiveness and find friends to help them correct themselves.

Adjust your mentality, always tell yourself that there are people outside the people, there are mountains outside the mountains, and you can't be arrogant. Usually think about what you are not doing well enough, and correct your mistakes in time.

Of course, we must learn to think more about other people's feelings and think about problems from other people's standpoints, so that we can correct them.

You should be clear about your own shortcomings, discover the strengths of others, control your mentality, and communicate more with others, so that you can correct them.

Those who are self-righteous and self-centered generally find it difficult to find their mistakes, but if they are hit hard, they may change, and the first thing to correct is to think about others.

You can let him read more books, go out for a walk, and don't be a frog at the bottom of the well. Also, the people around him should not spoil him, hit him more, and let him realize the flaws of his character.

Think more about others, for example, when you do this or say this, think about how you will make others feel in advance.

You should learn to empathize, don't take your own feelings too seriously when dealing with others, and think more about others.

You should use the radius to draw a circle and feel the hearts of everyone around you, so that you can get rid of your bad habits and know how to think about others, so you can correct them.

Self-righteous people should listen to other people's opinions and not always see themselves as the center of the whole thing.

We should learn to be more considerate of others, we can also learn a lot of advantages from others, don't focus on ourselves in everything, and think more about others.

1.Find a close friend to help you make corrections, such as asking him to remind you when you are self-centered again, so that you can put on the brakes in time.

2.Surround yourself with generous and humble people, and when you spend a lot of time with them, your self-centered shortcomings will be slowly corrected.

Of course, we should try our best to think about others and think about problems and do things from a different perspective, so that we can make corrections.

A self-centered person will really reap the consequences if he doesn't wait for you to rectify it.

Everyone has a "self"—my body, my thoughts and feelings, my property, my reputation, my status, and so on. But if you are a smart person, you should be more considerate of others, because without others, there is no self. "After the body comes first, and the outside body exists", the word "I" is overemphasized, and it will become a curse.

Rule 2: If you care too much about the eyes of others, you will lose yourself.

Everyone is unique, but many people prefer to live according to other people's eyes and sayings. Like the toddler in the fable, such a person will lose himself, his personality, and all that he can bring. The true color is the most beautiful.

Celestial rule 3: Those who have deep desires are shallow.

Playing with people loses morality, playthings often lose their minds, and greed inevitably fails. In today's world, with each passing day, new things are emerging one after another, and if you don't focus on career and cultivation, you will fall into a terrible crisis at any time.

Regulation 4: Moderation is medicine, and excess is poison.

Pride is like a full moon, and it is becoming less and less every day; Proud people always think that they are knowledgeable and capable, but the real reason for pride is ignorance. Remember Leo Tolstoy's metaphor: "If a person's true ability is compared to a fractional value, then his self-evaluation is the denominator; The higher the denominator, the smaller the fractional value.

Tiangui 5: Those who are good at fighting will fight in an invincible position.

Anyone has a desire to succeed and a happy life. However, "it is better to retreat and close the net", "it is better to burn more incense on the basis of improving one's own quality", which is only a wise way to participate in the competition on the basis of improving one's own quality.

Rule 6: People who lack self-control are incompatible.

Do you dare to dance in shackles? Mr. Wen Yiduo compares poetry to a dance in shackles, which is intriguing. You can't imagine a game without rules, or words and deeds without control. Everything will only be good if it is controlled by rules and regulations.

The rooster says, "If I don't crow, the sun won't get up". This is clearly subjective idealism. Only self-centered, regardless of the laws of natural development.

Things in nature are formed and developed according to their own inherent laws, and do not depend on human consciousness.

In the era of industrial civilization, people disregarded the carrying capacity of nature and excavated indiscriminately, resulting in the destruction of the natural environment, followed by natural disasters. In the end, it is humanity itself that suffers.

King Zhou Li did not listen to the advice, insisted on going his own way, and finally ended up in exile; Xiang Yu, the overlord of Chu, didn't listen to the advice, and couldn't even listen to Fan Zeng's words, and in the end he only ended up killing himself by Wujiang; Liu Chan, the descendant of Shu, ignored Zhuge Liang's painstaking persuasion, and in the end could only leave a joke of "happy not to think of Shu". It can be seen that being self-centered and not listening to the advice of others will only end up walking in the world for nothing.

Looking back at the Tang Dynasty. "With copper as a mirror, you can be dressed, and with history as a mirror, you can know the rise and fall." Tang Taizong humbly accepted advice, from the good advice like a stream, and finally created the Tang Dynasty Zhenguan rule of the grand occasion, King Qi Wei accepted the advice of others, the result is like a city, social stability and national peace and security.

It can be seen that we will succeed by humbly accepting the opinions of others and constantly correcting our own shortcomings.

The universe is my heart, and my heart is the truth", Wang Shouren's view. When a vicious dog comes to you with its teeth and claws, ready to bite you, and you are convinced that it will not bite you, and you stand there and do you believe that it will not bite you? The results can be imagined.

Natural disasters are inevitable. We can use the effects or conditions under which disasters occur to change or limit the conditions under which they occur, and then we can reduce or prevent the harm caused by disasters. If you are only self-centered and believe that disasters will not happen, and when disasters occur, you will continue to do your own thing, and the results can be imagined.

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Interpersonal communication emphasizes the principle of reciprocity, hoping that others will be good to you, then you should also have the corresponding contribution. If in order to satisfy oneself in the relationship, maintain one's self-esteem everywhere, and cause confrontation with others, you can only close yourself off, isolate yourself from the outside world, and be in a state of self-isolation and self-isolation.

For people with a serious psychological disorder such as self-centeredness, they should face up to social reality, learn to be courteous, and make some concessions when necessary. Learn to respect, care and help others, so that you can reap the rewards of others and experience the value and happiness of life. Strengthen self-cultivation and learn to control one's desires, words and deeds.

Self-centeredness is a personality defect that leads to depression, anxiety and other mental illnesses after hitting a wall in social interactions. Don't think about others and feel like you're right about everything. I used to be a self-centered person who often felt that I was more correct than others and didn't listen to others' opinions very much.

Later, I had a friend whose opinion was contrary to mine when I made decisions, and I didn't listen to him, and then as soon as I hit a wall, he would keep saying to me, "You can't do this, but listening to me is different", after a few losses, I now learned to listen to other people's opinions, and gradually pay more attention to the people around me, and think from the perspective of others. So I think that amplifying the mistakes of an egocentric person will inevitably lower his confidence, and if you can guide him to get it right once or twice, he will basically be less egoistic.

The easiest way is to stay away from this kind of person and let him stay in his own center, lonely for the rest of his life. The second is to find a way to save him, slowly pull him out of his small circle, and make him a member of the collective.

1.Positive recognition first.

This kind of person is generally dead to save face, and hardly thinks about his mistakes. Therefore, we should avoid direct conflict, for things you disagree with, you can first agree with his ideas, the wisdom of his ideas, first meet his desire to seek attention, brush his sense of existence, agree with his ideas, and show that you are listening carefully to his opinions, so that he will not be defensive, only in this way can the next persuasion work be further.

2.Truth-seeking is not enough to euphemistically remind you.

This step should be based on your own point of view, the other party can not know everything, everything, you only need to be kind reminders on some of these details, and then timely come up with some factual evidence, they generally can no longer quibble with you.

3.Save face to the steps.

This is an important point, you may say, we have been with her so patiently for so long just now, isn't it enough to give him face? Yes, self-righteous people often have very strong self-esteem, like to die, and don't earn face, even if she loses face, so we not only have to give him face but also give him a step, so that he can come down well, otherwise even if he doesn't tear his face with you in person, he will tie up with you afterwards and remember when to wear a small shoe for you and regain his own self-confidence.

Precautions: Many people will have such thoughts, after all, it is very annoying to be this kind of self-righteous person, and it is inevitable to want to slap him a few times and teach him a lesson, but in the workplace, there are many people who are so annoying. Therefore, we must always remember our own purpose, get rid of the entanglement as soon as possible, and advance our work is the most important thing.

Finally, to sum up: when we meet self-righteous people in work and life, don't panic, and don't do it right away, first actively affirm their positive attitude, and then enthusiastically repeat his words, create a peaceful atmosphere, and then come up with evidence to convince him, and finally create a step, let him come down happily, so as to ensure that the self-righteous person next time will never take the initiative to trouble you again.

Be kind to others, be kind and tolerant of others, don't worry about it, Nan Wujan Sandalwood Buddha.