How do you measure your life, how do you measure a person s life?

Life is not measured by your weekend schedule, not by who you hang out with, how many people you've been with, and whether you've never been with anyone;

Life is not measured by your family's prestige, the money you have, the brand of your car, and your work and study;

Life is not measured by your appearance, clothing, and the style you like;

Life is measured by who you love and who you hurt, by the happiness and sorrow you bring to others, by the promises you make and the trust you betray.

What measures life is friendship, which can be regarded as a sacred thing or as a **;

Life is measured by what you say, what you do, what you want to say and what you want to do, whether they are harmful or beneficial.

Life is measured by the judgments you make, the reasons why you make such judgments, and for whom or against whom you make such judgments;

Life is measured by who you deliberately ignore;

Life is measured by your jealousy, your fear, your ignorance and revenge against others.

Only you can choose the ways to influence others, and those decisions are the meaning of life.

Make a friend with gratitude, having a friend is a blessing, and being someone else's friend is your honor and right.

At the beginning of 2017, I had the book "How Do You Measure Your Life". At that time, I was thinking about my life: good health, work trade-offs, and family happiness, which seemed to be contradictory in terms of resource allocation. This book gives some food for thought and help.

My contradiction is that I work for the sake of work every day, I am very busy, and I can't get the affirmation of my family and partners yet - because I don't have more time to communicate with them, so that they think that I am not a qualified wife and daughter, and I am not a leader partner they like. Within 45 days after giving birth, I returned to work for some reasons, and for some reason I returned to work and took on a few more important tasks and tasks.

I am sad! Why did I give so much and get so far from what I imagined.

I didn't accomplish anything other than completing work projects and challenging goals, I wasn't happy, I felt frustrated and failed.

What's even more terrifying is that the body gave me a wake-up call, inadvertently I got gallstones, and after just more than a year of not paying attention, there were one and several stones of about 1cm that took root in my gallbladder. The doctor advised me to have surgery as soon as possible, after all, my pain was getting more and more frequent (almost once a week).

The author of the book, Professor Christensen of Harvard Business School, was diagnosed with lymphoma in 2010 and was invited by Harvard University to give a talk to business school graduates on the topic of "How Do You Measure Your Life?" The speech talked about the meaning of life from the most advanced management technology, with his own rich work experience and life thinking. The content of this book is derived from the essence of his speech:

I think this is his perception of life in the face of death.

For various reasons, I have only read this book through it, and I have not yet read it intensively.

But after reading the first two chapters, I told myself with certainty: I can't go on like this, I have to make a choice!

It can't just work, work is just a part of my life, although the completion of every job will bring me satisfaction, but it will not last long, I hope and pursue happiness!

I made the right choice. I reorganized my working time and life time, and I had a better understanding of life. My body has improved, I am more comfortable with my work, my friends like me more, and they all like to communicate with me.

I think I'm happy!

Because some of the contents of this book have benefited me a lot, I began to arrange time to read it intensively, so that I could take stock and re-understand and savor it.

I feel like I can do a little better now.

But this is not the most important chapter, the most important is the chapter about the family and the children. I feel like I'm still doing too little and not being competent enough mom.

I need to think about how I can improve in the next year or two – create a better family culture and develop my child's ability to apply processes. My life will be happier this way!

Try to make yourself happier!

Of course, there is a pursuit, people who do not pursue want to lose their way at sea, we need to know what we want, we all want happiness, and this happiness needs our own hands to work hard, this happiness includes both spiritual and material aspects, want to obtain happiness, both of which are indispensable.

We must realize our ideals, complete our personal pursuits, this life is meaningful, life is always facing difficulties and challenges, dare to face the waves of life is the real strong. Always be prepared, work hard for a better life, and live well for the people we love and love us deeply.