Should parents tutor their children s studies?

In addition to the important role of teachers, the role of parents is also indispensable in children's learning life. Holidays, weekends and evenings are generally used by parents to help their children study. From the perspective of knowledge, parents generally have little problem, and counseling focuses on methods and enlightenment, but knowledge is often not the most important.

The purpose of counseling is to help children form their own interest, confidence, and methods to solve problems without counseling in the future, and to apply different methods at different stages.

Tutoring children's learning is a homework for parents to do, but many parents have a headache about it and feel that they can't tutor. From the perspective of knowledge, parents generally have little problem, but there is still a lot of room for improvement in other aspects. The following concepts are actually applicable to parents.

If the child has not yet formed good study habits, has no interest and confidence in learning, and has a poor foundation, then it is necessary to work hard to tutor the child within a period of time. Even if the child has a good foundation, has initially formed habits, and has good interests and confidence, if the parents are good at counseling, then timely help can also be the icing on the cake. Therefore, learning to tutor children is still a basic skill that parents need to master.

If you are a middle school student, you should study on your own, and if you don't understand, you can ask again.

Accompany. I remember when I was a child, most of the classmates whose parents were teachers in the class studied very well, of course, this is also very understandable, in the era when the cat dad went to elementary school, most parents were free-range to their children, and they were not enough to learn their children, but the teachers were different, not only to understand the laws of education, but also to tutor children. In fact, a large part of children's dislike of learning is due to fear of difficulties.

When we were children, we all heard the story of kitten fishing, in fact, children are just like the kittens in the story, in the face of the boring and boring fishing, they prefer some interesting things, which is also the fundamental reason why children are easily distracted when learning. In particular, if the child is studying, the father is playing games next to him, the mother is watching TV, and the grandparents are chatting, so the child is more likely to be distracted in such a learning environment. My experience in this regard is to give children a quiet learning environment.

Parents can stay with their children while they are studying and do quiet things such as knitting, reading, writing, and so on. If the child is distracted while studying, parents can also gently knock on the table or book to remind the child, at this time parents must pay attention and do not reprimand the child, which will make the child nervous and more likely to be distracted. Another very important reason for tutoring children who do not like to learn is that they are unwilling to face failure.

Many parents don't understand this and think it's good to correct their mistakes. But for children, failure in learning will seriously hit the child's enthusiasm for learning, and even cause the child to break down and cry, and the cat father's daughter often cries because she can't read an English word correctly. For this problem, parents usually have to tell their children that it is normal to fail in the learning process, and the knowledge learned from mistakes will be stronger.

In addition, parents should also take their children to do the wrong questions several times and tell the child that the mistake is **, until the child masters this knowledge point, so that over time the child will become more and more confident in learning.

Parents should develop a good habit of loving learning, parents are a mirror of their children, and parents love learning can play a guiding role in their children. Parents should prepare for the lesson first, some parents know how to do this question, but they can't speak, and the child can't understand when tutoring the child, so parents should learn to teach first. Be patient, if the child does not understand the speech, the parent will be impatient, change his face or lose his temper, which is not conducive to the child's learning.

Parents should not beat and scold their children, do not scold their children for being "too stupid", and encourage their children. Give your child a spiritual reward. Understand a little pedagogy and psychology, willing to change yourself in order to change children, parents are the ceiling of children, want children to become excellent, you first make efforts to look like, parents and friends start from myself!

Parents should not play with mobile phones when tutoring their children's learning, and some parents supervise their children's learning while swiping the circle of friends, which seriously affects their children's learning. It is not always possible for every family to maintain harmony, but it is very important for parents and children to maintain positive, friendly and frank communication no matter what difficulties they encounter. The child's participation in family life and the early clarification of responsibilities have a positive effect on the child's development.

Life at home requires parents to supervise their children in a timely manner, supervise their children's behavior, supervise their children to have bad habits, and supervise their children to complete their homework on time.

Observe the whole learning process of the child to see if the child has a beginning and an end, instead of being a tiger, or drinking water and eating for a while in the middle of homework, and looking around for a while when going to the toilet. It also depends on the child's attitude towards mistakes, whether they are immediately corrected, constantly summarized and improved, or whether the answers are copied. Another is to see the degree of carefulness of the child, many times, in addition to a smart child, we also need a careful, patient, persevering child.

If the problem cannot be solved, you can turn to teachers and classmates, and parents are the last option. For the cultivation of children's independent learning ability, help children develop a good habit of unity and cooperation with others, and let children not rely on or rely less on their parents.

If you want to effectively tutor your child's learning, you should first strengthen your understanding of learning, and parents must understand your child's ability to learn and enhance your child's interest in learning in the process of tutoring your child's learning, which will be more conducive to your child's development and progress in learning.

You can choose to let your child study first, and then you check his homework, and don't always let him read the answers.

Then parents should guide children to make corresponding learning plans and learning goals according to their children's academic performance, so that they will be more regular.

Parents should pay attention to the following points when tutoring their children: 1. You can do demonstrations, but don't make substitutions; 2. Let children develop the habit of doing homework regularly to avoid procrastination; 3. Correct homework with your child to deepen your impression.

Parents should not help their children with their homework

Children who have just started school are not proficient enough in writing homework, and some children cannot finish a page of letters in an hour. This situation is naturally helpless and difficult for parents who accompany their children to write homework. Some impatient parents may do the homework themselves in order to get their children to finish their homework early.

Although in the eyes of parents, their actions are only to help their children write a few pinyin, but it is very touching to children, because this will leave the impression that children can do their homework for others. Therefore, if the child does not know how to write, parents can write a sample at the beginning of the line and let the child write against it, so that the child can not only complete the homework, but also improve the speed.

Do your homework on time and don't let your child develop a habit of procrastination

Homework is a student's task, just like work is to workers. Therefore, if there are no special circumstances, after school, parents should let their children complete their homework first. Other things, whether it's extracurricular reading or hobbies, have to be on the back burner.

Only in this way will the child not develop the habit of procrastination. If you can cultivate the virtue of completing tasks on time from an early age, the child will benefit for a lifetime.

Grade homework with your child

According to the current teaching habits, parents need to mark their children's homework. If possible, parents can mark with their children, as this behavior is equivalent to a second revision for the child. In addition, knowing that grading homework with parents will make children more serious when writing homework.

This will not only correct the child's learning attitude, but also deepen the knowledge in the child's mind. If you encounter a wrong question, parents can explain the correction to the child by the way when correcting, which can make the child remember more deeply.

When children are not yet able to learn independently, parental guidance is very important. However, the sooner children learn to learn independently, the faster their progress will be.

Parents must be patient Chang Chunyuan, in the process of tutoring children to write homework, do not play with mobile phones, do not severely reprimand children, do not interrupt children when children are concentrated, and in the process of tutoring children to do homework, we must help children find the right learning methods or learning strategies.

Parents should take their children to do homework or study, accompany their children to accompany their children to study together, usually to supervise their children's learning, and to give children a correct guidance, usually for children do not understand the limbs to give children some guidance.

When parents tutor their children to do homework, they should maintain a calm mind, give their children enough patience when they are filial piety, and teach their children methods when they are smiling and teaseful when tutoring their children, not to teach them direct answers.