When the child is older, can I get a divorce?

In fact, as long as the relationship is not harmonious, you can get divorced, and sometimes you will always think about what happened to the children? But sometimes I don't think a child will be happy in an unhappy family.

First, divorce can resolve conflicts.

For divorce can quickly solve the contradictions and disputes between men and women, both parties have reached a very painful and awkward level, and if the family is unhappy and happy, then divorce can completely solve these problems.

Second, it will have an impact on your work and life.

Unhappiness in marriage will have some impact on your life and work, but if both men and women are divorced, then you can better concentrate on learning those husband and wife feelings, emotional breakdown, for this kind of quarrels and contradictions, it is always endless, at this time choosing to divorce, but also help your work and study.

Third, it will become more mature.

For those who choose to divorce, they must have had the corresponding experience in the previous stage, so they have gradually become mature, and if they get married again, they can better handle this marital relationship, and they will avoid the problems that arose before to a greater extent.

The above is my summary of some of the content about the benefits of divorce, sometimes we have to think for ourselves, don't always use the child as a shield, if the child knows that you are divorced, you will live a happier life, and he will also support your divorce.

If you really want to divorce, it doesn't matter how old the child is, which means that no matter how old the child is, you can choose to do what you want to do. But if you really think about a lot of children, then you try not to get a divorce.

The first is that children do play a very important role in your marriage, because as a parent, if you give your child a life, you should give him a better childhood, or give him a better future.

Therefore, it is also important to consider the child properly, so when your child grows up, you can properly consider things like divorce. But you should ask yourself, if the child is younger, can't you make such a choice yourself? Is it the best way to always use children as excuses?

So these are the things that you have to ask yourself clearly. And you should also take a look at the current state of your children, you have been thinking about your children for so long, should you get a divorce? Or after such a long period of patience, what does he really think about your marriage?

Especially after his children grow up, he himself has his own views on many things, so whether the two of you should divorce, he has actually seen it more clearly than you, if the children do not have any nostalgia for your marriage, it means that there may really be no fate between each other.

And if you really don't want to delay the children, I think try not to divorce, you can recall whether there are any particularly contradictory things between you and your husband or your wife, if it really involves issues of principle, then it may be a good thing to divorce early, so that your children can accept such things from an early age, maybe it will be easier.

But if there is no big problem between you, and there are no principled things involving each other, then don't go to divorce, if you divorce, you will also think about some things about your children, and you will also consider some property division or other things between you after the divorce, these things will be more cumbersome.

So at this time, you will find that there are not too many benefits to divorce, on the contrary, there are a lot of disadvantages, so it is best for two people to be together, although it is very bad now, there will be a lot of contradictions, but you will find that there may be many surprises in the future.

Yes, if the family is not harmonious, then divorce as soon as possible, the husband and wife do not love each other, the family atmosphere is extremely poor, I believe that the child lives in that environment, the psychology may not be healthy, happy, personal opinion.

As a parent, for the sake of their children, they continue to hedge their youth in a backwater marriage for more than ten years, which is a lifelong burden for kind children.

The best gift parents can give their children is not to bind or kidnap their children, so that their children can grow up healthy and happy by their side.

The child grows up and flies freely to the wider sky outside. As parents, if they can help their children, it is the best, if they have no spare energy, at least, let their children travel lightly and without any burden to achieve their own life ideals.

Today's children should not be too precocious, whether their parents' relationship is good or not, they are clear. Growing up in a family where the husband and wife are not harmonious, it can only be chronic torture for the children, how can there be a good environment for growth?

If the husband and wife can get together and disperse, negotiate the custody and care of the children at the time of divorce, arrange the family property, and try to leave enough property for the children, the children will definitely live better than if you did not divorce.

Whether a divorce can be obtained has nothing to do with the age of the children, but depends on whether the relationship between the husband and wife has broken down.

In the following cases:

1. If the court's mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

Regarding divorce, many people have long ceased to hold the psychology of "persuasion and not persuasion". Because, life is already not easy, and it is too uncomfortable for an unhappy person to be trapped in a suffocating marriage forever. The point is that parents are not in harmony, and it is the children who hurt the most.

Affect your child's mental health.

If parents often quarrel and children live in a noisy and scolding environment, they will have psychological problems such as inner fear, lack of love, and lack of security. Therefore, couples who are emotionally incompatible are reluctant to be together, seemingly giving their children a complete home, but in fact, they are hurting their children's mental health day by day.

Let the child develop a negative personality.

It is said that parents love each other and are the best nourishment for children's growth. If the parents don't love each other and their feelings don't match, no matter how well they disguise it, the child can see it. In such a depressing, loveless family atmosphere, the child's personality will become very negative, such as low self-esteem, timidity, and easy self-abandonment.

Or, he often witnesses his parents scolding and fighting, and his personality becomes violent.

Influence the child's future view of marriage.

The marital status of the parents is actually a reference for the children to start a family in the future. If the parents are not in agreement, they are noisy every day, or even fight, the children will be bored and afraid of marriage in their eyes, and they will grow up to not get married, or they will not care about the family after marriage.

Divorce can be granted regardless of the child's age if both parents wish, with the exception of the man who must be one year old before he can file for divorce.

If you really can't get by, you can get a divorce, and when your children are older, you can take care of yourself, and you will understand your difficulties.

Yes, marriage is free, but it hurts the children.

There are many reasons for divorce. The age of the child does not matter whether the divorce is divorced or not.

Why do you want to divorce, is it because the relationship is not good, you are ready to divorce a long time ago, or because of something, the marriage should be carefully considered.

If you wait until the children are older to divorce, even though there are tens of thousands of reasons for the specific divorce, you can't ignore the inner feelings of the children, and the divorce of the parents may bring devastating harm to the children. We often see that children from single-parent families feel depressed, depressed, and become inferior and timid due to the lack of father's or mother's love; or because of long-term living in the quarrels and abuses of parents, they become irritable, rebellious and even embark on the road of crime; The deeper impact is the fear of love and marriage, which has become a mental obstacle to healthy growth.

Article 34 of the Marriage Law provides that a man may not file for divorce during pregnancy, within one year after childbirth, or within six months after the termination of pregnancy. This restriction does not apply if the woman files for divorce, or where the people's court deems it necessary to accept the husband's request for divorce.

Legal Analysis: The divorce of both parents has nothing to do with the age of the child. The man may not file for divorce during the woman's pregnancy, within one year after childbirth, or within six months after the termination of pregnancy; However, this does not apply if the woman files for divorce or the people's court deems it necessary to accept the man's request for divorce.

The law is based on the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1076:Where both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority.

The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly initiate divorce proceedings in the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

Where one party is declared missing by a poor party and the other party initiates a divorce lawsuit, the divorce shall be granted.

Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

Children can be divorced no matter how old they are. If both parties voluntarily divorce, they can divorce by agreement, and if the woman wants to divorce, she can divorce by litigation. However, the law stipulates that the man may not file for divorce during the woman's pregnancy, within one year after childbirth, or within six months after the termination of pregnancy; However, this is not the case where the woman files for divorce or the people's court finds it truly necessary to accept the husband's request for divorce.

[Legal basis].

Article 1076 of the Civil Code provides that if the husband and wife voluntarily divorce and omit to do so, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority. The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' intention to divorce voluntarily and their consensus on matters such as child support, property affairs, and debt handling. Article 1077:Within 30 days from the date on which the marriage registration authority receives the application for divorce registration, either party who is unwilling to divorce may withdraw the application for divorce registration from the marriage registration authority.

Within 30 days after the expiration of the period provided for in the preceding paragraph, both parties shall apply in person to the marriage registration authority for the issuance of a divorce certificate; If the application is not made, it shall be deemed that the application for divorce registration has been withdrawn. Article 1082:The man must not file for divorce during the woman's pregnancy, within one year after giving birth, or within six months after the termination of pregnancy; However, this is not the case where the woman files for divorce or the people's court finds it truly necessary to accept the husband's request for divorce.

Generally, children can be divorced when they are old, and according to the provisions of the Civil Code, Sun Kezhi is instructed that both husband and wife should sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration at the marriage registration authority in person. However, at the same time, it is also stipulated that the south shall not file for divorce during the woman's childbirth, so it can be seen that the man shall not file for divorce before the child reaches the age of one year, except if the woman agrees to the divorce.

Article 1076 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China provides that if the husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration at the marriage registration authority in person. Article 1082:The man must not file for divorce during the woman's pregnancy, within one year after giving birth, or within six months after the termination of pregnancy; However, the people's court deems it necessary to accept the husband's request for divorce if the woman files for divorce or is blind.