I often have conflicts with my husband, should I insist on waiting until the children are adults bef

Obviously this is not advisable. At present, many couples who plan to divorce, when dealing with their children, they feel that as long as they blame each other in front of their children, their children will not intuitively feel various problems in their marriage. In this way, it is good to delay until the child grows up, and then leave, which will not cause more harm to the child.

In fact, the couple ignores such a detail, that is, those privacy that you think is not mentioned will actually be reflected in all aspects of life, and the child will experience it in all aspects, subconsciously.

Deeply, I feel it. One day, your child will see through your relationship. Therefore, my opinion is that since the relationship between husband and wife has broken down and has reached the point of divorce, it is better to tell the child frankly and let the child face this truth with a sincere attitude and way.

If you blindly cover up and whitewash in an evasive and hypocritical way, and lie to your children, then your children will become as unreal as you are husband and wife. In fact, instead of thinking about this kind of problem, it is better to think about whether two people, for the sake of the child, can they try to find another run-in point and start again, maybe in the end, the husband and wife will be reconciled as before? In this way, it will also help the child's future growth.

Life is your own, and there is no need to wronged yourself for the sake of others. Moreover, even if you are wronged, it may not be the best care for your children, and an unhappy family.

It will only cause more harm to the child. So when it's time for a divorce, just follow your heart.

It's really irreparable, and it's not recommended to use the sake of the child as an excuse to continue. Children need to be nurtured, and parents have the right to live the life they want. Adults can only give their children a happy childhood if they truly have their own happiness. Family of origin.

It can have an impact on a child's life. The original family here is not necessarily that the parents do not divorce under the same roof, but what kind of impact the family environment has on the growth of children. Hope it helps.

If you often have conflicts with your husband and have no feelings, you must resolve the divorce quickly, and don't delay it until the children are adults. Because in the process of children's growth, whether parents are compatible or not has a great impact on all aspects of the child's personality.

No, you don't. Because the child will always understand you, you have to live your own value, don't compromise for the sake of the child, and you must divorce immediately.

I don't think so. Because once you do this, you not only wronged yourself, but also have a great impact on your family, although this may hurt the child, but it is better to stop the loss in time than to have more and more contradictions in the future, and a bigger war will break out.

Many families have reported that with children, the relationship between the husband and wife is not as close as before, is it a problem with the relationship or a problem before the two people?

In fact, this is also normal, the difference between marriage and love is that when you are in love, it is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families, you can't have the freedom and willfulness when you are in love, and you are more bound by the family. Both of them need to be distracted by family trivialities, managing the relationship between parents and friends, and the husband and wife are also looking up and looking down at home, and they have long lost their previous freshness, so the relationship between the two is not as close as it was when they were in love.

After having a child, the husband and wife share a lot of thoughts with the child, and all the things of the child have to be handled by the parents, including eating, sleeping and bathing, which take up a lot of their time, and they spend less and less time alone, and the topic between them is also a matter of the family, which is also a reason.

If you feel unsatisfactory in your married life, you should also insist on it for the sake of your children and give each other a chance to adapt slowly, after all, both parties will be affected, and be more considerate of each other, all for the sake of having a healthy family for your children. If the marriage is really to the point of no return, it is better for two people to separate, and if the child grows up in a situation where the family is not harmonious, it will also have an impact on the child's psychology.

Two people can try to go out and relax for a while, they can travel, both parties can regain the charm of each other, give each other some opportunities to be alone, and maybe they will find that the marriage is not too bad.

I think marriage is not for children, your own marriage has to make your own decisions, if the marriage is not satisfactory, you must follow your inner thoughts, when you should break it, you have to break it, children are not the shield of marriage.

Since you have a child, you should communicate with your husband well, talk about your thoughts, talk about your current problems, see if you can change it, both of you try to change it, if you still can't change it, then you don't have to settle because of the child, because if the marriage is not harmonious, the child's happiness will not be high.

I won't continue to maintain such a relationship, I won't continue to maintain this kind of marriage, your relationship with your husband is getting worse and worse, and the impact on the children will also be there, so it is not a good thing to continue to maintain such a marriage.

I think that if the relationship with my husband has indeed come to an end, then divorce can also be considered, after all, a marriage without feelings cannot last long.

The children are innocent, and if you are going to divorce the children will be very hurt. It is recommended to try to ease and solve the emotional problems with your husband, and it is best not to divorce easily.

If you think that children are important then you need to learn to be patient, and if you think that personal happiness is also important and you can take care of your children's healthy growth, then you can choose to divorce.

There is no need to live for others, and the child will naturally understand when he grows up, just give the child enough love, don't leave him any shadow, so necessary, divorce if you are really unhappy.

I think it depends on the individual, if you can manage your own affairs well and maintain them, then you can persevere, if you really can't go on, then you can take care of yourself and take care of your children, then you don't have to be so wronged yourself.

If you really can't stand it, there is no need to continue to endure it, even if you win now, it is not a long-term solution, and you can give your child some reasonable explanations earlier.

It's up to you, you need to work on your own.

As far as I think, you are too indulgent to him, so he is like a child, and he will never grow up.

Try to talk to him and say how you feel.

If he can understand and repent, then there is room for this marriage to be saved.

If he is still like this, then he will have to divorce ...

Hey, the authorities are obsessed, your husband obviously has a psychological shadow and has always minded your previous affairs, you are really stupid to give birth to all the children.

A man likes you and doesn't like you, can't you tell? You know your own psychology, I just want to say, long pain is better than short pain, you can't change him, you know?

Hurry up and get away really.

Sure enough, two people have been together for a long time, and there is no distance, and there is no mutual tolerance, understanding and respect

Understand, I'm still a child, hehe, hey, take your time, it's really not good, just go home and stay for a few months, let him reflect.

If your feeling is right, that.

There's a lack of basic communication between you.

It's been a couple for so long, how can you feel it.

Maybe your feelings are wrong, your husband loves you very much, but he is busy with work.

Whether the marriage can continue or not, it depends on you whether others say it or not.

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Then let's get a divorce! After all, he can't give you a complete home, and if a family is incomplete without children, and he would rather divorce than have children, then what is there to talk about.

Such a man has no sense of responsibility and no sense of responsibility, so don't do it. It is estimated that in the heart of this kind of man, there is only himself, which is too selfish, and an early divorce is also a relief.

Isn't the child his? This kind of mental damage is too great. You have to find out the reason, what your husband is worried about, and then talk to your husband about the chairman of the labor union or the leader of the neighborhood committee, or relatives, friends, colleagues, and people who can talk to you. The right medicine is the right thing.

If you really want to have children, you might as well choose to divorce.

First of all, it is necessary to find out why he does not want children, whether it is a physical problem or other concerns; In addition, it depends on whether you don't want it now, or you don't want it in the future.

Secondly, it can be solved according to the specific cause, if it is a physical cause, you can go to the doctor for medicine, which can be achieved through scientific and technological means; If it is for other objective reasons, the two parties can communicate and negotiate and solve it internally as much as possible.

Finally, if you still want to be together, don't push too hard, that will be counterproductive.

In short, let's communicate and negotiate well.

I only heard that women are reluctant to have children, and few men do not want children.

What can you do, go to court and ask him to compensate you for your losses.

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1. On the conditions for divorce.

According to the provisions of the Marriage Law, if the relationship between the husband and wife has indeed broken down, a divorce may be granted.

2. About child support and child support.

For the issue of child support, it is necessary to carefully confirm the circumstances of both parties from the perspective of being conducive to the child's growth, but the child during the breastfeeding period is generally awarded to the woman for support, if it is not a lactation period, it is necessary to see that party is more suitable for the child's growth and solicit the child's own opinion. The parent who does not support the child should pay monthly maintenance until the child reaches the age of 18, and the standard of maintenance is generally between 20 and 30% of the annual income. If one party is not suitable to raise the child during the future maintenance period, the other party can go to court to file a new lawsuit to change the custody of the child.

3. On the division of common property.

The property acquired by one party during the marriage is the joint property of the husband and wife, and the joint property and debts of the husband and wife are jointly owned and borne by the husband and wife, and are generally half of the same person. If one party is at fault, the division of property can be divided with less or no share, and the specific share will be determined by the court. In general, after marriage, the prenuptial bride price is treated as joint property and cannot be refunded, and if there is no marriage, the other party can be asked to return the bride price.

4. About the divorce procedure, required documents and fees.

In the case of divorce by agreement, after negotiation between the two parties, they should go through the divorce formalities at the original marriage registration authority with the divorce agreement, marriage certificate and ID card of both parties and receive the divorce certificate; If one party does not agree or repents of non-performance after signing the divorce agreement, then the divorce shall be filed in the court where the defendant is domiciled, or in the court where the defendant has resided for more than one year, or if the defendant's whereabouts are unknown or imprisonment for more than one year, the divorce may be filed in the court where the plaintiff is located. The first instance is generally 6 months, and the second instance is 3 months. If the court does not leave the first judgment, it can file a new lawsuit after half a year, and the court of the second prosecution should generally rule away.

If the litigation fee for litigation divorce does not involve the division of property, it is generally 50 yuan, and if there is a division of property, the fee shall be paid according to the proportion of the property, which can be referred to the "Litigation Fee Measures".

Gods and horses are all floating clouds, ask if there is a wood in the feelings, and you can't afford to hurt the people who have feelings!!

Filing divorce proceedings with the courts.

This is really not coming soon, even the court will entrust you to be in ** after half a year, it is better to divorce by agreement.

If you can't divorce by agreement, you can elope, and the divorce will automatically take effect after a few years.