Is there a saying that the other partner died early in the relationship and the other partner couldn

There are local customs in various places, and there are such sayings in many places. One is that the one who left will take the other away. The second is that the living party is afraid that if he remarries, he will kill the other party who remarries. Anyway, it's superstitious, but you can't disbelieve it, and if you believe it, you won't have to worry about it.

No words. This is superstition. There is a feudal superstition that if one of the husband and wife dies, the other person will be dragged to the underworld if the other person goes to send it.

This is unscientific. Emotionally speaking, one of them dies and the other goes to send, which is the minimum relationship between husband and wife. Scientifically speaking, one side will not let the dead be dragged away by the other party.

Half of the husband and wife died young, and the other half could not see him off. There's nothing to say, just a husband and wife. He should be given his last ride.

There must have been so many years of affection. No matter how busy you are, you have to find a way to see him off. If you can't see him off in person, it will be a regret for your whole life.

Unless the relationship between the husband and wife breaks down. If you are divorced, you just don't go to see you off.

I think there is no explanation for the early death of the other partner in the husband and wife relationship, and the other partner can't see him off, but the other half dies and the other half is too sad and doesn't want to see him off, in fact, there is no explanation.

Is there any other way to say this? There is nothing to say. As a couple, there is definitely a first go.

The latter one didn't send it when he left. Because there's only one. It is impossible to find another one to see him off.

That doesn't meet the requirements either. There is nothing to say about walking alone. Don't look for another one.

That would be an insult to personality. Don't be superstitious. Let's mourn and change.

I came to your husband and wife relationship, and the other half couldn't see him off if he couldn't see him off, is there a saying? I think there is a saying, now it is like this, don't let one party to send, so or the man tries again and doesn't let the man send it, saying that he is afraid of giving it to the man, and the Yunnan one hooked away, so the man is not allowed to send it, and the man has children at home, and they are children with children to send their mother to death.

This local customs are different, the relationship between husband and wife, one partner dies early and the other partner I think he (her) should be sent off, after all, life and death will never be seen again, is it a painful thing for many years, or is it reasonable to send it away, more humane.

The customs of each place are different, and everyone's handling methods are different, so some go to send her, some don't send it, in short, there is no other way to say, just follow your heart.

Customs vary from place to place. In some places, there is a saying that if you don't go to see you off, you can marry (or marry again) in the future.

I have never heard of such a saying, no matter what happens between husband and wife, one party can see off the other, and the deceased is the greatest.

There is no way to say that the husband and wife should give him the last ride, which may be a special circumstance and personal reasons.

The natural law of birth, old age, sickness and death, no one can change it, specifically saying that one party dies and the other party should give him a ride and wish him a safe journey.

This is one room and one number, it is true that you can't go to wake up for the husband and wife, but you feel uncomfortable at home.

The customs are different from place to place, and some places do have such customs.

In the traditional funeral of the Han nationality, there are many precautions, such as the elder does not send the young, the husband and wife do not send each other, the guests do not go out, and the traditional funeral customs such as the funeral do not enter the door, which are all passed down from generation to generation by the ancestors. If the bereaved family does not pay attention to these, its image in people's hearts will be greatly reduced. What exactly are the precautions?

Let's listen to them one by one.

That. 1. Don't go out for three days and don't sweep the floor: If there is a funeral at home, the filial son will not go out for three days, and all other matters will be handled by the steward, unless the funeral is reported (in some areas, there is a custom of filial piety coming to the door to report the funeral); Without sweeping the floor for three days, the filial sons were in deep grief, and the pain of bereavement was indescribable, and they had no time to take care of cleaning the façade.

That. 2. Sending off guests without going out and not wearing filial piety: there are relatives and friends who come to mourn, and if you need to send off guests after the condolences, you only need to send them to the door; Dai Xiao's filial son can't enter other people's homes, and he can't even stand by the house for a while, so as not to bring bad luck to others.

That. 3. The incense is continuous, and the incense and the everlasting lamp are not extinguished: the incense is continuous, implying that the deceased has a successor; The ever-bright light is not extinguished, illuminating the way home for the deceased.

That. Fourth, the funeral does not enter the door: the filial son can not directly enter the door of the funeral, to shout outside the door, wait for someone to pick up, kneel and bow, and inform the funeral time.

That. Fifth, the money cannot be made up later: the funeral of the deceased is also to collect the money. If you can't attend the funeral on time, you are not allowed to make up for it later, and you should not commit a repeat funeral.

That. 6. No funeral or funeral during the Spring Festival: If you are an immediate family member, you can participate in the funeral, but no funeral ceremony will be held during the Spring Festival, and it is best to extend it for 1-2 days.

That. 7. After the funeral in the current year, the Spring Festival does not pay New Year's greetings (nor accepts New Year's greetings), does not post Spring Festival couplets, and does not participate in banquets and wedding banquets.

That. 8. Mirrors and festive images in the home should be covered with black or white cloth to show mourning and respect for the deceased.

That. 9. Husband and wife do not send each other (meaning not to participate in the farewell funeral): This may be filial piety to the funeral, the wife is in charge of other matters after the funeral at home, and the meal is still prepared in the old days (now it is to the hotel, so there are also wives who go to the funeral home to participate in the farewell ceremony).

Yes, the so-called saying that you can't be buried is left by the older generation, and I'm afraid that burying each other will be too sad, which will have an impact on the body, after all, it is a husband and wife, how many years have they been together.

There are many marriage and funeral customs in rural China, although the cultural water in rural China is not very high, but for their grandparents life always maintain the rule of thumb, rural people do these things is to find some special people, one day when most of the figure psychological comfort, figure an auspicious.

There are many things that should be paid attention to in the funeral of the Han people, such as the old one should not be called small, between the husband and the wife, one is dead, and the other party cannot send the other party, and the custom of not going out with Fujian and blue and white porcelain is passed down from ancestors.

Extended Information: After the funeral, a person cannot go out to pay New Year's greetings during the Chinese New Year. A person cannot accept someone else to visit his home for the New Year. You can't stick couplets and you can't attend wedding receptions.

The husband and wife could not attend the funeral after their death, and the other was responsible for other matters in the house and used to prepare meals. Now when going to funeral homes and restaurants, the elderly do not send children, and the so-called "white-haired people do not send black-haired funerals".

Going to the funeral of an elderly person can make the elderly person grieve too much, as couples are unable to make each other happier to avoid physical discomfort or mood swings.

China is very large, and the customs vary from place to place, but there is a situation that after a widow, generally speaking, it is not appropriate for a spouse to send each other at the time of the funeral. Of course, it's okay to send it.

Because there is such a saying among the people, if you want to remarry and remarry after being widowed, then it is not easy to send each other off.

Generally, the elderly in the widow's family will not want the living to send the dead if they see that the person is still young, and some people will not dare to remarry if others know.

So there is a saying that if you don't want to remarry, you will go to the funeral. Even if you change your mind to remarry in the end, you will have to remarry in at least 7749 days, but the time to do so is too short and the relationship is too fake. Generally, it is a year or two before it is good to gag others.

It's just one thing, after the funeral, the sooner you remarry, the more people will laugh at it.

For example, in Chongqing, husband and wife do not send each other, and they can't see the burial or cremation.

Why is there a custom of husbands and wives not giving each other away? According to the past, because the deceased will be attached to everything before his life, the soul will not leave willingly, so once the spouse is sent away, the ghost of the deceased will haunt the living person, and even take the living person away, and renew the relationship with the husband and wife.

Of course, there is another important reason, the widow does have a deep relationship with the deceased spouse, and it is too sad and sad that something will happen, so he is not allowed to send him away, but also to protect the living.

It is precisely because of these sayings that there is a custom of not giving each other between husband and wife.

And in our Nanning, Guangxi, there is a saying, if this kind of situation occurs, then not only can not be sent, but also must leave two hours before the funeral, that is, an hour ago, go outside, not allowed to eat at home, stay outside until the funeral can come back.

If the funeral is held at 1 p.m., then the widow has to leave the funeral scene and avoid it outside an hour before the funeral of his spouse, that is, before 11 o'clock.

If the rural people are generally far away from home, run to the village commissary, or enjoy the cool under the tree, they will definitely not be able to return home, let alone appear on the funeral route.

In the city, people run out, and some people are just watching chess or chatting with people. It is also not allowed on the funeral route.

As soon as many people of the older generation see this situation, they will say that it must be the same in four of the eight characters of the husband and wife, so they can't send each other! Woe to the giver!

I don't know anywhere else, it's like this here in Sichuan, where one of the husband and wife dies and the wife can't attend the funeral, including sweeping the grave and worshipping in the future.

Superstition, I'm just engaged in funeral services, the two of them have feelings, go cry, it's good to go and see, don't call it, it's too cruel.

My father is very researched in this area, and it is better for spouses not to go when the old man is buried! First, there are elderly people who are still alive who cannot attend the funeral of their spouses. Second, the yin qi of the cemetery is too heavy, which has a great impact on the body of the elderly, and the old people who are not there do not want to have any problems with the body of the living old people.

He wouldn't complain or anything. Thirdly, it has a great impact on the spirit of the living elderly!! So try not to go to the elderly.

The mood is completely understandable, but it's better not to go!

This is a custom that has been handed down naturally by our Oriental people from the old man without a written text. If you don't let you send it, it's not that it's unreasonable, but the fact is that people die like lights out, which means that 'since those who should go have left, then those who stay will continue to live.' Therefore, the reason why the surviving are not allowed to be buried is not to add to the suffering of the deceased because of their departure.

Especially spouses. Generally, people who have witnessed the burial of their spouses can't stand the sudden blow, and it is difficult to get out of that grief, which is also out of the "care" of friends. No matter what should be gone, but the living have to face the future life, therefore, living is more courage than death, in the only remaining life in the future, you have to replace her to walk the scenery she has not finished, but also to cherish the only precious life left now, for the future before their death to leave good things to the people around them, such an attitude, you need to be brave in life to fulfill that kind of thing, but also to your children, relatives and the living to raise the sail of courage.

Since it is inevitable that it will happen, let the dead go, and the living will continue....

Now there are really no taboos, in fact, many of these customs have long been deformed in our generation... I'm a post-80s generation and now I don't know what the rules are. My mom was always there when my dad was buried, and I think if I died, I would want my husband to be there.

Isn't it too cruel not to let my wife participate?

It depends on the mood of the person concerned! It doesn't seem to be that many customs anymore.

We don't seem to be able to do custom there, and I don't know why, but now society is open.

This is not a new thing, usually people will have the past in their minds before leaving, like a slide, one picture flashes by one, sometimes hallucinations, but sometimes very real, that is a kind of inner subconscious, some people who faint can also produce such a situation

There is no such thing. But in some animals, a mate dies and the other half commits suicide or dies of depression.

Of course you can, the other half has passed away, what is the rule that you can't even go to the grave, doesn't there exist in this life with the other party.

Why not! If it's true love, how to relieve heartache, you can do it, my wife has been gone for almost four years, and I went to the cemetery to pay tribute and offer flowers for the first two years! This year's epidemic can't be done! Although I have reached the twilight of my life, as long as I walk, I will go to the cemetery every year to pay respects!