What is the word you are most afraid of hearing?

At work, the most afraid of hearing is that I won't, I haven't done it before, sometimes I think about whether I can do it all the time, and if I can't, I will never learn, I am really not afraid of god-like opponents, I am afraid of pig-like teammates. I recently brought a little apprentice with me, and every time he said this to me, it felt like all the education he had received in the past had been wasted. He won't, because he's already taught, and then he's really sad.

Do you think I'm different? Men are all terminal eye cancer, unless it is the actress he likes who suddenly gets out of a d, otherwise this problem is really too difficult for men. Because he probably can't really see it!

When he "doesn't know," the woman says, "You're not paying attention to me!" ”。Oh, sad.

What I'm most afraid of hearing is that after so many years, how can you not work hard and realize your ideals.

Why have you gained weight recently, have you eaten too much, let me feel guilty after hearing it.

Why aren't you married yet? Nowadays, the situation of women getting married late is becoming more and more serious, and many women are struggling in first-tier cities, in order not to affect their career struggles, so they consider their life events later, and unconsciously they are older. After the age of 30, her career has also achieved a little, but she is only worried about her lifelong events, in fact, at this time she also wants to find someone who can grow old with her, but she is unwilling to settle, so she has been looking for it.

At this time, the woman is most afraid of the man asking her this question, and for a while, she doesn't know what to do.

The biggest fear is let's talk, shall we? Talk about, talk about what? There is another version of the expression, which is that the girlfriend said in a slightly serious tone:

I want to tell you one thing ......"Basically, no matter which of the above starts, they can guess that what you're going to tell him is probably not going to be good. It made them feel quite frightened! Do you want to buy expensive jewelry, or do you want to take him to meet his parents?

But he didn't want any of them.

Some women have less emotional experience, and even some girls have never been in love once after the age of 30, so it can be said that her love experience is zero. If this is the case, what she is most afraid of is that others ask him how many times he has been in love, if she says that she has not been in love, she will feel that others will look down on her, and she herself is embarrassed to say it, she feels too ashamed, 30 years old, has not been in love, will make others think that there is something wrong with her? So that's a question that a smart man wouldn't ask, because he knows how to save face.

I've always had a breakup of love, and now I'm finally getting out of it and embracing love again. Although we still quarrel sometimes, we are still very sweet. The biggest fear is when my boyfriend says, "We're not suitable."

Let's break up. "So in order to prevent my boyfriend from saying such cruel words, I took care of it in every possible way.

How much deposit do you have now? Now, everyone is more enthusiastic about other people's economic income, and they like to inquire about other people's income the most, as if they feel that knowing other people's economic income, they have discovered a new continent. Although others are more enthusiastic, but the person who is most unwilling to ask him is his economic income, if he says more, then others may not believe it, if he says less, others may look down on her, more is not, less is not, for economic issues, she is unwilling, after all, it involves economic interests.

Therefore, a smart man will not ask a woman this question, because he knows that even if he asks, the other party will not tell him the real answer, after all, it belongs to the other party's privacy.

My boyfriend explained something to me, and I didn't listen, and then my boyfriend said to me, "If you have to think like that, I can't help it" in fact, I just wanted to ask him to coax me a sentence or two! Then after I got off work, my husband didn't get off work, and then he was busy socializing, and he didn't give himself a **, and then I waited until late at night, and when I came back, I still ignored it. It's really sad.

I'm afraid that when I'm full of faith, someone will say that you can't do it; Or when I'm working hard, he says in the back what is the use of hard work; There is also a special confidence in you, and then fear of disappointing his hopes.

I'm most afraid of people saying that I can't do it, because I think it's not easy for me to muster up courage every time, when someone does this, when I muster up the courage to hit me like this, I really feel very unhappy and very frustrated, if so, I will lose some of the reasons for my efforts, I will be very sad, I don't like this, and I am very afraid.

You can't do anything now, let alone in the future, and it will be even worse in the future. I'm afraid to say things like this to me, it will make me doubt my own abilities, it will make me lose confidence, and I will feel scared, I will feel that I am worthless, and I can't do anything right. It will be like what the other party says.

"You'll regret it one day! "I'm scared of people saying this to me.

Once this sentence is said, you can only grit your teeth and hold on for a lifetime! Even if you really regret it, you must not tell this person, and the way out will be really cut off all of a sudden.

I'm most afraid that when I really like someone, but I feel like I can give a lot to that person, and that person tells me that he doesn't like me, or tells me not to do it, I really feel very sad, because I feel like I've been so good to someone, but I still don't get anything.

Every time I chat with others, what I am most afraid of is the nagging of others, in fact, it is a simple topic, which has to be talked about in depth, so that the listener feels very depressed and helpless, and always others talk about their own listening, and they don't give themselves a chance to speak at all.

I'm most afraid of people telling me to go to bed when I'm chatting, and it makes me angry, and I always feel like they're talking to me in a commanding tone, and then I want to curse. I'm afraid of people telling me that. I'm afraid I can't control myself, or whatever.

When we were chatting, people told me about it. Oh. It's going to overwhelm me. I don't know how to talk to the other person, I will feel very embarrassed, I don't know what is appropriate to say and what is not appropriate, whether the other party is bored, so I will reply um, oh yes.

What to eat at noon. Eating every day is a problem of the century, I don't know what to eat, I have to choose what to eat for a long time every time, and sometimes I may choose not to eat at the end, I believe I am not alone.

People are poor and short-minded, and horses are thin and long-haired.

I knew that one day, when I talked to my parents about my ideals, my future career, and so on, I realized that I was at the center of this famous saying.

I was chatting with my parents that day, and they asked me what I wanted to do in the future. I said, I haven't thought much of it yet. I don't even know if I'm going to devote myself to society or continue my education.

Either way, I'm thinking about my future, maybe working in a small company, working my own, and going up a little bit.

However, my parents didn't think so. They thought, I want to find a stable job like my brother, and I want to be an ordinary worker in a state-owned enterprise like my brother. They said that if I really wanted to be like my brother, they would be relieved of what would happen.

But when I heard these words, I strongly disagreed. I said that I would rather be the outside and tired to do something that reflects my value. Of course, a high income is a good thing, but no matter how low he is, as long as he can maintain my life, I will not be like my brother, being an ordinary worker, going to and from work every day, and I really can't stand the monotonous days.

In short, in the eyes of my parents, I can have a job with a monthly income of several thousand, which is stable, and it is not very important to be a little dirty and tired.

Hey, sure enough, matter determines consciousness in **. Mom and Dad's thinking has limited them, and the most terrible thing is that they are still trying to attach this thought to my life, which is really hard to accept.

Mom and Dad are ordinary all their lives, and even most of the time they have struggled in poor days. So their "ambition" may just be to be full and not hungry.

But I really don't want to do this, no matter how tired I am, I need to be given hope to see the light.

One sentence makes people think about it very scary, suddenly understand, suddenly understand, what does that mean?

I'll tell you a story that my friend told me, we sat together and chatted without holidays, and then we could have a relationship, what happened at their school, and then there was an accident, and a girl died. The girl didn't die when she died, but died outside the school when she was out.

But in fact, she died outside the school, and the school should also bear part of the responsibility, anyway, the school gave the parents, some money, and the girl and her dormitory were also given the qualifications for the research program. I hope it won't be too public. At the same time, this matter is also very tightly hidden, and a large number of students do not know the truth of this matter, and some teachers are too.

Just ten days later, their class went to class with students from other majors, and that major was the major of the deceased girl. Once, the teacher suddenly called this student by name, and at this time, their professional, the secretary of the Youth League stood up and said, "There is no such person."

Everyone is still in a fog, because my friend is in the same courtyard as the girl's major, so he knows that someone has died, but he doesn't know which major. But they didn't know that the girl who died was this major, and later, the teacher muttered: "I gave her homework a few days ago, why don't you have this person."

The teacher started the class after finishing it, but my friend was sitting in the front at the time and happened to hear the teacher's words.

At that time, my friend actually didn't feel anything, and he didn't associate this girl with the dead girl at all, but later, he returned to the dormitory to gather, and what the teacher and the group secretary said, thinking about it carefully, suddenly found that the girl who died was very likely to be the girl who was pointed.

A good person was erased, and it's scary to think about.

Once, I made a mistake at work, and my boss said, "You're really bad." Even though he was very satisfied with the work I did afterwards, I felt very frustrated and disappointed by this remark.

I began to doubt my abilities and felt that I was useless at all. Finally, I would like to mention one thing, which I have never forgotten. It was when I was in high school, I was doing a high school physics experiment with a few classmates, and I accidentally did it wrong and the experiment failed.

My physics teacher came to our desk and said, "Look at the other students, they are all doing experiments normally, why can't you do it well?" This sentence has always been in my heart, making me feel that I am not good enough, not qualified for this subject, and have never been confident.

The power of a word is very great, and it can affect a person's mood and behavior. I want everyone to be able to control their words when they speak, not to hurt others, and not to express negative emotions when they are completely unnecessary. I was hurt by a sentence for a long time.

It was in high school when I was busy with my studies and hoping to do well on my exams. However, there was one time when I didn't meet my expectations in an exam, and at that time, a classmate suddenly said to me, "Why are you always so good?"

This phrase doesn't sound too serious, but for me, it hurts me for a long, long time.

At the time, I felt like I had done my best, but I still didn't meet my requirements, and hearing that made me feel like my abilities were being questioned and made me feel like I couldn't do better, and this feeling lasted for days.

But, in the end, I still came out of it. I told myself that as long as I studied hard and kept working hard, I would definitely make progress. Brother Tan, now that I have become a professional, whenever I think about that experience, I feel that that hurtful words are a great encouragement and make me move forward more determined.