What is it like not to go home for several years in a row?

There is the Spring Festival Gala, there is no mother's nagging, there is not even a decent dish, I stay alone in a rented apartment, my roommates are all home, and I can't watch it at all in front of the computer, even if it is my favorite drama on weekdays. Loneliness is a very peculiar thing, it can't be grasped, but it is pervasive, and it always runs out to scratch you and prove its own existence. When I called my mother **, I said that it was okay and said how good I was, but my nose was very sore, and my tears were about to fall, so I could only find an excuse to hang up in a hurry.

I haven't been home for two years because of some special reasons, but my mom is by my side, so I feel okay. After all, we miss home, and more importantly, we miss our loved ones at home. Where is Mom, where is home.

But I still miss the place where I grew up, after all, it was a part of my life, and I want to know if my home is still the same, sometimes I hope it will change, and sometimes I am afraid that it will change, which is very complicated emotions.

In the third year of not going home for the Spring Festival, I rarely saw my parents in the past three years, and I would cry when I thought of home. On the vast sea, there are no familiar streets, no greetings from relatives and friends, no Chinese New Year's Eve dinner prepared by parents for a long time, and not even the Spring Festival Gala. I haven't been home for a long time, and I don't know if my parents are well.

Because of work, I haven't been home for more than ten years, and I miss home, I miss my mother's home-cooked food, and I miss my father's pot of old wine.

I haven't been at home for one Chinese New Year until now, and that's not a good taste! And the Chinese New Year's Eve is still in the Xinjiang drilling team driving the pipe grabber to install the derrick! It's nothing when I'm busy, but when I'm free, I really want to go home, I want to see my family, friends, and even the food at home.

The post of the Chinese New Year's Eve station from 8 o'clock to 12 o'clock, there is no time to go home after the ****, there is no way to finish the station and can't bear to disturb the family **, the next day! I only said that the Chinese New Year's Eve standing guard is normal, and it also allows the soldiers to watch the Spring Festival Gala happily, and we are happy to see the soldiers laughing happily.

At the age of 19, I came to the United States and now I can't go home with 34 status, nothing else, I just miss my parents! Now that I have a wife and children, I may not be used to going back to live.

The main reason is that when I reach the age of marriage, I am still single, because I often have trouble with my parents in those years, so I don't want to go home for the New Year.

To be honest, I have had a few experiences of not going home for the Chinese New Year, and I want to talk about my feelings. It's wonderful not to have to feel anxious about getting tickets all the time, every minute, every second. The overtime pay earned during the Chinese New Year can make you not worry about the cost of the air ticket home at all. (also in order not to grab tickets).

Most of today's young people are running around for life outside, and some are settling down outside, and they rarely go back to their hometowns, and if they become home, they will become home. For various reasons, you wanted to go home but couldn't, and you felt helpless. There are even some people who have been away for seven or eight years and have never been home for a single year, which must be very sad.

One: After a long time, I am used to a lonely life.

Two: I feel sorry for my parents. Three:

The nostalgia is even more timid. In this world, the most important thing is family affection, if you don't know how to cherish it until you lose it, it will be too late. Therefore, it is better to spend as much time as possible with your parents.

I feel very painful and depressed in my heart, I haven't seen my loved ones for a long time, and I have a special desire in my heart, I really want to fly to my parents all at once, this experience is really difficult.

I haven't been home for the New Year for a long time, and now I guess I have forgotten what happened to my hometown, do you remember what those people in the village have become, and I should go home more if I have time.

It must be an experience that I can't wait, because I haven't been home for a long time, so I have expectations for my hometown, and I also look forward to seeing my parents.

There is a strange sense of familiarity when you haven't been home for a long time. It's obviously a place where I've lived for so long, and suddenly I feel like I'm in a foreign land.

Homesickness, especially thinking about it, after living outside for a long time, I inexplicably feel a sense of wandering, or thinking about going home.

The first expense is: round-trip expenses.

For some workers who work outside, every penny they earn is hard-earned money, so the monthly expenses are very cherished, and they will take home the money they have worked hard for a year to give their parents, wives and children to live, so these perennial workers work outside, and when they go home for the New Year, they have to take these days and nights to return home, and the round-trip fare is a very large expense, so in this case, many people will choose to take cheap transportation home.

The second expense is the cost of living.

Because we all know that when we were young, we were very much looking forward to the New Year, because only when we arrived at the New Year could we eat something that we rarely eat or could not eat, then these are commonly known as New Year's goods, whether it is to eat by ourselves, or used to entertain guests, some big fish and meat are indispensable, so after a hard year's work after accumulating a year's hard-earned money, we must take out this money to prepare for the New Year, and the price of New Year's goods at this time will be higher than usual. Therefore, almost during the period of returning home for the New Year, the expenses for preparing New Year's goods will cost about thousands of yuan, or even more.

The third expense is: visiting relatives.

Because we all know that we usually work in other places, only when the New Year and the festival will go home, then after the New Year's holiday, we must visit our relatives and friends to condole, the recent life, as well as the exchange between relatives, then this time will definitely not go empty-handed, so migrant workers will also sigh about this, because for the current price growth, a relative will spend about 200 yuan when giving gifts, so if you go to one or twenty families, Just leaving relatives can cost thousands of dollars.

The fourth expense is: favors.

In fact, this is the most headache for migrant workers, because during the Chinese New Year, whether in rural or urban areas, almost the population of the family will increase, and at this time, many people will deliberately set some marriages, engagements and moving things during this period. Therefore, there will also be a variety of banquets to participate, so when participating in these banquets, some gift money must also be indispensable, and there will also be some relatives and children, and the living lead will also give them some New Year's money when they meet during the New Year, so this is also a very large expense.