How can such a man make me embarrassed? Tears

He is my ex-boyfriend, broke up for half a year, half a year ago I went to Shenzhen, he may not be able to stand the loneliness and look for another, recently he came to my house, talked a lot, and found that he burned cigarette butts on his arm (he said it was for me), that day he was very emotional, hugged and kissed me, did a lot of intimate contact, although I still have feelings for him, but I stopped him from telling him that you have to be clear about your current identity, you are already a person with a girlfriend, he is still like that. I hugged him and said, "It's impossible for us anymore."

He's gone. Today he sent another message saying that we should not contact each other again, but he did that to me, and it made me feel humiliated, can he do whatever he wants? I don't think about my feelings.

I can't refuse and hate him, what should I do? If he comes to me in the future, should I accept him? Because I still have feelings for him.

But it seems impossible, it's really contradictory.

If a woman is serious, she must see who she is facing.

If a woman is too serious, she must be hurt.

Maybe you don't want the result now, take care.

Is it true that you may have been dumped and came to you when you got into trouble outside This kind of person is the cheapest Don't believe it easily.

When bitten by a rabid dog, a rabies vaccine is fine.

Leave him to put, this is the wisest choice you have right now.

You should give him two slaps to sober him up.

People who harm themselves must not want it, they don't even cherish themselves, do you expect him to love you?

Or let go of him now. Let's go find another one.

I have always believed that feelings should also have dignity, people in love should have themselves, don't bury yourself in the superficial glitz of others, love is not endless giving, because you should be fair, not to be squeezed sugar cane, nor to bloom only for his roses, do you know yourself? Don't always think about him, you count the past five years ago, which thing didn't you accommodate him? Even if there is a result of such a so-called relationship, you will always be an accessory.

I don't understand why you have to choose this kind of contradictory man to rely on, why you torture yourself in contradictions every day, why only occasional happiness can make you forget all the unreasonable slander.

It may not be so easy to leave, 5 years is not a short time after all, but if you live in an atmosphere of disharmony every day, what can 10 years say? What about 20 years without quality and well-being? You should be cared for, cherished, earnest, loved, held in the palm of your hand, even if this kind of relationship is only for one year, it is enough for a woman, because she has received the warmest year in this man's life.

It is estimated that it will be difficult to achieve positive results.

The ultimate goal of marriage between the two is to rely on each other to take care of each other, and she is so careless when you are sick, do you think he still values you.

Appropriate indifference to him.

See if he cares about you.

If it still fails.

It is recommended that you do not waste your youth.

The situation between you and me is almost the same, but I chose to end it in four years, I have experience, such a man actually has no love for you, only many years of dependence, and did not think of a good reason to break up, and he may already have someone outside, but he doesn't know how to explain to you and your family, so adopt a blind attitude, I hope you can break up with him, he will not have a sense of guilt, really love someone is not want [him] or [her] to have a little harm, Sisters should be sober, to find their own love, there is nothing to be nostalgic for, there is a love that really belongs to you waiting for you, I have found it, I hope you will wake up soon,

He doesn't love you at all, don't be stupid.

I was with my boyfriend, and I did this to him, and he never said a word in front of me.

We are together, he cooks and washes clothes after work, and he does all the housework, sometimes I open the buttons and he sews them for me, although I sometimes think he is quite that, but he is still very happy. In fact, what does a woman want in this life, not a husband who truly loves herself.

Even if a man has money and a car, he doesn't necessarily love you, he has someone outside. Although he is good-looking, he is attentive. So nothing else matters, as long as he can go through the storm with you, nothing else is a problem.

Don't forget about your boyfriend, he starts to dislike you, in other words, he doesn't want to marry you at all, otherwise he would have brought you home a long time ago. Isn't it? What else do you have to hesitate about?

In the end, it was only yourself who hurt. I hope you'll think twice.

What's the use of this boyfriend, he always talks about you"It's ugly"What does he like about you, is it convenient for you, and he will give it to him if he wants? You can stand it.

He still annoys you when you are sick, and he doesn't pick you up when he has a car, which has already shown that he doesn't want to rely on him anymore.

How can it be embarrassing? It's you.

I don't think it's necessary to treat such a man so carefully, there are many men, and I also think that I am good-looking, so why waste time there.

Parted!! I think so. After all, according to your meaning, you are also a little unbearable.

What does it mean by looks alone?

Has he been doing this to you all the time, it can't be.

If you get married in the future, will it be better or worse for you?

Little sister, think clearly before making a decision, is this kind of man worth marrying?

You say it yourself"How can it be embarrassing? "It's proved that I have no confidence in him, I think it's really okay, you can't bear the relationship of the past five years, are you willing to give up a lifetime of happiness?

Take looks to judge whether a person loves someone, is the most shameful standard, I think you should have a good talk with your boyfriend, if he really still hasn't thought about whether to be with you, you should give him a time limit, don't let him waste your youth, a woman's youth is not up, the longer it drags on, the more it may fail in the future.

If he doesn't give you an answer, I think you should be more decisive.

You can calmly talk to him and ask him what he means. Are you kidding? Still is. You can tell him that that it hurts your self-esteem. See what he says.

I dislike you, just wait for you to break up, and he can easily slip away.

Have you ever wondered if he really loves you? As a woman, don't look for someone you love, but find a man who truly loves you, so that you can be happy together

What kind of boy do we girls need to hold up for us? Have you ever thought about it? In fact, if you understand this question, you should understand what to do.

It's disrespectful to talk like that!

Such people do not deserve to be together.

Pump him, how can you treat a woman like this.

This one. It depends on the situation, if you are a couple, then you must have hurt her feelings, if you are ordinary friends, then you must have hurt his feelings, in short. It is. You, hurt her feelings.

The title is from "The World Speaks New Words" Meaning: How can feelings withstand such a blow? Also do "What about feelings; How can it be said emotionally; What is the emotional comfort?"

If it's your girlfriend who said it, you can try to put yourself in his shoes and think about it. Come and appreciate what she said"How can it be embarrassing? "

情何以侃 (qíng hé yǐ kān), 可: 承受. Why:

The object is preposed, i.e., "to what". What it means: How can feelings withstand such a blow?

The interpretation is slightly different in different contexts. The original text is "planting willows in the past, relying on Hannan." Look at the shaking and falling today, sad Jiangtan.

The tree is like this, how can a person be worthy. ”。There is also a "thing is like this, how can people be worthy".

From Wang Shifu's drama "The Legend of the West Chamber" in the Yuan Dynasty.

I think it depends on what the context says. If it's a couple, it probably means the same as what was said upstairs, you hurt her feelings. My understanding is, where do you let me lose face, and what do you let me do? So and so it means.

The man felt that he was genuinely giving, but some of the woman's actions made everything he gave seem like a joke.

It's that he doesn't get anything in return for his efforts

Aha; I often say this; In fact, it doesn't have much substance, it's mostly a kind of haha, in fact, as long as the girl has a way to pick up what you said before; can be embarrassed by affection; It is widely applicable; There is also a mood on behalf of the girl's paper, helpless, hit and the like.

I want to congratulate you first, you have successfully annoyed you, and now you have to work hard to make him change your image in his heart, and there is a great opportunity.

Is there really such a man? Men are basically very ......

He doesn't have psychological problems......

Find a way to find out what he really thinks ......

I'm talking nonsense: take your husband to the hospital and get a thorough checkup! (physical, sexual, psychological).

That's thinking too much.

This is the legendary frigidity.

He may have a knot, so let's take a look.

Men generally buy some yellow discs every 3 days.

Hehe, many things are embarrassing and heartbreaking, but men are always like this, many men are like this, and you still have to think clearly, if this man can make you worry about food and clothing for the rest of your life, and you love him, then tolerate it, if not, leave completely.

Everything is a matter of time, but fortunately it is a premarital betrayal, so you still have a choice, so let's break it up! Give up what is not worth having.

Not necessarily, being trapped in love can make people fall into a situation where they can't think. Why did he betray? How to betray?

There are some things to calm down and think about. Do you love him? Does he love you?

Are you sure about these? Was his betrayal pure desire or did he say goodbye to everything that had been before and be yours alone? Everyone has a past, and let the past pass.

There are a lot of things that you will think about when you calm down. I wish you happiness and happiness.

If you don't get married for more than two years, the breakup rate is 88%, you are stupid, it takes so long.

Are you a fool? If you love him, don't give up on him.

If you don't fight for it, how will you know if he loves you or not?

Listen to the songs. Watch your stories. Maybe I saw some movie plots in so-and-so. Fate was bumpy. Let's not talk about whether there is love or not. As far as I'm concerned, an outsider. It's also a good memory.

Let's talk about you. Got to this point. I feel like both of them are at fault.

As the saying goes, one is not two. In two not in three. But you're already in four in five.

Haven't you felt bored if you had more?Its nature has changed. It's not real anymore.

He was at fault. The mistake is that you shouldn't be so undetermined. You're wrong.

The fault is that he should not be indulged in three. Maybe you've had love.

Maybe love is just a luxury in the ordinary.

Tangled, the landlord's love is too tortuous, I think you may have really loved it, but you just have a good memory, don't think too much about the landlord, you will definitely get happiness.

Perhaps, you are the only one who has ever loved. And he is just lonely, so he makes a cameo appearance in this love scene of yours.

The stage of three people is always too crowded, love is a matter of two people, and there should be no third party.

What he always thought about was not wanting to hurt her, but what about you? If he loves you, how can he bear to wronged a man like you again and again, is it worth all your energy to love? Aren't you wronged?

If love is only hurt, is it still necessary to hold on? Aren't you tired?

If you want it, he can't afford it, how long can you last for your love alone?

Sober up, your love has lost its most beautiful original intention, and those scarred pains are all let go.

Let's let time take it.

Don't ask if you've ever loved it, maybe he gave you beautiful promises, but now those promises are gone.

It doesn't count.

Let it go, you have worked hard, you have paid, you have loved with your heart, and you have a clear conscience about him.

Let go, don't hurt yourself repeatedly in this kind of love, you deserve better.

How can there be such a person.

It's unimaginable.

So a romantic love affair is not easy to compose.

What a stain!

After reading it, the conclusion is that it is really a toss.

Love can be simple or complex.

The landlord is also a loving man, and the man's will is too unfirm.

Such a person is unacceptable. Even if you get married, the future is painful.

Get out early and find a new home.

Give it up, baby! Women are emotional creatures, they don't use their brains, and they are deceived into living by casual vows and gentle stories. What if there was a second person who seemed to love you so much?

Think about it? He doesn't really love you and he doesn't have a sense of responsibility:1

You shouldn't give up on your ex-girlfriend so easily and use you as a relationship substitute 2You shouldn't lie to two people at the same time. This should be perceptible in the information you see in your girlfriend's space.

It's just that you're too irrational. When I loved, I didn't see my boyfriend clearly, so I just cared about love.

Not worthy of your love baby! Now you're a graduate student, (better than me, I gave up the graduate school entrance examination for my boyfriend, but we love each other very much, I think it's worth it) have broader arms. Listen to me, goodbye to him with a confident smile on his face! Bless you!