Why do men like lively women?

In our lifetime, we will meet the person you love the most, the person who loves you the most, and the person you spend your life with. First of all, you will meet the person you love the most, and then you will experience the feeling of love; Because you understand what it feels like to be loved, you can discover the people who love you the most; When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime. But sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person; The one you love the most often doesn't choose you; What loves you the most is often not what you love the most; And the longest, it's not the person you love the most or love you the most, it's just the person who appears at the right time.

How many people will you be in someone else's life? No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, he can't pretend not to love you when he loves you; In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you. When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him, and if you don't love him anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem; If you still love him, you should want him to be happy, you want him to be with the person you really love, and you will never stop him, if you prevent him from getting real happiness, it means that you don't love him anymore, and if you don't love him, what right do you have to accuse him of changing his mind?

Love is not possession, you can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you; The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement. After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained; Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not strong enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment. So in the end, it is necessary to choose which one to believe in fate and let everything be.

Some men also like to be quiet, if they like to be lively, it is because they feel that it is more vibrant and sunny.

If you only think so, you know a person's prejudice.,At least I'm not.,I like quiet girls more.,Maybe I like lively women to be less boring.,When you're together, you can chat.、Let's play.,Having such a girlfriend is actually a kind of happiness!

Not exactly, of course.

If there is a uniform standard for boys to like girls, it must be beautiful, and there is no other standard. Change dates.

As for it, do you like to be open or introverted? This is a premise.

First of all, let's see why you feel that the cheerful girls around you are more popular, this is just your illusion, and the fact that you like more friends does not mean that boys like this type of girl to be their girlfriends.

But if there is any advantage that cheerful girls have over introversions? That is, they have an open-minded personality, giving people the impression that they are easy-going, stress-free, and easy to get close to.

Think about it, if there are two boys, one is cheerful and humorous, the other is introverted and dull, and you have a crush on both of them at the same time, and I ask you to approach one, which one are you willing to approach first? Answer: I estimate that more than 90% of them will choose to be close to the cheerful and humorous one, because people are afraid of failure, they are afraid of rejection, especially the embarrassment after rejection, of course, eat persimmons to pick up soft pinch, because everyone will think that the probability of failure will be lower in comparison, and at the same time it is easier and less embarrassing to talk about the day and get along, you can talk at will It doesn't matter, the reason is the same.

Having said that, when a boy encounters an introverted and dull girl who wants to approach, does he still have to take care of the way and topic of talking about the nucleus, does she like it, and what if he can't be cold? In this comparison, there is really no advantage in this respect for cheerful girls.

However, remember that no advantage is absolute, if you are really looking for a girlfriend, every man will not want his girlfriend to be surrounded by a group of boys, this is like a braised egg, the taste is quite sufficient, but there are too many flies around.

So, if you just want to have more male friends around you, and it is true that a cheerful personality will be dominant, but you just want to find a reliable boyfriend, then you just need to be yourself, and the person who likes you will like him whatever you are.

Basically accurate, after all, a cheerful and lively lady will make people feel very comfortable, but the key is to have a little idea of your own.

There are many examples:

Cheerful girls like [taciturn] boys.

Girls with a cheerful personality like boys with a cheerful personality.

Cheerful girls like [mature and steady] boys.

Cheerful girls like boys who are honest and responsible.

Cheerful girls like boys who are "Messing with Flowers".

Cheerful girls like [introverted and low-key] boys.

Cheerful girls like boys who are in high positions.

You say Cecilia Cheung is cheerful and lively, she likes Edison Chen, who is touching flowers and grass.

You say Natsuki is lively and cheerful, she likes the introverted and low-key Takumi.

You say Guo Meimei is lively and cheerful, she likes high-powered boys.

You say Nima is lively and cheerful, she likes ??? of boys.

Lively and cheerful, you are so funny.

A cheerful woman likes a man who is atmospheric, considerate, tolerant, loyal to love, humorous gentleman, and can play romantic at any time.

1. A cold boy.

Second, Li Xuze, a boy with a gentleman's character.

3. Which introverted boy.

Fourth, lively and enthusiastic boys.

Compared with other types of girls, cute girls will be more popular among boys, mainly because their personalities are liked by many boys, and girls with cute appearances will give people a desire to protect.

People say that "the worse the man, the more the woman loves", why women always like men with temperament, the reason is actually very simple, men with temperament satisfy women's desires, let's take a look at the reasons why women are obsessed with temperamental men:

First, a man with a temperament can give a woman the sense of security she wants.

Generally speaking, men with temperament have machismo, but with such a man, women will have a sense of psychological security, with such a man, women always feel that they are weak, in front of such a man, women will always feel that they are always protected, psychological dependence is an important reason why many women choose temperamental men.

Second, temperamental men say nothing and never lie.

Such a man is very honest, he says one or the other, there is yes, there is no, there is no, he will never lie to a woman, such a man pays attention to righteousness, you understand me, treat me well, he will repay you tenfold and hundredfold, meet such a man, although sometimes it seems more stupid, but his single-mindedness can completely touch the hearts of women, there is such a man, women still like it.

Three. A man with a temperament understands emotions better.

A man with a temperament knows how to put it away more freely, especially for husband and wife, a man with a temperament likes to create a different husband and wife atmosphere, he will give his lover a unique feeling, and can always surprise each other unexpectedly, how can such a man not let a woman treat him like glue.

If you were a woman, would you choose such a man? Is your significant other a temperamental man?

This depends on your own inner side, you psychologically like this type, even if it is your ex's, and then you look for it, you will definitely choose, no matter how the ex broke up with you, it is his person who broke up, not his character, taste, height! In fact, these things are just a heart print, you yourself like these standards and types to find the ex, if you don't have this standard in your heart, you won't like your ex. None of this can be erased.

No matter what you're looking for in the future, you won't follow your ex's. It all depends on your own inner feelings or the mold you originally carved in your heart, and it is impossible to have the standard of the other half in your mind when you look for your ex, the standard of longing, etc... Therefore, it is not that you choose the same as the previous one, but that you have the same standards as your heart!