Can you remember your life about half a year after graduating from university?

My life as a freshman after graduating from college can be described in two words: confusion. I basically stayed at home every day, playing games, and fantasizing about a future that I didn't know. Later, I tried to find a few jobs, but they were all hasty, and it felt like I couldn't find my place in this world.

After graduating, I chose to volunteer at a nursing home for a few months. It is to take care of the daily life of the elderly every day, accompany the grandparents to talk, and also help the nursing home to clean up. It was all dirty and tiring work, and I wasn't paid a penny, but I felt like it was the most fulfilling time for me, and it made me grow a lot.

After graduating, I went to a monastery and worked with the monks every day, and listened to the abbot's lectures in my spare time. I don't believe in Buddhism myself, and I just came there to find some seasoning for my boring time, but after staying for a long time, I found inner peace, and those months were also my most peaceful and peaceful time.

For me, although I graduated from university, my learning journey is not over. Because I had planned to go to graduate school for a long time, I continued to go back and forth to school and the library for a few months after graduation, attending various tutorial classes, and studying every day was even more intense than during the college entrance examination. Life's challenges are not over, and I cheer for myself.

For a period of time after I graduated, the place I ran the most was the Industrial and Commercial Bureau. Because I gathered a few friends and planned to start a business and start a restaurant together, I was very busy. Because I went to the bank every day for loans, and I had to choose a store to hire employees, I only had four hours off every day.

Unlike everyone else, I chose to travel around the first few months of college. During that time, I went to the legendary Jiuzhaigou, Zhangjiajie and other places, and saw the customs of the ancient city of Qingzhou. The travels have made me feel relaxed, and when I come back, I am in the best mental state for the next challenges in life.

In the months after graduation, I made contact with many of my former friends and got together every day to drink and play. They are friends I haven't seen for many years, and it's rare to have time, I just want to talk to them more and reminisce about the friendship of the year.

I have been looking for a job for half a year after graduation because I know that I am gold and I will shine. After looking for half a year, I found that it was all everyone's gold, so I took it, went home to my parents, and my parents found a job for me.

My first impression is that people in society are much more complex than people on campus, and people in society are not easy to get along with. And life is not as simple as we imagined, when we were on campus, I always wanted to enter the society as soon as possible, and when I entered the society, I found that the school was the best place, but I couldn't go back.

It is very important to get rid of student thinking as soon as possible to the society, the so-called student thinking, is to why there is a single answer to the question, strong ability should be reused, student thinking is a stumbling block to survive in the society!

In fact, you may not really learn more things in a prestigious school, but if your alumni are strong, you will be able to get more opportunities and resources.

There is also emotional intelligence that is more important than IQ. Others are essentially just like you, they are ordinary people, and if you really realize this, you not only have confidence, but you also know how to get along with others. Don't always think about doing something big, do the things in front of you well, and gradually achieve considerable achievements, don't fantasize about climbing to the sky in one step.

It's okay to have no money for a while, but it's okay to have no money all the time.

When entering society, you should cultivate a hobby, such as reading and running, which can make you resist loneliness and even enjoy loneliness. Life is long and emotions change, and managing your emotions can be a lifelong lesson. Whether it's a boy or a girl, earning a job well is the first priority.

My biggest impression is that I am not suitable for entering society, and society does not particularly need me. It's not about yourself that matters, it's the feelings of others that matter. The knowledge in school may not be useful, but it is necessary to maintain the ability to enhance learning.

If you don't have a life and career plan, you will be eliminated.

We must cherish friendship that does not involve interests. How much is the value, the people who can gather around you also have the corresponding value, 1+1+1 is greater than 6. Don't talk in depth, learn to see people with your eyes.

When you graduate, you think that society is the picture scroll you splash ink on; After work, I realized that not everyone is qualified to splash ink with a pen and ink.

When you graduate, you think you are the master of society; After working, I realized that I was just a slave of society. When you graduate, you think you can succeed with hard work; After work, I realized that the effort without independent thinking was an old scalper.

Some college students who have graduated for half a year have found their favorite jobs and continue to grow. Some have found jobs, while others are still looking for jobs.

On the one hand, I have already passed the initial adjustment period after work, and if I am lucky, I am now ready to do all the work at hand.

In addition to judging the learning results during school, it is also necessary to continuously enhance one's world view, learn more extracurricular knowledge, and enhance one's practical ability in society. It will be of great help to future work.

1. Unable to enjoy one's own life.

The biggest feeling of working for a year is that I don't have my own life anymore, it's not that I don't want to enjoy my life well, drinking a cup of tea, reading a book, watching a movie, going out for a walk and blowing the wind, all of which are very pleasant things, but the endless work, the bad Party A and the messy inexplicable things can always easily interrupt my life plan, in short, out of balance.

2. More down-to-earth.

I am more down-to-earth than a year ago, and my life is initially on the right track, but I still need to continue to improve, and I have begun to think about my future and plan my life.

3. I am very tired every day, repeating my sex life, going to and from work, passing by places, and which vendors on the street all remember clearly.

There is no particular freshness, and the days are all repetitive.

I didn't earn any money, but I was physically and mentally exhausted.

4. Mental fatigue.

I can't seem to make up for how much sleep I get, I want to sleep all day every weekend, my friends are very busy even in a city, and it is difficult to see each other once, thinking that I can do what I am interested in after work, but overtime takes up most of my time.

5. The sense of life is dulled.

It is not easy to perceive those small surprises and changes in life, and there is nothing special about the temperature difference between the four seasons.

Can't smell summer in the air.

I only understand the truth after work.

1. Most people want you to be doing well, but they won't want you to be better than them (except for your parents).

2. Don't judge others casually.

People always like to judge others, but they hate others to judge themselves. We need to control our mouths, don't use those so-called chicken soup to judge others, any empathy is nonsense, you have not experienced other people's lives, how do you know how others feel. What we need to do is to do our own thing, and when others are in trouble, we will help them instead of just talking.

3. Don't be embarrassed to reject others.

You will meet a lot of people in your life who will trouble you with all kinds of things, and if you don't refuse you, it will be very uncomfortable, and sometimes you help them, and they may not thank you. After a long time, it will become a matter of course for you to help him, and if you don't help him one day, he will immediately speak ill of you behind his back. Remember that those who are kind enough to annoy you are not good people.

4. Don't trust others too easily.

We must learn to distinguish what is true and what is false. You can believe 5 out of 10 sentences, because many people will definitely have a bit of pompous decoration in their speeches, and their own ideas.

5. Some things would rather lose than win.

It's not important to lose rather than win. Because if you win everything, no one will play with you, and if you let others win something unimportant, people will know that you are selling favors.

In the eyes of parents, college students are a group of adults who step out of high school and are about to enter a larger social circle. After graduating from university, he transitioned from being a student to a self-supporting adult. Slowly, we began to ask ourselves not to ask our parents for money, how much money to give to our parents every month, what things to buy for the family, etc.

In the eyes of the company, college students are a group of cheap labor, both obedient and easy to use. When fresh graduates start their first job, most of them care about their growth in the workplace. However, other colleagues in the department will not treat you gently and gently because you have just graduated and have no experience.

They will give you all kinds of work content, but they will ask you for results when the task deadline is over. Most of the excitement of growth is powerless. In the eyes of the society, college students are fresh blood into the society, and they will use their own ideas to create the world, but often the vast majority of college students only have the vision of one acre and three points of lead and wide land in front of them.