If you go early, you will work hard in the future, and the sooner the girl goes, the better her life

This claim is simply unfounded.

The fate of the future is in your own hands, it depends on what you want, some people are content and happy, and some people are strong.

The requirements are not the same, and the results will be different.

Walk early. People are talking about boys. It will be harder to walk in the morning, and the girl's feet will die after walking.

Relax a bit. It's often heard from the older generation that people say this, and no one knows the specifics. I thought about it when I was younger, but who will remember that moment when I grow up?

People say that men are hard to go, and women are idle. Yes, that means that boys start walking early, that is, at the age of one or the first year. Boys who start walking under the age of two.

It's more hard, in fact, this can't be generalized like this, because in the past, the living conditions were relatively poor, and those who walked early were also because the conditions behind them were too difficult. Maybe he's hungry, and he'll figure out how to get up. You have to go for what you want, and if you want to grab it, you will walk eagerly.

In this way, you don't have to wait for others to give, you have to fight for it yourself. When I say that you go early, it means that if he is more domineering, maybe the boy will let her, which means that after the male and female grow up, the difference between the sexes is also later. The nature of getting along in marriage.

In fact, to be honest, really live together, who is idle and who is hard. It's all fake, and you have to be considerate of each other and considerate of each other to be able to say it. Everyone is happy.

If a boy leaves early, and then finds a girl who also leaves, and I leave early, then what do you say after that? It's hard to say.

This is all feudal superstition, and the future road is still unknown, and we still have to rely on ourselves to get out.

Don't listen to other people's superstitions! If you leave at such a young age, you must have a good sense of balance.

However, the reason for people's superstition should be: if you leave at such a young age, you must be working hard! Hehe.

It will go away in 8 months, and it does have a certain impact on health, because the important item of climbing is omitted, so it has a little impact, but it is not so serious.

How is that possible?

This shows that this child is very independent.

A little girl died at 20, it's really an unfair fate, it's a pity, it's a pity, it's too early.

No one's fate is predestined. All I can say is that it's her misfortune because we never know tomorrow and.

Which comes first. I regret her departure. But the one who is born should continue to work hard, she will become a star guarding the sky.

"Fate" itself is difficult to explain, and I will provide you with a reference from the perspective of divination.

Friends who learn "eight characters" have a saying called "one life, two luck and three feng shui". The so-called "one life" refers to the fact that after a person is born, his life is roughly predestined, which is to say, innate. "Second luck" refers to a person's good fortune, which is the process that a person has to go through when he lives in the world, that is, the day after tomorrow.

The three feng shui is very simple, and there are many feng shui adjustments in society now. It refers to the use of external means to change the trajectory of a person's destiny.

I can't say whether this passage is true or false, but I can be sure that the "Eight Characters" or Four Pillars has its scientific truth, and there are many fulfillments in real life. If we carefully savor this passage, we will find that the fate of man is both predestined and not predestined.

Born as a human being, then this person will certainly not live like a puppy, this kind of is destined. But since the fate of man can be adjusted, it means that it must not be predestined, or at least not completely predestined.

As for the heavenly arrangement, what is the heavenly arrangement? It's even more impossible to say. In this way, it is better to let go and not think about this kind of "chicken or egg first".

Because after thinking about it, it can't be proved after all, and even if it is proved, it may not be meaningful. For our lives, even if it is destined, we also think and choose in it, even if it is not destined. Therefore, it is better to be free and open-minded than to be destined or not.

So I thought, go your own way and let others say go. It's a good idea.

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My Opinion of DestinyPersonally, I think: "The so-called [fate] is composed of two parts. The first is the so-called [life], which is congenital, including the year, month, day, hour of birth, surname, parents, place of birth, and ethnic group to which it belongs.

It's immutable! The other is luck, which includes personal efforts and opportunities, which are acquired and can be changed through one's own efforts. It is the most critical place to affect the fate of people's lives.

Just as two people were born in the same year, month, day, and at the same time, every minute and second is the same, it can be said that [life] is the same. As a result, one became an emperor and the other became a beggar. It's [luck] that plays a big role.

Now many Chinese are born every minute, let alone the whole world. Why can't it be the same? That's it.

Since luck is alive, it needs to be discovered and discovered, and it can't wait, and pie won't fall from the sky. When the luck arrives, you have to hold on to it. Despite all difficulties, we must also achieve non-relaxation.

As someone says, "Oh, I'm missing a great opportunity!" That's it.

Personally, I believe that a person's fate is determined by luck.

One life, two fortunes, three feng shui, four accumulation of yin and virtue, five reading, but also add people's subjective initiative.

I didn't believe in fate before. Now I feel that fate is really arranged by God. It can be changed, but it takes a lot of effort, and the change may only be a little bit.

There are countless possibilities for people's fate, and what determines your fate is the effort you make and the choices you make, and it is obviously unscientific and ignorant to use fortune telling to know what will happen in the future, unless the fortune teller says that you will not achieve anything in your life, you will really not work hard and not be motivated in the future, this is another matter.

In short, your life is up to you, don't worry about it, work hard.

Three points are destined, and seven points depend on hard work. Fate does have a predestined part, for example: born in a rural family, and born in a wealthy family The congenital conditions are indeed different.

A piece of wood can be made into a toothpick, but it can never be made into an embroidery needle, but the acquired effort is equally important, a piece of wood can not only be made into a toothpick after efforts, but also can be made into chopsticks, wood carving, and even high-end things such as bracelets, this is the acquired effort, in their own congenital conditions of change.

Destiny has to be fought for by yourself, and you can only enjoy it for your parents.

Life is set by heaven, and luck is self-made.

Fate is in your own hands, and the words have come to this point, and it is useless to say more.

That's right, if you deliberately change it, you can change it, and if you change it, you will be sad. Because you're against the sky. A mortal is just an ant in the eyes of heaven, don't change the will of heaven casually. Do your thing, don't think about it. It doesn't make sense.

If you believe it, you will have it, and if you don't believe it, it depends on whether you can decide for yourself.

Actually, I think it's predestined, because I think I'm a good example, meeting my wife is a kind of fate, and being able to marry her is even more of a fate.

Personal feelings are not predestined, there are many times it depends on how you pursue each other or how you grasp a relationship, and many times it is completely in your own hands.

I think who a man will marry home is not predestined, but depends on whether there is fate between two people, and whether they really love each other, because if they really love each other, they will tolerate each other's temper and each other's living habits, so that the relationship can be harmonious and happy.

I think it's like this, what kind of woman a man marries is predestined, the main thing is what kind of character a man is, what kind of person he will marry.

Who a person marries in the future is not a matter of fate in my opinion, and the main reasons are as follows.

One: An encounter between one person and another is a probabilistic event.

There is a very classic sentence in the anime "Town Soul Street", which roughly means that this life is an unknown journey, in the process of this journey, we will meet whom, what we encounter no one knows, and the final destination of this journey will not be known, so for the other half of life, what kind of woman we will marry or what kind of man we will marry, no one can be sure, In other words, every person of the opposite sex of our age in the world has the potential to become our other half. <>

2. In the process of leading to the marriage hall, the opinions of parents will play a big role.

Although we are now in a new era of more open marriage ideas, and most people are looking for a partner also adhere to the principle of free love, the previous kind of parents' orders, matchmaker's words of the marriage model has gradually been abandoned by everyone, but this does not mean that young people in the current marriage completely grasp the initiative, it is no exaggeration to say that the opinions of parents can still change the direction of a relationship to some extent, so even if you love each other again, the two of you have fate, as long as your parents do not agree, You still can't be together after all, and you will end up being each other's regrets in your life. <>

Three: People's concept of mate selection is constantly changing, and it can be said that each period is different.

With the growth of age and the continuous increase of life experience, we will subtly change our views on many things, for example, many people will like good-looking people of the opposite sex when they are students, and will take this as the biggest reference for choosing a mate, but when we go out of the campus and enter the society, we will find that good-looking can not be eaten, and at the same time, the potential and talent of the other party will become the focus of our attention. Our concept of mate selection will change again, and at this time, many people will value the family and the other party's personality, so from this point of view, there is no destined marriage partner. <>

Four: A lot of beautiful love is lost to reality in the end.

At that stage when I first fell in love, I believe that many people have great illusions about love, for example, everyone will think that love is the most amazing thing in the world, it can allow us to overcome difficulties, it can make us have strength, it can make us omnipotent, but with the passage of time, in the face of cruel reality, love is not worth mentioning at all, it is like a weathered stone, the wind blows and disperses, there is no such thing as a rock at all, So this also leads to many people not believing in love at all, and everyone will finally choose a similar person to live their lives, and the so-called people who are destined to get along are all passers-by of life in the end.

Perhaps, suddenly feel like a coward. Soon, he mentioned divorce, and I have been working every day recently, and I will think of his expression of divorce from time to time every day. Fate is over, it's just a pity for the child. Others, hehe, nothing nostalgic.

As fate would have it, my friend introduced me to my boyfriend and said that he was a hairdresser, and I said that the most disgusting thing in my life was the hairdressing industry, not male or female, so I refused, but I didn't expect to meet one day, he was dressed very neatly and neatly, black hair, so we got married a year later. Coincidentally, when I was 19 years old, a fortune teller said that I would only get married when I was 27, and I was indeed 27 years old when I got married.

I have a lot of fate with my ex-boyfriend's mother, absolutely, we know each other because of his mother, he got married this year, I haven't been home for a long time, and I met his mother when I go back, this is really, but he is married, and I hope he has a happy marriage, and I hope I can have a good marriage.

It can't be easily said that it is destined, and girls are advised not to be in a hurry and calm down. I have made my life worthwhile, and I have a good life whether I get married or not. Bad marriages cost lives. A word of advice: Marriage must have the same values, otherwise it will be very hard after marriage.

Maybe! People like me are already doomed to be lonely and old! After chasing a few women, they all came out to play and eat and spent more than 10,000 yuan, and they died without holding their hands, and they accepted their fate.

I feel that my husband and I have unresolved grievances in our previous lives, and we will not be separated in this life, and I hope that after this life is over, the next generation will not see each other again!

My husband and I were classmates in preschool at the age of six, plus six years of elementary school and three years of middle school, but we never had any intersection, until now he is divorced twice, and I have only come together after two divorces, which is not fate.

It is all determined by personal experience, experience makes a person grow up and no longer naïve to look at some people and things, the more naïve people will say their own criteria for choosing a mate, and ask the object how rich and handsome. Truly mature people will also be different about the person who chooses to love, experiencing environmental decisions.