I was confused and didn t know what to do. 20

You say that you haven't learned, and your time and money have been wasted, do you believe that if you change schools again, you will definitely learn something, and time and money will not be wasted again? It's all objective reasons, so the problem is on you.

You say that you are confused, and the Buddha says that the reason why people suffer is because they pursue the wrong things. Now that you're pursuing another school, you think about whether you're pursuing the wrong thing. Because even if you change schools, it doesn't necessarily solve the problem itself.

Besides, you have realized that you have not learned, and your time and money have been wasted, so why not start learning now, are you good at English, if you don't learn it quickly, you don't have a foreign language and you are a fart these days!

If you can have this thought, it means that you are not degenerate, you feel lost, it means that you are still motivated, and you want to make yourself successful. Then OK, don't emphasize objectivity. Pick up a book, go to the library, go to study, and when you interview in the future, you may be asked, what books did you read when you went to college?

How do you then.

In any case, it doesn't matter if you get your diploma first, your major. There are too many career changes now, as long as you are working hard in the industry in the future to learn by yourself, it is not a problem.

Indeed, today's education system is equivalent to the ancient feudal imperial examination system. Today's officialdom is the bureaucracy of antiquity!! China's thousand-year-old feudal system has only changed its skin!! Comrades!! Victims!! We can't sit still!

The problem is not very clear, but since I saw it, I will give you some hints

First of all, what work you have done before, what work has been done for a long time, and what work has been done well.

Do your relatives and friends have a good job to introduce to you, and if you don't have yourself, do you have any skills that you can play?

If you don't have anything, it's easy to say, find a point you can do, and then go out more often to see if there is a better unit to go job hopping.

In fact, everyone has a time when they are confused, when they are young, they think they are very happy and carefree, and when they grow up, they realize that they are actually very painful, as if they feel that they are still working in addition to work.

In fact, it is obvious that people can find or learn a lot in their work.

So, friends, don't think too much, if a man is confident, everything will be fine, as long as you don't give up.

What do you think?

Then you have to pay attention to yourself. Don't let yourself be addicted like this, cheer up, no matter what you do, if you don't have a goal, you won't be motivated, you may not know what you want to do now, what you want to get, if you value yourself, don't despise yourself, put pressure on yourself, struggle and be diligent! Hard work pays off!

Actually, you should know what you can do and what you have to do. It's just because you're too lazy. And he put these things on hold.

As for the goal, don't rush to find it, slowly you will discover your potential and know what your goal is. But you can't just wait for the rabbit. Come on, I'm in a similar situation to you.

It's also because I'm too lazy. --

If you are confused, put down the things at hand first, think about what you have done during this period of time, what is the reason for your confusion, feelings, life, or work? Then think about how to solve it. Everything is on your own, but some things still need the help of friends.

If you're not happy, go shopping, go shopping, or simply go on a trip with your friends. Find your goal of survival, and you will be able to get out of the confusion! Hehe.

It's a good thing that you will know a lot of things.

These are your treasures.

Choose the one that you think is most comfortable and your own.

It doesn't have to be that you chose this line.

You won't need anything else you know.

Lines are all connected.

Don't get lost. When you choose, just do it.

In the process.

I'm sure what you'll know will help you a lot.

Learn to believe in yourself.

The reality is so cruel now, this is the fact that we have to admit it, the betrayal of friends, the separation of love, the problem of money, are so realistic, so cruel, but many of us can't escape it, don't we?

As a result, many good things are consumed.

So people will feel very annoyed and confused.

I don't know how to go in life.

In fact, we are not powerless, we have to learn to make good.

The cruelty in life is of our own making, and to avoid it, we also need to do it ourselves, and we must always maintain that happy and ordinary heart in life.

What you do requires your persistence, if you can't insist on doing a good job, then you are a genius and will not have any achievements, you say that you will have a lot of things, I don't know how to choose, those are all excuses, an excuse that you choose to avoid.

Hope it helps!

Wholeheartedly for you, for your family, for the friends around you, take your future as the starting point, maybe there are better friends than you now, maybe there are better people than you now, but young and blessed is not a blessing, you have to work hard to show others, in the end, who is the best, 20s is the age of nothing, put some pressure on yourself, cheer hard,

What should I do when I am very confused? At this time, we may be pursuing the wrong thing, trying the wrong thing in the wrong place. Need to wake up in time.

I believe that each of us will have times when we are lost, and there will be different confusion at different stages of life. Often the goal is the brightest when you are confused.