We always quarrel, can the relationship go back to the past?

I understand your state of mind! Sympathize with you too! In the early days of love, it is always beautiful, and it is easy to fall in love! It's hard to get along!

Most of the reasons are that when holding hands, it is only about the heart and moving! Not very rational, not thoughtful!

In this way, it is inevitable that all kinds of problems will arise, ordinary quarrels and contradictions, and exacerbate each other's dissatisfaction, disappointment and distrust!

The more time passes, the more heartache, tiredness, and weak feelings become! In the end, there will only be a rupture.

Judging from your description, I feel that you are a very good person, but many of your states have become facts, in a painful and contradictory environment, you are struggling, you want to break but can't bear it, and you don't know how to continue! I make the following suggestions for your reference!

1. For the aspects that your boyfriend often has contact with your ex-girlfriend, it is very important to deal with it properly, and depending on you, if you don't handle it well, it will lead to your emotional fluctuations! This problem seems to affect you a lot, and if you want to win back each other, you must first solve it! Find the right time to communicate well with your boyfriend.

If possible, find your ex-girlfriend, ask about some conditions, and be sure to keep your emotions in check! Or find out about the situation through someone close to them. Only by thoroughly understanding the situation can it be handled!

to unravel the knots in your heart! If it is true that they have no relationship, then there is no need to entangle! If they do break off, out of previous emotional help to each other, then you have to apologize to your boyfriend!

Communicate how to get along in the future!

2. In addition to the problem of his ex-girlfriend, you must communicate, the current situation and future of your life, etc., if you all have each other, you must sort out your emotions, understand each other, be tolerant, accommodating, and plan for your future life! Be sure to have a calm mind!

3. If you are really tired, you don't want to be entangled anymore, your feelings are no longer there, it is difficult to recover, and it is difficult to untie this hemp ball, then you should break it! It is also beneficial to each other's future lives!

Hope it helps! I believe you will be happy! Hope.

If you still love each other, don't let go.

It's hard to say, I guess he thinks you're not suitable for living with him, I don't think there's much hope.

If you love each other, don't break up easily, these are floating clouds, together are the two of you, why bother with those things outside the body.

You can go back to the past, but you have to pay attention to the way and the way. In life, quarrels will definitely affect the relationship between the two people, but if you quarrel in the wrong way, or in the wrong state of quarreling. And if it is too late to make up for it, then the relationship between the lovers will definitely be estranged.

So, what should you do at this time?

1.Don't cold war. An argument may not directly hurt the feelings between lovers, but a cold war will definitely hurt the feelings between lovers, so lovers should avoid a cold war. No matter what the quarrel is, we can't have a cold war, that's the most important point.

2.Calm down for an hour after a fight, keep your mouth shut, and don't say hurtful things. When we're excited, we're always prone to gibberish, and we're always going to explode into our accumulated dissatisfaction.

You vomit fast, but hurt each other. If you hurt his self-esteem, your position in his heart will be shaken. It's better to calm down, calm yourself down and think about the reason for the quarrel.

3.Don't cry to your significant other's family. Matters between two people should be resolved through negotiation, and every time you quarrel, don't cry with your family, which is a very bad behavior.

There must be a reason for a quarrel between lovers. Two people can make mistakes. If you blame your significant other and tell the other person's family, they will have an opinion about you even if the other person's family helps you.

4.Boys should take the initiative to bow their heads. Girls want to be coaxed and spoiled, so even if they quarrel, they want their boyfriends to bow their heads and coax them.

Then let's talk about this quarrel. So, boys, if you want your girlfriend not to be angry, you take the initiative to give her a hug, which is the most direct way to coax her.

5.Calm down and talk calmly. After the quarrel, the atmosphere between the two will become even more dull.

If one party chooses to bow their heads, the relationship will ease. After a quarrel, we must talk calmly and communicate amicably. When you speak, you must calm down and not lose your temper again because of verbal disharmony.

As long as the couples still love each other, all the conflicts can be resolved.

After the quarrel, the limb sail can no longer be chained back to the past, because the quarrel reflects each other's quality and responsibility, and the two people will definitely love each other more, but the hail will not go again because of the past.

It is possible to go back to the past, because many couples have forgotten about it on the second day after a quarrel, and it will not have much impact.

If two people can sit down well, open their hearts, and solve the problem well after the quarrel, then their relationship can return to the past.

I haven't understood what it is. Let each other not talk about anything, become, the closest thing to hide, is the relationship of time, the distance of space, or what, so that we lose each other's sharing, tacit understanding. I don't know when, only to find out that except for hello, we are just silent!

When I thought about it or meditated on it, I found that the joke, I don't know when, had been deeply involved in it, but it suddenly crossed the distance between each other, until one day, I heard that she had changed her number, changed her job, and <>

She didn't like the song she liked, she found a boyfriend and turned back. Only to find out that everything is in a dream, so real and unforgettable! Small greetings, often telling unimportant jokes, and occasionally carelessly caring about the other person's confidant.

Everything is simple, but it is difficult to maintain such a relationship, but the mind of one of the parties has changed, so everything has changed. Valentine's Less, and above! That's it.

It's not about love! A little distance, but always a blessing, I don't think about anything, a little greeting, often tell some unimportant jokes, and occasionally carelessly care about the other person's confidant.

Everything is very simple, but it is difficult to maintain such a relationship, but the mind of one party changes, so everything changes, in fact, quarrels are a little lubricant between couples. Life needs to be so quiet, and once it erupts, the consequences can be even more severe. After the quarrel, the relationship becomes more fragile; You can think for yourself.

You are afraid to see him again because you are afraid of arguing again, and you are already subconscious.

He developed some antibodies against him. Feelings are actually very fragile, let alone quarrels, which hurt feelings.

So, if you can get along, try not to quarrel. If you can't get along in harmony, try to change the status quo. If it doesn't work in the end, then think about whether you really fit each other.

If it is not suitable, letting the other party get rid of it is the most helpless and correct choice.

After the quarrel, in fact, don't take it to heart many times, and tell the quarrel between the husband and wife, as well as the quarrel at the head of the bed and the end of the bed, so the quarrel between the couple should know how to release their hearts and communicate well to understand each other.

After a couple quarrels, the relationship will definitely be a little dull, but it should depend on how you deal with it, and the feelings of people with high emotional intelligence will deepen, hopefully.

Yes, after a couple quarrels, there is a gap in the hearts of two people, and it is impossible to go back to the past.

Personally, I don't think so, because some couples have a deeper relationship after a quarrel, and the two people also know each other's bottom line.

After a couple quarrels, the relationship is not as good as before, some couples break up after the quarrel, and some couples get married after the quarrel.

No, it depends on how the two parties quarrel, some couples will be sweeter than before after the quarrel, and some will have a bad relationship.

No matter who you quarrel with, the relationship will be consumed, depending on the situation, if the frequency is very high, it will indeed be exhausting, and you have to run in.

I've been talking to my boyfriend for six years. Now they quarrel almost every day, either because of money or because of cheating with each other, or because he is too close to other girls outside, or because I don't trust him. Quarrel and shout.

Personally, I think it will be very difficult to go back to Gao Chao. In a relationship, once there is a gap, the relationship between two people who love each other will become difficult to repair, and only through time.

First, it is difficult to eliminate the estrangement in the relationship

Feelings are always very complicated, and when you fall in love, you feel that the other party is the person you identify with you, and you will not change. But once there is an estrangement, it is as if there is an invisible barrier that makes the two people who were originally close become strangers. The most painful thing in this process is not the disappearance of love, but the seeds of doubt that begin to breed in the hearts of both parties, resulting in the illusion that they have never really understood Qi Answer's lover in the past.

Therefore, I personally feel that the estrangement in the relationship is difficult to eliminate, no matter how the other party wants to explain the misunderstanding, it seems to be useless, because the hearts of two people have gradually drifted apart. In fact, this estrangement is likely to be just a trivial matter in life, and the other party doesn't care about it at all, but after I know it, it's like swallowing a choked fish bone, and I can't make myself smile and maintain the usual interaction and communication with the other party.

Second, through time

When encountering estrangement in the relationship, don't force yourself to eliminate this estrangement, it is better to let time come**, and gradually smooth out the edges and corners of this estrangement in life. In fact, many estrangements are only particularly concerned about at the moment, and if you are eager to eliminate the estrangement, you will hurt yourself more deeply about this estrangement. It will become a state where the harder you work, the farther apart the two people are.

Instead of twisting the chin here, it is better to let yourself be more open-minded, no one can force it to go to the progress bar you want when it comes to emotional matters, only to deal with it indifferently. Maybe after getting along for a while, you will gradually accept the original estrangement because of some changes in your life, and you can even tell your lover about the awkward self during that time as a joke.

Therefore, I personally feel that once there is a gap in the relationship, it is difficult to go back. At this time, the two people will seem to have pressed the pause button and will not be able to continue to get along. So instead of being entangled and confused here, it is better to take it easy, accept all possible results, and let time come.

<> quarrel. It depends on the two people's ability to communicate and resolve conflicts, as well as their relationship and level of trust.

If both parties can be honest about their emotions and needs, tolerate each other's views and feelings, recognize their mistakes, sail and work together to find ways and means to solve problems, then it is entirely possible for two people to go back to the way things were.

However, if one of them is unwilling to compromise, or if the two parties are unable to communicate, the verdict is likely to lead to a deterioration in the relationship, which is difficult to repair.

Therefore, both parties should calm down after a quarrel, think carefully, and master some effective ways to resolve conflicts, so that they can solve problems in time and promote a healthier and lasting relationship.

1.Trust is reduced. The quarrel breaks the original relationship of trust, causing both parties to have doubts and suspicions, and the damage of this trust is difficult to completely repair and will always leave a certain impact.

2.Stereotype. Verbal aggression and slander during an argument can leave a bad stereotype in the minds of both parties, which can affect the re-establishment of a frank relationship. This stereotype doesn't completely disappear with reconciliation.

3.Fear of quarreling again. After reconciliation, both parties will have worries and fears of another quarrel, which will make people reserved about each other, unwilling to open their hearts completely, and difficult to return to their original intimacy.

4.Preconceptions are hard to shake. People tend to form certain preconceptions, and once they are formed, they are difficult to change. The traces caused by the quarrel to the other party will become indelible under the influence of prejudices, which is also the reason why it feels like it can't go back to the past.

5.It's hard to calm down. Negative emotions such as anger and grievances during a quarrel will not completely disappear with the surface of reconciliation. These suppressed emotions will also affect the future communication to a certain extent, making people no longer feel as natural and relaxed as before.

6.The density of pro-hail deficit decreases. Quarrels are bound to bring a certain amount of damage to feelings and reduce intimacy. After reconciliation, it takes time to restore this intimacy, but it is difficult to fully return to the state before the quarrel, so there will always be a sense of difference.

To sum up, quarrels are bound to cause damage to the relationship, and this damage persists after reconciliation, which is manifested in the form of reduced trust, stereotypes, relapse worries, difficult stereotypes, difficult emotional calming, and decreased intimacy. The impact of this hand-made aspect makes people still feel a certain difference after reconciliation, and it is difficult to completely return to the original state. But as long as both sides actively repair, this difference will gradually narrow.

It depends on you, even if the relationship is in great difficulty, but some feelings die in the noise, but looking back, you are finally together, maybe you have experienced a lot, maybe you are experiencing, think more about each other, finally go down, you have to go on and make a conflict, first think about who is wrong, think about it and get angry, if you love each other, you must learn to tolerate, learn to tolerate, learn to love her (him) with your heart, cherish what has not been lost, Don't hurt the feelings you don't want to hurt because of the quarrel, apologize if you do something wrong, and don't be unforgiving even if you do it right, because she (he) is a lover and not your enemy. If you don't love him, she won't want to quarrel with you.