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People in key universities also have seven emotions and six desires, and many of my friends who fall in love at key universities are in love, and there are also those who talk about college in high school, and learning doesn't affect it at all. IQ is constantly improving, and emotional intelligence is also improving.
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It's as if falling in love in college has slowly become a fad. I don't know how much or not much, in short, a lot.
Of course, before falling in love, it is necessary to establish a correct and good relationship relationship to help each other's development, and it is also conducive to physical and mental health.
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College is a paradise for love.
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There are pros and cons to falling in love in college. University is a place to learn knowledge, even if the school has long been unrestrained and does not oppose love, but the mind is still mature in all aspects, so there are things to pay attention to.
1. The benefits of falling in love in college.
1) Enhance the sense of responsibility.
Falling in love in college can increase a person's sense of responsibility, love will make a person from naïve to mature, since they love each other, they must pay for each other, and be responsible for each other, so as to enhance their sense of responsibility to society. Secondly, love will make people more idealistic, because the love between the two is not the internal basis of the celebration, love is the blending of feelings, either party will affect the other party all the time, the interests are recognized, and the personality reflects each other, forming a common ideal of both parties.
2) Increase your circle of friends.
There are many students who will introduce their friends to each other when they are in love, which invisibly promotes the social skills of their classmates. Because you know more friends, you will communicate more with your friends, get a lot of information from your friends, and improve your conversation skills.
3) Encourage each other, learn from each other, and make progress together.
If college students fall in love in college, they can encourage each other in their studies, promote our learning, and share resources and complement each other's advantages, so as not to fight at night in order to pass CET-4. even discussed the postgraduate entrance examination together and went abroad together, and at this time, love has become the spice of learning, forming the driving force for the progress of the two.
Two. Disadvantages of falling in love in college.
1) The relationship is unstable.
Love is romantic, but it is difficult for college students with poor self-control to grasp the scale of love, and if there is no rational thinking, the love between the two will definitely be a failure. College students' romances are unstable and conformist, so the success rate is very low, so why pursue low-risk investments. Missing silver.
2) Psychologically immature enough to be unsuitable for falling in love.
Although college students are already adults and are physiologically mature, there are still some small differences in psychology, and they are not mature enough, and they are easy to be impulsive when they encounter things at the age of strong blood and blood, so as not to cause irreparable mistakes and affect their future, so it is not suitable to fall in love when they are in college.
For college students, if you meet love in college, then you should take care of it and cherish it. Dealing with various relationships in love is a blessing for love, a blessing for yourself, and a blessing for happiness in your future life.
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