After the divorce, my ex husband suddenly came to me and said that I wanted to get back together, sh

Updated on society 2024-06-19
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Since two people can divorce, it means that two people have problems, since they have been divorced for many years, they have suffered what they should have suffered, and they should have suffered badly, and they should have been used to the life of being single, why should they be dragged down by the family, and then whether they will repeat the living situation when they divorced after they get back together, because they can't get along with each other, no one can guarantee that they will get along well after remarriage, and they can't solve this problem at all when they live together, in fact, he is back, and the same problem will be repeated when he remarries. So they will never get back together, as long as they choose to divorce.

    No matter what the circumstances, when the interruption continues, it will be disturbed. The simpler the days, the happier they are. Others have nothing to do with people, messing up their own lives, life circles, the simpler, the cleaner!

    When I divorced, I proved that my marriage was a failure, my three views were not in harmony, I had no common language, and I had different dreams in the same bed, would such a marriage be happy? Therefore, it is impossible for the other party to get back together after the divorce.

    <> there is no other way out than to move forward. Because, it was originally a scar, and if you uncover it intentionally or unintentionally, it is oozing blood and hurting! So there was no trust between us, I habitually thought about it, and I wanted to find out everything, and he got bored day by day, and the distance became farther and farther away, farther and farther away, and finally fell apart and ended in divorce!

    Neither my minor children nor my elderly parents allowed me to give up. All I should do is: brace yourself, overcome all difficulties, and let life go on, go on.

    It depends on the reason for the divorce. Not all divorced people want to remarry, not all divorces can be remarried, and not all remarriages have good results. Dress yourself up every day, and be able to feel if you're a person who lacks assertiveness?!

    Because I feel that this is a matter that should be decided by oneself according to one's actual situation. Instead of asking others about anything. You are your own master.

    Nothing to travel, look at the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, enjoy life, learn to be alone, rely on the mountains and mountains, everyone runs only by themselves.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In fact, I think it is still very necessary to remarry, after all, the other party can change when he knows his mistakes, so he should still give each other a chance to let this relationship continue.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you have indeed let go of the relationship, then you should not choose to get back together.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you have children between you, if your ex-husband can make the old change, I think it is better to agree, after all, only the original partner can treat each other with sincerity.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Because the relationship between two people is very good, if they want to be together for a lifetime, they will choose to get married. But after getting married, many people will suddenly find that marriage is not as good as they imagined. In marriage, each of us will encounter a lot of helpless things, and we will also encounter a lot of things that make us angry.

    When this helplessness and anger accumulates to a certain level, the couple will choose to divorce. Many times, marriage and divorce are hot-headed and impulsive decisions. Therefore, some people want to get back together with their ex-wife or ex-husband after they are sober-minded.

    So what should I do if my ex-husband always harasses me and begs me to get back together after the divorce? Here's what I think:

    A marriage can reach the point of divorce because there are some irreconcilable contradictions between husband and wife. After the divorce, this conflict will no longer bother you. If two people get back together after the divorce, this kind of conflict and trouble will definitely continue.

    So in the face of her ex-husband's harassment and begging to get back together, you must not agree, otherwise it will be equivalent to stepping into the fire pit again.

    If your ex-husband has been harassing her and making it unbearable for you, you can choose to call the police and let the police help you deal with this matter. After calling the police, the ex-husband will definitely be afraid and may not dare to harass him again.

    Many people don't understand what marriage means before they get married, so they marry another person in a daze. Such a muddled marriage will only make your life more chaotic. Therefore, I hope that everyone must think about honesty and honesty before entering marriage.

    What should I do if my ex-husband always harasses me after the divorce? That's my opinion. So what do you think you should do when you face the harassment of your ex-husband and want to get back together? Welcome to leave a message to communicate.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I don't think you should get back together, you must have made up your mind to divorce in the first place, and if you get married again, you will repeat the same mistakes.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think you should refuse, even if you get back together, there is a good chance that there will be something that led to your divorce before.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't think so. If you have a good relationship with your current husband, you must keep the bottom line and go on with your husband. If the reason for your divorce from your ex-husband is not resolved, even if you get back together, you will quarrel again.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't think you should trust that a man with a positive outlook will not encourage divorce when you are married, this is a move of poor character and no responsibility.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You shouldn't believe him, thinking that your ex-husband must be very bad, so you will become an ex-husband, and you definitely can't believe it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This depends on how you choose, if you still have an ex-husband in your heart, you can choose to believe, if not, live a good life with your current husband.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You shouldn't believe it, if two people are divorced, you shouldn't listen to each other's rumors, and you should live a happy life with your current husband.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    No. I think he's lying to you, don't believe what this kind of person says, because this kind of person doesn't deserve to be loved at all.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    shouldn't believe it, and now that I have a family, I can't divorce the current one because of my ex-husband's casual words.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You shouldn't trust him, you should cherish the marriage you have now, and don't throw away your current happy life for the sake of the people in the past.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You and the current one are not happy, and he is divorced from you, and you are already with someone else, why should you abandon the current one, isn't there something wrong with you? Let's do it and cherish it.

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