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Nowadays, many people live with their parents after getting married, due to the pressure of life now, and there is not much money to buy a house, and as young people, we do not have the economic level. Therefore, most of them live with their parents after marriage. However, the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also a relatively serious matter, and many contradictions are reflected in the process of gradual union after marriage.
The problem between men and women, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will become a problem that endangers men and women, so if you don't want to cause this unnecessary problem, you need to refuse to live with your parents, although you can't deal with the problem between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but you can still reduce the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, why not?
Many people think that women should devote themselves to the family after marriage, and that housework needs to be undertaken by women, and it is important to remember that society is also an open and enlightened social development, and more and more women have their own jobs.
It is particularly hard to say that it is particularly hard to work hard and go home to take care of housework, and the daughter-in-law is not a confinement lady when she marries home, so as a woman should refuse to take on housework alone, and the husband and wife come to do it together, they both feel that the male and female pairs are not tired of working, it is worth mentioning that it can also make the relationship between the two parties better and better, reduce the contradictions between each other, so that the exquisite life is happier.
Whether a woman is married or not, she needs to have a job of her own, and a man's "I will raise you later", most of these words are just random promises, and if you want to live a good life, you must have a job of your own, then you have self-confidence in this family, your mother-in-law will not look down on you, your husband is more likely to respect you, and you will have a higher status at home.
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Refuse to take on housework alone, many people think that women should pay for this family after marriage, and housework should be borne by women, you must know that today's society is also an open and enlightened society, more and more women have their own jobs. It's very hard to work hard outside and take care of housework when you go home, and your wife is not a nanny when she marries home, so as a woman, she should refuse to take on housework alone, and both husband and wife come together to do it, and they all say that men and women are not tired of working together, not only that, but also to make the relationship between each other better, reduce each other's conflicts, and live a happier life.
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If you want to refuse to quarrel and refuse to be coquettish, you have to refuse to be angry with your husband, this kind of thing I think refuses to make trouble with your mother-in-law.
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Married life can be said to be a very noble thing for everyone. Since it is certain that we will enter into marriage, it means that we will be interdependent in the future, although it is very likely that there is no kinship between us, but we will become each other's own in the future, and the contract will become a family, and when we enter the married life.
There is more me beside me, we eat together, live together, settle together, and that is also a very beautiful thing, and the two are far more comfortable than a person, because of a person's life, sometimes too lonely, too lonely, and two people living together will not have so much loneliness and loneliness, because you will have some people around you all the time, but some people are not so happy in their daily life in marriage, but often so unhappy are due to this factor. In marriage, if a woman wants to grasp happiness, she needs to learn these 3 things to "refuse to celebrate"!
Nowadays, many people almost live with their parents after marriage, due to the pressure of today's life, and there is not much money to buy a house, and everyone as a young person does not have the financial strength. Therefore, most of them live with their parents after marriage. But the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a very serious matter, and in the case of gradual union after marriage, many contradictions will appear.
The problems between husband and wife, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will become a problem that harms the husband and wife, so if you don't want to cause such unnecessary problems, you need to refuse to live with your parents, although you can't deal with the problems between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but you can also alleviate the conflict between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so why not do it?
Many people think that women should invest in this family after marriage, and housework should be undertaken by women, you must know that now society is an open and profound social development, more and more women have their own jobs. It is very hard to say that it is very hard to work hard outside and go home to take care of housework, and the daughter-in-law is not a confinement lady when she marries home, so as a woman should refuse a bridge person to undertake housework, and both husband and wife come together to do it, they all say that men and women are not tired of working together, it is worth mentioning that it can also make the relationship between people better and better, reduce the contradictions between the two parties, and live a better life.
Whether a woman is married or unmarried, she needs to have a job of her own, and the man's "I will raise you later", most of these words are just random promises, and if you want to live a good life, you must have a job of your own, so you can have self-confidence in this kind of home, your mother-in-law will not look down on you, your husband will respect you more, and you will be more influential at home.
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Refuse to blindly please others, refuse to rely too much on others, and live independently. In marriage, it is easy to rely too much on the other half, such as the dependence on the other half to the point of losing oneself, then it will make people disgusted with the feast of things.
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Refuse to quarrel, refuse cold violence, refuse cold war, refuse not to communicate, refuse to pay.
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Abusing her husband. Be obedient to your husband. Go to the bar with someone else. Ambiguous with others. Insulting in-laws.
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Rejection of meaningless socialization, insecure feelings, ambiguity of the opposite sex, not going home after work, not going home to work. These things must not happen.
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Generosity, giving men appropriate freedom, etc. Women should be generous, so that there will be fewer things in their hearts and they will be happy. Give men proper freedom, men need space, and such marriages will last long.
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First of all, women must know how to restrain their desire to control and give their husbands a certain amount of space; Secondly, a woman should know how to respect her husband and not always point fingers at him; Third, a woman should know how to accept some of her husband's small shortcomings; Fourth, women need to know how to always care for their husbands.
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1. Create a romantic atmosphere occasionally, especially when the couple is in the world.
2. Treat your own man like flying a kite, hold on when you should hold on, and relax when you should relax.
3. Always treat yourself badly in this aspect of beauty.
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To know how to manage marriage, to give men appropriate freedom, don't grasp too tightly, too tightly will make men want to escape. There is also the need to learn to be coquettish, because coquettishness can make boys feel that they are needed.
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Don't be vexatious, communicate in a timely manner, and learn to understand, because occasional vexatious trouble is fun, often this will bring a sense of burden to the other half, women should also learn to communicate in a timely manner, solve problems in a timely manner, and women should also learn to think from the other party's point of view and learn to understand each other.
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I think if a woman wants to have a happy marriage, she still needs to work hard to have her own career, and then she also has to take care of her family, so that she can have a good marriage.
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Learn to give in and compromise, trust in marriage, and be responsible for the family. Trust in marriage is the foundation of happiness; To be responsible for the family is to be a person who can take charge of the marriage alone; Concession and compromise are not to give up principles, but to give the other party the greatest respect, and I wish you a happy marriage.
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First of all, you must pay attention to the attitude of men towards you, and also do not blindly pay, and should always be exquisite, let yourself be a very good and perfect woman, so that the joke has a certain attraction to men who are as bad as men, so as to make married life more happy.
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Don't always quarrel with each other, you are always in conflict, and your feelings will gradually be smoothed out, and even cold and faded.
If the other party is always hypocritical, half-hearted, and always can't do what he promised you Liang Qing, such a man will never be loyal, and he is not worth entrusting for life.
If you want to have a happy marriage, you must first have a good relationship with your mother-in-law, and a harmonious relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the first step to a happy marriage.
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First of all, you must be a financially independent woman, and you can't rely too much on men to be patient and reach out for money to spend. Secondly, women should learn to be generous and give men appropriate space. Outside, you have to save face for your own men.
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