What should I do if I feel like my parents have given up on me?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-14
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    There is no parent in the world who does not love his children. Therefore, as a child, you still have to be more considerate of your parents.

    I have already gone to a junior college, and it is good to learn a technology, and there is nothing wrong with entering the society early, after all, the starting point is lower.

    If you go further, upgrade to a bachelor's degree, and then take the postgraduate examination, this goal cannot be said to be unattainable. It takes a hundredfold effort.

    Of course, it is not necessarily possible to succeed, and it is better to be inferior to society and realize self-worth as soon as possible.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Your specialty may not be in the cultural class, don't pay special attention to academic qualifications, how many people who have become famous and become successful do not have high academic qualifications, this is not comparable. Find your own talent and expertise, study hard and study deeply, and make a career in your own talented field, you will be worthy of your parents and life.

    As for the parents' language expression, they don't need to be lost, even if they say that you are not good, they still only love their own children in their hearts, but the parents' hearts are high or they expect too much from you, they can't help but express it, they do ignore your feelings, but you can completely digest and forgive them, this does not mean that you are not motivated, but know how to advance and retreat, because on the road of your life, you will meet countless people who are better than you and better than you, in the face of these, smile and pass by, learn from each other's strengths, Just live your life.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    What you need now is independence. To be independent is to have no love and still no sense of loss. You said you've read so many books.

    I just haven't understood it yet. You're so old. I still think about the love of my parents.

    You have to work harder. Instead of thinking about these questions.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Maybe the hearts of parents in the world, pity the hearts of parents in the world, how can there be parents who don't love their children, don't doubt your parents casually, they will never give up on you, work hard, struggle yourself, and win glory for your parents.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Parents will definitely not give up on their children, probably to motivate you in this way, you should work hard to fight for yourself and lay a good foundation for your future.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Every child is the treasure of their parents, so it is an illusion that you feel that your parents have given up on you, and you have to believe that deep down in your parents' hearts they will always love you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Parents will never give up on their children, and praising their children in front of others is a spur to their children, so that their children will be more productive in their studies. Just like now, when you listen to his words, you have set up an ideal to go to the undergraduate or even graduate school.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Summary. Hello dear, the question about you is that I seem to have been abandoned by my parents, what should I do? Then you seem to have been given up by your parents, but in reality your parents will not give up on their children, dear, so what if you seem to have been given up by your parents.

    You can do this, talk to your parents, and talk about what may have happened between you that makes you think that you seem to have been abandoned by your parents, dear. Parents don't give up on you, as children, as parents, they love you, maybe there is something wrong with the way they love you, so you have this misunderstanding, thinking that your parents are giving up on you, dear.

    Hello dear, the question about you is that I seem to have been abandoned by my parents, what should I do? Then you seem to have been given up by your parents, and in reality, your parents will not give up on your children, dear, so what if you seem to have been given up by your parents. You can do this, talk to your parents, and talk about what may have happened between you that makes you think that you seem to have been abandoned by your parents, dear.

    Parents don't give up on you, as a child, as a parent, they love you, maybe there is something wrong with the way they love you, so you have this misunderstanding, thinking that your parents are giving up on you, dear.

    I seem to have been given up by my parents, what should I do if I pretend to be a parent, hello, if I find that my parents are abandoning me, I will choose to communicate with them. If you are really hated, you can also choose to let go of the stove. Suppose you are an adult, you should go out into the society and work, so that you can avoid trouble.

    My dear. You said you seemed to have been given up by your father and mother. It depends on the reason, if it is your fault that you seem to have been given up by your parents, then the family does not forgive you, you have to try to do your best to make the family forgive you.

    They also argue that hail can't be so ruthless, and really abandon your dear. I'm sure I'll forgive you someday. You have to work hard to prove that you can.

    So parents don't give up on your dear.

    My dear. If you are given up by your family and parents, you should do this. First of all, if you say that you seem to have been given up by your parents, then you should find your own way, although your family has given up on you, but your own grandchildren cannot give up on yourself.

    You still have a life of your own, and you should also try to fight for a future for yourself, and it is their business for them to give up on you. You must not give up on yourself, and this is the main evidence of your success. [Stalls and renters].

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I mean the renunciation of chakra here in disregard of his education.

    I know a lot of people want to say that all the bad habits in children are developed by adults.

    But I think every child just has his own character.

    After my child was in elementary school, I had many times when I wanted to give up on my child's thoughts:

    He makes mistakes, you correct them every time you see them, but he still makes them every time, he knows that things are wrong, but he doesn't have the consciousness to change them, and if you don't say it, he will be wrong.

    My eldest is eight years old, and he still can't hold chopsticks well, and he has to remind him every time he eats.

    The sitting posture is very bad, I like to put my feet on the sofa, every time I see it, I say, but I don't care about Zheng and Xiao for a few minutes, and it's the same when I go out, kneeling and crawling, and I'm dirty.

    Eating, very greedy, no matter how hot it is, he is in a hurry to eat, his face is hot and wrinkled, and you can't stop shouting. Delicious food, often eat stagnant food, eat vomiting.

    When you write homework, you remind him to turn on the light, he turns on the light, and if he doesn't remind him, he doesn't turn it on.

    It's just that no matter what you say, he'll be the same type next time, I think I'm tired of saying it, is there any good way.

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