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1. In the initial stage of contact with girls, we should pay attention to the following four points: 1) Let women see self-motivation. The biggest charm of a "manly man" is that he has a successful career.
Generally speaking, most of the boys who start to find a partner and fall in love do not work for a long time, and of course they cannot talk about "successful careers", and the important thing at this time is to make the girl feel that you are a self-motivated person. You can talk about other things as you like, but you can't be ambiguous about this issue, and you must tell women that they are confident in the future, and that they are not satisfied with the status quo and have long-term plans, in short, they must show that their future is not a dream. 2) Be confident and responsible Chinese traditional culture has always emphasized "masculine and feminine", and most of the girls who grew up under the influence of this cultural environment are subtle, dependent, and have a strong sense of family.
Of course, I hope to find a "man" who can be relied on and responsible, which requires my own confidence and sense of responsibility. 3) Moderate performance The so-called moderate performance is neither too serious nor too casual, serious where it should be, and ridicule when it should be ridiculed. Girls mostly like boys who are a bit cynical, so don't show that you care about everything.
4) Appear mature Boys are mature and stable, calm, calm, and not humble or arrogant, and have a strong attraction to girls. 2. Ideas for further contact with girls 1) "Take your time, don't rush" is an important principle at this stage. As the saying goes:
I can't eat human tofu in a hurry. Only by taking each step firmly step by step can we reach the point of "success to natural success". It's the same when you fall in love, don't be too straightforward so that the girl can see at a glance that she is chasing her.
Generally speaking, there are very few cases of love at first sight between the two parties, and most of them develop from the steps of communication, recognition, favorability, and attraction, and are also realized with the continuous increase of understanding, so the key to this stage is to get the opportunity for further development. 2) Start with a low tone When dating a girl starts, first position the relationship to a "friend" level, as a friend, you need to communicate, communicate, understand each other in the interaction, enhance each other's emotions, and then naturally push the relationship forward to become a "good friend", of course, this takes a certain amount of time and emotional process, don't fantasize about knowing each other for three days and agree to marry you, to fully communicate, understand, feelings are not generated out of thin air. Generally speaking, in the initial stage of contact with girls and the further contact stage, they generally have more self-esteem, and they also prefer to observe and observe the characteristics and behaviors of the person they are dating from words and deeds, so in addition to talking about topics that are more interesting to both parties at this stage, humor and appropriate expression of themselves are more important, but don't say "chasing you".
If you don't mention the word "chase", even if there are some words and deeds that the girl doesn't agree with, the girl won't have the opportunity to "reject" you - if you don't chase her, how can she reject you?! This can not only reduce the psychological pressure of girls
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He laughed and cried. Guess why he was laughing and crying. Is this sentence a sick sentence?
He laughed and cried. Guess why he was laughing and crying. This sentence is not a sick sentence, but a passage to describe crying.
Some people cry loudly when they are angry, and they cry very miserably, they don't laugh at all, and it makes people look very uncomfortable.
Laughing and crying is also called crying with joy, it is a very happy thing, and tears come down when you laugh and laugh. It's just when I'm laughing to the extreme, and I'm very happy.
I used to have a colleague who would cry when he was very angry, but she would laugh when she cried, and it was also very uncomfortable at this time, that is, she was crying, but she didn't want to be said, and she felt very embarrassed, so she cried and laughed.
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William Mekbis Thackeray, French writer Life is a mirror, you smile at it, it smiles at you, you cry at it, if you look at the world with a good mood and attitude, you will find that the world is so beautiful and your world will change. In the face of study, life, these dissatisfactions, is it necessary to complain about life, become depressed, depressed, or should we have a firm and optimistic attitude and struggle in adversity? How to look at life does carry the subjective world of people:
If there is no sunshine in the heart, it will be difficult to find the bright sunshine! People who don't have the fragrance of flowers in their hearts must find it difficult to find the fragrance of flowers. Therefore, in our study, what we need in life is a firm and optimistic mental attitude, maintaining an approachable attitude, and facing everything calmly.
Looking at life with an optimistic attitude, you are digging out an inexhaustible happiness for your life!
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This sentence seems to be contradictory, but it actually shows his complex psychological state, although it is laughing, it turns into crying, a feeling of joy and sorrow.
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I couldn't help but cry.
People who laugh a lot are not necessarily scary, it is also possible that people are more optimistic and cheerful, so they smile often. The example you gave is indeed terrifying, but it is only an isolated phenomenon. It is not representative. In fact, terrible people, whether they cry or laugh, are terrible people.
He taught her to understand the marriage and then divorced. He and her remarried, and then they could run in.
Give up, he doesn't care about you at all, so what's the use of having such a lover.
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Yes, it's really hard to know if he's sincere, in addition to getting along for a long time, there must be communication with each other's hearts, language is not the most important, the important thing is that he will take care of you and care about you in every little thing in his usual life! >>>More