Am I being too impulsive? What does it mean that we are all too impulsive?

I'm telling you from my experience, leave him, if you can't bear it, never ignore him, for your father, he won't change, my parents sing and drink, there is no one like them in the world, I put up with him for more than 20 years, but now he is angry, and the illness is very serious, he thinks in his heart that he will keep demolishing you, you want to change unless you die, he will slowly think about his previous mistakes, I think you should not ignore him anymore, you will only fall deeper and deeper, and then you will suffer from the enemy, Others will say that you are not good, because he gave birth to you and raised you, in fact, no one is anyone's own, only when you earn your own money will you have dignity, and whoever uses your money will be angry, and others will also say that you are not good, because in the eyes of others, he gave birth to you to ask you to give him money, not he gave you money.

Sympathize with your situation, you did the right thing, and I think you should also go to court to sue him, so that you and your mother can be given justice.

You came out on your own, but your mother, won't you still be angry at home, so you should have straightened your back a long time ago to protect your rights and interests.

As for raising a family, you should have a way to do it when you're so old, it's just that this period of life is not easy, but if you think about it, it's much better than being bullied at home.

Study hard now, for the sake of your mother, and for your future, muster up the courage to face the current difficulties. I'm sure you can.

When I washed my feet today, he actually threw a cigarette butt on my lap. The first time I forgot it, I endured it, but he didn't know how to back down, but instead had to inch in, so he lit another one and threw the cigarette butt into my lap again. I was so humiliated that I looked at him, and he was still angry with me.

I don't know why your father did this to you, but if you run away, it will worry your mother.

Is it your biological father? If so, how could he bear it? Sometimes there is a generation gap between father and son, so let's talk about it openly.

If it's your biological father, go home. I have a younger brother who usually quarrels with my father, sometimes my father is against him, but my family doesn't understand, they all complain about my father's attitude towards his children, but once my father talked to me (my boss) after I understood my father's intentions, we misunderstood him, sometimes the parents are very strict, but we can't accept the way, from his point of view, maybe he wants to inspire you something. If it's not the right way, just forgive him, after all, it's a family.

Happy with home!

Maybe, I may be like you, but anyway, what he did was wrong, and he was still the father who gave birth to you and raised you for 22 years, and he didn't care about his self-esteem in front of him, but if you can not work very hard to scrape together money to complete your studies, you will be independent, but you have to talk to your father well, don't say that you can't stand him, find other excuses, otherwise he will not forgive. And you're going to repay him for his nurturing kindness!

Not all parents are qualified parents, you are 22 years old now, and you are in college, you have your own values, go in the direction that you think is right, I always think that at some point in life, boys should leave home and learn to be independent.

I've told you that you've done a good job! How is it so guilty? It's not a severance! Don't be nervous! Later you give him money!

The reality of society ruins your chance to be a good person. Leave!

Hello, it is a pleasure to serve you and give you the following answer: The meaning of this sentence is that we are all moving too quickly to think it through. This happens because people often can't control their emotions and instead get too impulsive and make decisions without thinking about it enough.

To solve this problem, first of all, we need to change our mindset, and before making a decision, we need to think through and take into account all possible factors. Secondly, we also need to learn to control our emotions, and before making a decision, we should control our emotions first, rather than being dominated by them. Finally, we can also try some techniques, such as meditation, rapid breathing, etc., to help us better control our emotions.

Hello, in the impression of the vast majority of people, the result of acting impulsively is often to make mistakes by losing their minds. But for me, it was because of impulsiveness that I avoided making mistakes, which benefited me. ......Here's how it went:

I thought I wanted to buy a camera, and I looked like I chose an ordinary camera, but when I went to the merchant to buy it, I found that there was only one prototype left. I want the merchant to lower the price, but the merchant is unwilling to lower the price. So I decided not to buy it on the spur of the moment.

This incident led me to eventually embark on the path of photography with a DSLR camera. ......In this case, my impulse led me to the right choice because I set clear goals for myself, I would not compromise when I didn't achieve them, and I was convinced that I would not compromise on these three reasons.

1. I set clear goals for myself when I do things.

The reason why I acted impulsively in this matter but benefited from it was because I set clear goals for myself when I did it. It is with this goal in mind that I am taking action. ......Because of the clear goal, he has a very clear idea of what to do and what not to do, so although he is impulsive in specific actions, he does not harm his own interests, but benefits from it.

2. When the goals you set are not achieved, you will never compromise.

The most fundamental reason why you act impulsively without losing your interests is that you will never compromise when you do not achieve ......your goalsAt that time, I was not too satisfied with the state of the camera, so I wanted to make up for it by reducing the price. However, if merchants are unwilling to reduce prices, their goals will not be achieved. At this time, he did not compromise, but firmly set the goal he set unchanged, and because of this, he benefited from it.

3. In the process of doing things, I have a firm belief and will not compromise.

Fundamentally speaking, the reason why I acted impulsively in this matter but benefited on the contrary was because of my firm belief that I would not compromise. ......In that case, my goal was to buy a professional-grade camera. But the goal I set at the beginning was to be an ordinary camera.

In fact, I am not satisfied with this state. And when the merchant was reluctant to talk home, he did not waver in his belief and did not settle, but made the choice of the main shop, because of this, although he was indeed impulsive at the time, but he benefited from it. ......This incident shows that you must have firm beliefs and clear goals when doing things, and only in this way can you really benefit yourself.