I can t accept the pain of falling out of love, and I don t know what to do

Updated on psychology 2024-06-09
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Don't be sad Now that the fate is over, let it pass, stretch out your arms and embrace the breeze to feel the spring, summer, autumn and winter.

    Cheer up and welcome a new day, you just have no chance with him on the road of life, there will be people who are destined with you to walk through the road of life with you. Believe it.

    Take a break for a while. Make the most of this time and do what you want. If you think it's right, do it.

    If you talk to your close friends, you will naturally feel better. Usually, you should often decompress yourself, and when you have troubles, don't drill the horns of the bull and think about the benefits. Slowly, the knots in my heart melted.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Since you like it, how can you be separated.

    Don't have such illusions.

    Since they can't be together.

    Why do you love him so much?

    You should love yourself.

    If you want to make yourself happy, magnify his shortcomings.

    If you are human, you will have shortcomings.

    Thinking that he once had such and such shortcomings.

    Why bother to regret that you lost him?

    Wait for the next person you love.

    Sometimes, drowning in grief.

    You may miss out on the most important person to you.

    I wish you happiness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Let time dilute all these memories and sorrows, and hope that you will have a cheerful and optimistic life in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    No way. Trust time to help you figure it out.

    Look a little lighter and hurt less.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Reminisce about the good old days.

    You can't just think about what you're going to do.

    Instead, take practical actions to force yourself not to think about those past events, to fill your schedule, and to be sad and sad!

    Be hopeful (but don't question him) and behave like yourself (just the one he liked at the time).

    There's really no way, just leave resolutely, I'm a bit similar to you.

    I've taken a break to go home, and I'm going to have an environment next year.

    Slowly forget about it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    How big are you, sisters?

    I can enlighten you with my voice, and I can't sleep anyway.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Many things, always after experiencing Feng Mori He know that the gains and losses are not up to him. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

    Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun...

    Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice and weakness; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit the silver pie until you don't wake up.

    Learn to give up and turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars ...

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Table. There are a lot of things that you used to think that not only bright hail and smart things can happen to you, you just fall out of love, think about it, how many women, while losing love, also have to bear a lot of the burden of life: the embarrassment of a single mother, financial pressure...

    Maybe you should listen to other people's unfortunate stories, so that you will feel that you are still quite lucky: you didn't find out that the person who thought you would love you for the rest of your life was actually nothing after giving birth, you didn't suddenly find out how fragile and vulnerable the so-called relationship was after ten years of almost perfect feelings, and you didn't get sick and depressed by the departure of your feelings...

    Be happy, time won't go back to the happy times before the sail because of your unhappiness, and he won't change back to his old self because of your unhappiness, will he? You shouldn't just live in memories, think about your parents, your friends, your job, you still have a lot of things to do, a lot of friends and relatives to love. Sometimes, there are some things that you can't forget, but you don't want to forget, don't you?

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Find a friend to play.

    It's good to be tired from doing exercise.

    Time will fade all leads.

    And then there's being in love.

    Believe that you will find a better fit for you.

    When you laugh, the whole world is laughing because of you.

    When you cry, the whole world doesn't cry because of you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hello landlord! The Maple Wither team will be happy to answer your questions!

    Friend; If he doesn't love you, please don't lose confidence, because it's not that you're not good, but that he doesn't understand your sincerity to him;

    If they don't love you, or if you break up. Love will still leave a trace in the heart; Therefore, love is beautiful, hate is ugly, we don't need to hate someone, we are still very good friends after a breakup, we should bless each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other!

    Therefore, there is no one who is right or wrong in the relationship, only who does not know how to cherish whom, that is, who does not know how to cherish love.

    If they don't love you, they lose a person who loves them, and you lose a person who doesn't love you, but you get a chance to live and love again! Therefore, let go of the people who don't belong to you, so that you can find someone who really knows how to love you! People who know how to be considerate of you!

    People who know how to take care of you! So giving up is another pursuit!

    Feelings are the attitudes of two people, and they are not something that can be decided by one person; Therefore, love is not absolutely eternal for anyone, but only that there is this hope for each other; You love him deeply at this time, maybe he may be separated later because of discord, and in the same way, he is just a little earlier than you, so when he doesn't love you, you have to know how to give up and don't complain!

    The red dust is faint, life is like smoke, all the dust is destined in the dark, whether it is joy or sorrow, it is to be walked through, to be experienced, we must understand; I'm lucky; Lost, my life; Calmly pass and negotiate acceptance;

    Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, only know how to cherish, tolerate, understand, humble... can truly have a tranquility, a plainness, a true feeling, and can accommodate a smile covered with dust and frost. It will also make your beautiful love eternal...

    May those who love you love you more; The person you love understands you better!

    I sincerely wish you all the best! Good luck! Career success! Happiness and joy!

    I hope mine satisfies you! Thank you!!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

    Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

    When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

    When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

    The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!

Related questions
10 answers2024-06-09

After reading the comments of other netizens, I think this is too exaggerated, they said that you should go to see a psychiatrist? Wrong, it's not necessary, this is a very common psychological reaction of girls! I'll talk about it from my point of view! >>>More

3 answers2024-06-09

3= Watchtower owner

Mitsura - Fireworks rolling lyrics. >>>More

7 answers2024-06-09

I'm from your age. Classmates and friends will compare with each other, but I want to ask you, if your classmates use cars instead of bicycles, do you also ask your parents to buy you the same, in fact, every family's situation is different, at least your parents bought it for you, you should say something thank you to your parents, and then tell them in another way that you prefer that kind of small wheels. And you should also think about those who are more difficult at home, they just want to be fed, have school, and have clothes to wear, they are very satisfied, you think about it in a different way. >>>More

23 answers2024-06-09

Child. Your thoughts are pathetic.

There are countless people in your life who have come into contact with you. >>>More

12 answers2024-06-09

I have 3 points for your reference:

The reason why you are bored and have nothing to do is because the surrounding environment is too cumbersome, and the things around you are too cumbersome, so it seems to have been integrated, when you are alone and withdrawn, you will feel a kind of emptiness that has no form to compare, in fact, there is no need to repeat every day to ask what to do; Or what to do, when you don't know anything, don't think about anything, don't do anything, and simply sleep in a daze can get through boredom. , don't think so much, people are born to be bored, so if you keep repeating boring things, you will feel bored, and change your mind. It's just a dull day, and the already boring life shouldn't be thought of to embarrass yourself. >>>More