What it s like to talk to someone who doesn t have the qualities

No matter when, during the lunch break, in the morning, in the middle of the night, playing games is always loud, ** out, regardless of other people's feelings; The roommate advised him to be quiet, and he also thought that you were going to sleep by yourself, taking a lunch break, and what to do with me. Secondly, I take other people's things at will, and I look like I don't care about them, and I think what's wrong with using your things. Third, if he does not respect the fruits of other people's labor, he throws things in the whole dormitory alone, and throws them on the floor when he eats.

Fourth, relying on his own good family background, he came out of an aristocratic school, so he looked down on ordinary people, and he always spoke badly about the efforts of others, wishing that others would fail. In the end, I always thought that I had a strong quarrel, that I was a dog-like person, tall and big, and that I was very awesome when I spoke loudly, but in fact, few people looked up to him. All in all, according to what he told us about his upbringing and family background, as well as his education, it is hard to imagine that such a person is really of very low quality, yes, he often says that others are of low quality.

There is a roommate who gives people the feeling that he doesn't know how to respect others, and he talks loudly at night, and asks her if she can talk tomorrow, she says that there is no way to talk about group chat, and then she slams the door. I set an alarm clock at five o'clock every morning and don't wake up, I wake everyone else up, and I usually have to take a shower and wash clothes at eleven o'clock at night, and the washing sound is very loud. The point is that she still pretended that I didn't know anything, before I told her if she could be quiet, don't jump when she got out of bed, and then she said no, and said that she still has this quality, I just want to hehe.

Then my other roommate said that she was used to being the only child in the family, but many of my friends around me are only children, but people know how to respect others.

If you don't forgive him 800 times a minute, you won't be able to go on. And it's a special headache because the two people have different attitudes and ideas about things. It's really hard to be together every day.

Habits are different, be more tolerant. It is also an ability to endure the shortcomings of others, and if you really can't do it, you can give advice.

The work I am doing is more service-oriented, I meet all kinds of people every day, I really have a headache when I encounter those who don't have quality, I use strong words, and I scold and scold Makes sense and doesn't make sense at all, and it's nothing when I'm middle-aged Young people don't know how to be polite, and it's really embarrassing to their parents.

I've seen a lot of bad sides of her, but no one else has a classmate who has played well with me and said that she looks pretty good, and she's pretty easy to get along with, so I'll do it, but I can't say anything because she's outgoing, and she seems to be easier to get along with than the average person, but in fact, she's super unqualified, and she won't change it, and I've refused to communicate with her.

It's really worthless for your parents, spending so much money to raise such a "sensible" son. Of course, people like you must be responsible for becoming like this. But at the very least, don't waste their hard-earned money.

The dormitory roommate took a photo of herself in her pajamas, and she couldn't help but share it with her boyfriend, and when she questioned her, she also said confidently that she wanted to share everything with her boyfriend, and the 10,000-word scolding could only be held in her heart, and she had been playing with her in college, and then added some other things, so she had to stay away.

Since I was a child, I have not received training such as "how to face unqualified people". In education, there is only what you should be, and there is no one else who is not like this. First of all, this person cuts in line, and his quality is not high, so if a person with quality goes to stop him, he is likely to fall into a situation where he is not as good as scolding him, and he is not as shameless as him.

A person who asks for shame in public is unlikely to be able to point out a person who is shameless in public. In fact, this has little to do with not resisting, inferior roots, and dispersing responsibilities. If you care about things with a person who has no quality, you basically need to lower yourself to a certain level, at least you have to communicate with him, and this communication is likely to be unqualified.

So sometimes when encountering unfair behavior and unqualified behavior, a group of people will be stunned, like a dead machine, because there is really no correct program in their minds to deal with this kind of behavior.

Quality refers to the individual's literacy and cultivation in terms of ideology, morality, culture, behavior, etc., reflecting the individual's internal cultivation and external performance. Generally speaking, quality and lack of quality refer to the feelings brought by the performance of an individual's cultural literacy, moral cultivation, social behavior, etc. Specifically:

Quality people:

1.Have a good cultural match literacy, know how to respect the words and deeds of others, and respect others.

2.Have a high sense of morality, know how to take responsibility, have compassion and compassion, and are not self-centered.

3.Have a positive attitude towards life, have the courage to face challenges, and overcome difficulties with hard work and wisdom.

4.Excellent social skills, good at communicating with people, able to handle interpersonal relationships, and live up to people's expectations.

People with no quality:

1.Lack of good cultural heritage, do not understand etiquette and rules, act arbitrarily, and behave rudely and shallowly.

2.Lack of awareness of basic social norms, lack of compassion and love, disregard for the interests of others, ignore the feelings of others, and pursue self-interest.

3.Negative attitude, lack of self-confidence and courage, encounter difficulties will lose faith, easy to give up, dare not take responsibility.

4.Poor communication skills, not knowing how to communicate, not respecting others, often hurting other people's feelings, so that they are lonely and unaccompanied.

In general, people with quality are respected and loved, and can get more support and opportunities for success, while people without quality are often limited and troubled in social and professional aspects.

For the response of low-quality people, this benevolent person sees the wisdom of the wise and the wise, some say that they don't want to be generally knowledgeable, and some say that they can't get used to him. It's all right and wrong, there is a certain one-sidedness in this banquet, if you avoid it, some people will say that you are timid and afraid, if you are tough with him, people will say that you are a person without quality, because you are generally knowledgeable with people without quality. People without quality in life, people without quality do things without quality, abound, how to deal with it is a common proposition.

I think for such people, it is essential to treat them politely and politely, and it is essential to move them with affection and reason, and there is no timid and afraid of things, saying a few innocuous words, or laughing at them without care, our purpose is to solve the problem rather than intensifying the conflict and escalating the incident. But when encountering entangled, unreasonable, nonsense people, and even personal injuries, we must face it bravely, we must do not cause trouble, but we are not afraid of things, but we should not take the initiative to use force, even if we have a great advantage, some people who have no quality hope or purpose is that you do excessive behavior, when you stretch out your hand to do irrational behavior, maybe all the lack of quality is no longer important. When a problem arises that can't be solved by pickpocketing, we have a strong backing:

The State and the law, whatever the means, must be governed by the law.

In my personal experience, most people are still very literate, and only a few people seem to lack quality in public and when dealing with people.

The unintentional can be forgiven, but the malicious one is hehe.

1. Some people do something without quality, maybe they don't realize it themselves.

There is a small child at a relative's house, and they eat together at one time. He would ask his parents to move all the good food in front of him. This is not his house, of course his parents will not listen to him, so they reason with him and say that he will put him in a bowl if he wants to eat.

But the boy didn't listen, and he made a lot of noise.

In this case, it is estimated that the child has been spoiled since he was a child, and he thinks it is normal, but in fact, he is very selfish, and he only sees himself, and he must change it in time, otherwise it will be a trouble.

2. There is also deliberate, I really don't like this kind of thing, and even have some disgust.

For example, when playing some battle games, you will always encounter some people who say something "self-respecting" in their voices. Speak ill of other players (and teammates are also killed) and threaten them.

Do you say he doesn't understand this? He understands too. But he's going to do these disgusting things.

In short, I think it is really good, and I should give it a chance, maybe he didn't realize it. For those who knowingly commit crimes, I would like to greet him ......

That kind of is the problem of education since childhood, and it can't be changed for a while, so he can only slowly understand it and stay away from such people.

Making loud noises in public, communicating with people in uncivilized language, sitting without sitting, standing without standing. Spitting, etc.