Chasing girls, how to build a good relationship with their dormitory roommates

First of all, you have to understand that girls' skins are generally relatively thin, so the mm you like says that she knows what you think, and doesn't say much, just because she's embarrassed, do you still expect her to shout directly at you that she likes you? So at this time, you have to find a chance to date her As for her roommate, you have to use her roommate when chasing at the very beginning, if there is any activity, you can call her through her roommate, you can rest assured that such things MM will generally be willing to help. Focus on the mm you like during the initial relationship, and mm will naturally know.

You also have to communicate more with her roommates, knock on MM's preferences, and by the way, convey your meaning through her roommates. But you have to grasp the degree, don't arouse the disgust of the mm you like After making some progress with mm, pull the mm you like and her roommate out for dinner or something Thank you for the matchmaker In the end, you will hug mm alone

Addendum: Then call your buddies in the class, or your dorm and their dorm have a friendly game or something It's convenient for your buddies to solve the problem yourself If there is nothing to do in college, this event MM is still more keen to participate.

What do you care about, just live yourself, just be happy, why do you have to ask your roommate to like you, it's a brother who will never change.

For the girl you like, it is recommended that you confess it to your face and pay attention to his expression. Generally speaking, extroverted girls should be gentle, cute and gentle, you have to take out your domineering appropriately, I wish you success, don't forget to give me extra points.

You're chasing that girl, not her whole dormitory, don't complicate the problem, then you will be very tired, be yourself, they will find your strengths, and deliberately flatter, but make people feel embarrassed -,-

Big brother, you read a lot of ancient literature, right?

You should have a good relationship with the mm you like, and it doesn't matter.

If life does not intersect, and the purpose cannot be too direct? How can you chase it?

1. Restrain your little temper, don't rely on your own temperament.

At home, you can have parents who are used to you, and you may blame your parents for a little disappointment, but everyone is equal at school, and no one will take care of you as well as your parents. Don't use the good or bad background of your parents as a weapon to suppress others, this is a behavior that only naïve children have.

2. Don't melt people who don't meet the first impression aura.

Thinking that trying to get in touch would improve the relationship, but that's all whimsical. Don't compromise yourself to hold on to the relationship. When encountering people with incompatible aura, the first reaction is to stay away.

3. If you have something to say, don't hold it in your heart.

Some people don't like to make sense, and they often suffer dumb losses. For example, if the other person does something that makes you unhappy, then you have to express your dissatisfaction. For example, if you don't like others to use your own things, you have to say it, otherwise others will not realize their mistakes and continue to do so.

At this time, you are angry, and others still say that you are inexplicable and not a loss.

4. Cultivate your own empathy.

Empathy is the ability to feel sad or happy when something happens to someone who is happy or sad. And some roommates usually don't care about your feelings at all. Only when she and her grandchildren are in trouble do they ask you to sell envy, and then have empathy to help them.

It's all whimsical, okay!

5. You can't ask others to do what you can't do.

If you want to ask others, you might as well do your own things well. I've met such roommates before, and every time I come back, I play games in the middle of the night, and I don't start washing up until after twelve o'clock. It's really speechless for this kind of person.

If you can do this yourself, you will naturally be treated with the same respect when you make a request.

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Problem description: I am a freshman in college this year. There were 6 people in the dormitory, all from different places, and I was the only local. In the beginning, I wanted to have a good relationship with them, after all, we had to live together for four years, so I tried to communicate with everyone, and from time to time I even took out some of my own private secrets to share with them.

I thought it would be like high school, where we would talk a lot and share each other's lives and become good friends. But I found that this was not the case at all. Everyone is still doing their own thing, and they are still very cold to each other, which is completely different from what I thought before.

I will only look for you when there is something, and I will be busy with myself when I have nothing to do. I have a pretty good relationship with one of the girls, but I can't stand her hitting ** until late every night, and she only washes after every lights out, and she talks loudly in the corridor. Obviously, she just needs to say something in the dormitory so that everyone knows, but she prefers to tell everyone once, and she runs to the water room to talk to her roommate when she wants to go to bed at night, and she says it very loudly, as if she wants to attract everyone's attention and make everyone revolve around her.

I really don't know what to do, although I also have good friends, but after all, it's from other dorms, and there is something I can't share in time. What should I do?

Analysis: The relationship is good after living for a long time, and the more deliberate it is, the worse it gets.

You can put forward your own opinions with that friend in a casual tone, but if you can't do it, just euphemistically explain that she seems to be a very straightforward person.

Almost all students in the university need to live on campus, and they all need to get along with their roommates in the university dormitory. The first is that you should learn to understand each other, communicate with each other, respect each other and tolerate each other during your time in the university dormitory. The reason why people can establish a more intimate relationship with each other is because of mutual respect and mutual understanding, only under this premise, the feelings between each other will be further deepened, each other will further enhance understanding, establish a deep friendship, four years of college, I have a good relationship with my roommate, even if he enters the workplace, we will often contact each other, it can be said that college roommate is my best friend in college for four years, which is exactly ** In the four years of college, in the process of getting along, we have achieved mutual respect and mutual understanding with each other, and then we have mutual trust.

After all, in the past junior high school and high school, many times some of my life chores were arranged by my parents, because my parents thought that learning was the most important thing at this stage, and they rarely paid attention to the cultivation of their own personal self-care ability, but after arriving at university, especially after the dormitory, through getting along with my roommates, I realized that I was already an adult, and I should learn to take care of myself and learn to live independentlySo like my roommate, I felt that I did my own laundry, and I sorted out the bedding by myself, which not only allowed me to grow up very well, but also made me truly realize that I had completed the tasks that should have belonged to me.

The two of them are together when they have a heart for each other, why is Rory doing all this? Well, casually spit it out.

She asked you to start with "only the periphery", basically this periphery is not actually a periphery, at least it is a friend, or even a best friend. What this person has to do is to evaluate you like a questionnaire and a threshold. This fingercode is an article about the relationship between Zhao Wei and Faye Wong, and what you need to see in it is how Li Yapeng "conquered" Zhao Wei.

To make a person satisfied, this is a problem for a person, the specific implementation requires your own specific judgment and specific operation, sometimes the success or failure of good and evil is between the thoughts of the "superior person", there is no absolute right or wrong in everything, but everyone relies on it.

I still think that the girl you like is not doing right, you want to fall in love, you want to come together with someone else, then you can get to know this person yourself, and get first-hand information directly, isn't it? Hiding behind a friend and going up to the line a little is disrespectful to the three parties. This kind of girl is not very independent, and it slightly reflects the "strong" aspect of your manhood.

I don't think there's any need to please her roommate, you can ask your roommate to eat something, and then ask her to do you a favor, and help you say something nice, most people will succeed if they think you are a good match for her.

1.When borrowing something, remember to say thank you. Don't use your roommate's stuff for your own sake, it's really annoying.

2.If you wake up early and your roommate hasn't gotten up yet, remember to go down the stairs, wash up, etc. gently, don't crackle, the dormitory is not for one person.

3.Don't tell everything to your roommates. Not everyone will keep your affairs secret for you, and your roommate may not be as nice to you as you seem, and maybe one day you will see his face because of one thing.

4.Stay away from people who are constantly pumping bad emotions into you. Something will affect you subtly.

I experienced something like this, roommate 1 got up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom because he flushed the water. The next day, roommate 2 said that roommate 1 had made a noise to her when she flushed the toilet last night. I said, maybe roommate 1 is older.

Roommate 2 said that it was impossible, and she went on for more than 30 seconds. I was ...... in my heart

Roommate 2 belongs to the kind of person who is too sensitive in her heart, because she can't sleep and has insomnia, she will blame her roommate for arguing with her.

Speechless. 5.Have your own opinions.

If you don't want others to do it, you can do it, and have your own opinions. If you want to finish your homework before you go to dinner and shopping, there is no need to go to dinner and shopping with them first. It's really bad to blindly cater to others like this, and it will make you lose a lot of things.

Sometimes relationships aren't very important.

6.Don't be in small groups and isolated. Some dormitories may have three or four groups in one dormitory, and I've really come across them. It's really low-quality socializing, it's better to work hard to improve yourself.

First, inclusion.

There is no doubt that people with different personalities and people with different views get along in the same dormitory, and sometimes they will have different views on the same thing, and at this time they should not be arbitrary, but tolerant. It's a lot of time, bumps and bumps are inevitable, everyone will make mistakes, in others make mistakes, give her a touch of the head to die, when it comes to it, don't worry too much. There will be more intimacy between people.

Second, empathy.

The basis of tolerance is understanding, and you must understand that what others do is the result of other people's three views, just as one's own behavior is also determined by one's own three views. Sometimes, when you think about other people's situations, you understand them.

Third, understand humor.

Don't get angry at the moment because of jokes, of course, some jokes can be boring and you really don't like them, so you can pat the stool to express that emotion. Don't hold it back, no one is a roundworm in your stomach. People who know humor are good at adjusting the atmosphere and can control the situation.

My roommate is the closest person in college, and there is no other home.

Also pay attention to communication, communication is important.

Clause. 1. Take the initiative to communicate with your roommates. This can make the relationship between two people better, and communication can also solve many problems. Clause.

2. Actively participate in various activities in the dormitory. For example, eating, shopping, not being isolated, and having a good relationship with roommates. Clause.

3. Don't let your presence disappear. Don't isolate yourself, create opportunities for yourself. Clause.

Fourth, maintain an optimistic attitude. No matter what the outcome is, you have to be yourself and don't be defeated by the little things in life. Clause.

5. Help each other. It is a traditional virtue to help each other.