How do you get along with lovers who can t be together?

This outsider can't help you, you yourself say that there are too few projects, so I think you should first observe your girlfriend and what she likes. After understanding what she is good at, what special habits she has, etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., you have to do a lot of work, on the one hand, to increase your knowledge, and on the other hand, to have a comprehensive understanding of the living environment around you. It is best to have an understanding of the city where you live, and you can do it**What activities are there and you can know for the first time, that is the best.

Once you have an idea of the girl's preferences, then you can have a choice to choose the right place. Texting is one of the best tools to increase your affection for each other, and I think you should make good use of it, but girls are sensitive to some modifiers and have their own special understanding of these words, so you should pay attention to them. The most important thing for girls is eloquence, which does not require your mouth to be overblown, but you must be able to say the right things in the right situation.

How to grasp that I don't know you, it's up to you.

My classmate is a clay porridge.

She usually plays with us.

No big deal.

If you are still a student, it is better to start by talking about learning problems.

It doesn't matter where you go out, the most important thing is that the two of you can stay together.

On weekends, you can go hiking, visit the park, and if you go to the beach, you can go seashell hunting, and lovers can have fun wherever they go as long as they are together.

Sports, singing, climbing, watching airplanes, pressing the road, a lot of programs.

The key depends on how you refine it, the finer the better.

1.It's tiring to get along but can't say break up.

I have met many such lovers, the bottom line is buried lower and lower in the case of quarrels, and they have done a lot of things to hurt the other party, and they have said countless bad things about the other party, but they can reconcile after every quarrel.

When it's good, I feel that the other party is the whole world, and when I quarrel, I curse each other, they talk very tired, but no matter how they quarrel, they can't separate, and they can't see the future, which is actually a disagreement between the three views.

2.If you can talk, you can stay together for a long time without getting tired.

As the so-called mutual bargaining, it is difficult to find a bosom friend, it is easy to get a daughter, and it is difficult to find a confidant. There are many couples who eat and live together, but two people rarely have a common topic, and it is always easy to disagree on a matter of opinion, and even quarrel over it.

You think he's talking too superficially, and he thinks you're talking too stubbornly.

3.He thinks that nothing will always hurt you.

A friend chatted with me before and said that her boyfriend always joked with her that she was short, fat, and ugly, and every time he saw her angry, her boyfriend immediately said that he was joking, and then came to coax her, how easy is she to get angry.

Basinging one's happiness on the damage of one's girlfriend is also a manifestation of inconsistency, he only cares about whether he is happy or not, and never considers your feelings.

4.Always complain that you buy and spend money indiscriminately.

Just as boys can never understand why girls like to buy clothes and bags so much, girls can never understand why boys like to buy electronic products, but these differences do not mean that values are different.

It's just that I can't understand how you feel when you like to buy clothes, and I also blame you for buying a bunch of useless things when you come back, that's the difference in values.

5.Get along with each other by one person.

Chatting with fans a few days ago, she confided in me about her marital status, and she said that her relationship with her husband now depends on her alone.

She said that when they first fell in love, her boyfriend was very active, but after getting along for a long time, she became the one who took the initiative. Thinking about how to add color to each other's lives and how to make two people's lives better, she said that although outsiders seem to be quite happy between the two of us, in fact, she herself is not happy or happy at all in this kind of life.

1. Choose people who can make progress together.

Xiaoqiang and his girlfriend have been in love for three years, and his girlfriend regards marriage as the goal of the two in the future, and keeps working hard, but Xiaoqiang is idle all day long, and feels that it is good to maintain the status quo. Over time, his girlfriend became more and more unbearable that Xiaoqiang had no plan for the future and was not motivated, so she proposed to break up.

If one party is constantly getting stronger, and the weak other party can't keep up, it will become inferior, and the strong party will become more and more tired, and finally it will lead to an increase in contradictions between them. So for love, it's not as simple as sending two bouquets of flowers and watching two movies, it's a higher pursuit for two people to make progress together.

2. If the two parties quarrel, it is recommended to quarrel in person.

If there is a quarrel or conflict between lovers, you must communicate face-to-face to solve the problem, and don't quarrel with **, voice, or text message. Because you can't judge the other person's expression and tone through electromagnetic waves, and you can't see the other person's state and body movements at that time. In text-only communication, people will guess about the mental activities of their partner, but the results are often very different from the real situation.

Therefore, face-to-face communication can reduce some unnecessary misunderstandings, in case the more noisy the misunderstanding will be.

3. Find a balance between giving and receiving.

The love between lovers is mutual, you can't blindly take, you can't blindly give, if the pay and return are in a state of imbalance for a long time, then the relationship can't last long, so we need to find a balance between giving and getting. Everyone has different criteria when it comes to giving and reciprocating, but as long as two people are comfortable with each other, that's the best criterion and doesn't need to be calculated. And the balance between this is to be slowly found in the daily relationship, no one can immediately tell you how much you should give and how much you should get.

In love, the most important thing is the way two people get along, only when we get along comfortably, we can better cultivate a good relationship, which is conducive to the progress of the relationship. So, what's the best way to get along in a relationship?

Trust each other. In two people, trust is the most important thing, and only by trusting each other can they be happy in love.

If one party is always suspicious of the other person chatting with others, or checking the chat history, both of them will suffer from gains and losses, which will only lead to the breakdown of the relationship between them. Distrust can only lead to insecurity and insecurity. Mutual questioning will only drive each other further and further apart.

Therefore, the most important thing in getting along with the two is trust.

Empathy. Everyone's ideas are different, everyone has their own ideas, so we can't ask others to think the same as us, many couples often because they have their own opinions, do not think from each other's point of view, resulting in conflicts.

Therefore, if couples are always arguing over these issues, it will definitely lead to a weakening of the relationship. So, when couples disagree, learn to calm down and learn to communicate with each other. Believe in taking a step back and opening up the sky.

Meet the psychological needs of the other person.

If two people want to maintain a long-term relationship, they must know how to meet each other's needs. The needs of boys and girls are different, boys like to be admired, understood and needed, and women need respect, thoughtfulness and comfort, so only by understanding each other's inner needs can we satisfy each other's hearts and the relationship will be more stable.

So, both people understand what the other wants.

Develop common interests.

If the two of them get along for a long time, the relationship will gradually fade, and it will be difficult for the other party to arouse the ripples in your heart, which will lead to more and more distant feelings, fewer and fewer intersections, and less and less interest. Therefore, if we want love to develop smoothly, we can cultivate common hobbies, such as planting some plants together, participating in outdoor activities together, doing fitness together, watching movies together, etc., which can not only enhance the relationship between the two people, but also add interest to life and make life more exciting.