Is it right to remarry for the sake of the child, isn t it a good horse that shouldn t eat back gras

Updated on culture 2024-06-10
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    This should be based on the divorce situation, because the other party is not good, so divorced, then there is no need to remarry, but praise the father more in front of the child, don't let him have a dislike for the father. If, on the other hand, you divorce only because of impulse, you should remarry so that your children can grow up in a healthy environment. The family environment can affect a child for a lifetime, the ancients said:

    At the age of three, it is eighty, and at the age of seven, it is set for life. Don't ruin your children for the sake of momentary feelings, at least the happiness of the second half of your life, the decision depends on whether you have good children and excellent children.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I don't think people can compare with horses, horses don't have so many thoughts, and they don't have so many feelings. If you have a child, then you should be together, after all, you once had a good relationship, even if you don't have feelings, with children, feelings are also very easy to cultivate. FYI, I hope you are happy!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The key depends on whether you and your ex-husband still have the possibility of getting back together, that is, whether the original reason for divorce after remarriage will affect your life and relationship, if the reason for divorce is still affected, you don't have to remarry for the sake of your children, because you are unhappy, the child will feel that the relationship between your husband and wife will also affect him, such as quarrels, cold wars, etc.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    No, if there is still affection between husband and wife, it is better to remarry for the sake of the children, and it is good for everyone.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can't remarry simply for the sake of your children, the key is to look at the feelings of both of you, whether you have feelings or not is the determining factor.

    Otherwise, even if he recovers, the child will feel the taste of unhappiness, which will not be good for the child. The child wants three people.

    Happy together!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Children grow up in a complete family, of course, it will be better. Children who grow up in single-parent families will have a bad personality.!You said that good horses don't eat grass, I don't agree, if you still love each other, you should give each other a chance!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The children's affairs are decided by themselves, as parents, they can't stop it, and the decision of whether to remarry is up to them, you can only make some suggestions, whether you accept them or not, whether a good horse eats or not, depends on whether it is worth looking back. Good luck!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It should be you who remarried, if it was for the sake of the children, then why didn't you divorce for the sake of the children, that is, you divorced, and went to remarry for the children, do you have the confidence to live together? It is said that only good horses do not eat the grass that turns back, and when the grass that turns back grows back, it is no worse than the grass in front, hehehe.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Not necessarily, if there is affection, it is better to give the baby a complete home.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think it's right, dear, that child will have a complete home.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Remarrying for the sake of the child, no!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think you should remarry for the sake of your children, but you should also consider whether you still have feelings and whether you are still in love.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Remarriage is okay, those sayings are not necessarily true. It is better to remarry for the sake of children.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If there is still room for maneuver, why not give everyone a chance, it is also a good thing for the children.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Then why didn't you think more about your children and think clearly, don't always think about yourself, and pretend to say that it is for your children. I think you're just irresponsible.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Adults should not use children as tokens as a tool for marriage reunion. 1.As a parent, I understand the feelings for my child.

    However, when the relationship between the husband and wife breaks up, one party is bound to make sacrifices and give up, which is best for the child and both parties. Children are very sensitive, and the couple's emotional discord is only reluctantly together because of the child, so that the child can feel it in the family, which is easy to cause the child to leave a shadow on the parents and marriage.

    2.Stay sane and accept reality. It is wise to find a way for the child to better accept the fact that the parents' relationship is broken, which requires the child's parents to negotiate and work together, please calm down and return to reason after the emotion, and think of a compromise solution.

    In the face of a broken family, the child must be hurt, so the parents' solution is crucial, and the premise of the parents' solution must be for the sake of the child's better, so you must restrain your emotions, don't produce excessive behavior, and let the child have a process of acceptance. Everyone is an independent individual, you can force your feelings for the sake of the child's impulsiveness, but you can't force it for a lifetime, and the reluctant family will not be truly happy, but delay each other.

    3.If you want to save your marriage, do so with sincerity. If one of the couples really wants to save their marriage and family, then think about whether they really want to continue the second half of their lives, and don't naively unilaterally think about how the other party will change according to what they want.

    The decision is made after a lot of thought.

    If the decision is to redeem it, then what you have to think about is how to make up your mind to change your bad habits, how to improve yourself, and how can you live a positive life and be a good role model for parents, so that the other party will not look back. Please remember to find more reasons from yourself, reflect on yourself, don't always blame others, a slap can't make a sound, do your part. Redemption is not an overnight thing, it is equivalent to re-falling in love after divorce, please be prepared for a "lasting station", this is also true sincerity, respect each other, understand each other, the two are a lifelong thing after reuniting, and there are children in the middle, do not remarry on impulse, otherwise the consequences for children will be worse.

    A loving family is a truly happy home.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    No, because this person is not suitable for him, and if he remarries, it must be very dangerous and bad, so he can't do it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    For the sake of children, they should not remarry, if two people are unhappy together, this unhappiness will be passed on to the children, it is better to take care of the children alone.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think it still depends on whether there is love between the two, if there is a relationship, it is of course good to remarry, but if there is no feeling, I think it is better not to.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Seventy percent of divorced people want to remarry, but everyone loves face and is unwilling to propose remarriage first, missing out on the happiness of a lifetime. Most of these divorces are divorced in anger and regret it once they get divorced. As soon as one of the spouses proposes to remarry, the other spouse will immediately agree.

    The broken mirror can also be round, as long as there is love, there is nothing that can't, but the process will be very tiring, you can't get angry, you will remember all kinds of sad pasts, you need time to smooth out the trauma, this section of the road is not too easy to walk, but as long as both parties have love, keep going, and there will be happiness that belongs to you.

    Caused by children: Some couples are not in harmony with each other, but for the sake of children, they can only swallow their anger, after all, the impact of children in single families is still very great, for such remarried families, often face and heart discord, it is said that husband and wife live a life, but it is better to say that it is a mixed life.

    Helplessness: Although some couples are divorced, but one party is difficult to find a comparable because of the conditions, or one of them has no economic **, think about it, or two people get together, so that the remarried couple, often one of the parties is helpless, the result is that he must be inferior to the other party, and he has to live. Such a married life is also very difficult.

    If both parties want to continue the relationship, then they must manage it carefully. Both sides have taken a step back, untied the knots in their hearts, and have something to discuss, and they must see the sincerity of both sides. If the marriage wants to be reunited, both parties must communicate well, find out the crux of the problem, and adjust it.

    I think that even if it can't be the same, at least it can be restored without affecting the use. We must cherish the fate of meeting in this life. Even if the broken mirror cannot be the same, however, people are not mirrors.

    Man is a high-level animal with thoughts, pure amusement, and wisdom. I believe that the fact that two people can still hug each other after going through hardships proves that their feelings are genuine. Sincere feelings can go firmer and farther after being beaten by wind and rain!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    This is because some people are very impulsive when they divorce, so they regret it very much after the divorce, and the two people will still have feelings, and they can't put each other's reputation together, so they will still choose to remarry.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Because many people divorce impulsively when they divorce, they feel very good about their other half, so they will choose to remarry.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Because after the divorce, it is very important to find the other party for you, and you will regret it very much after the divorce.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think if the relationship between two people is still there, they can remarry for the sake of the child, because after all, the two people are already very familiar and have a child who needs to be taken care of, so choosing to remarry in this case is also a good result.

    What are the reasons for choosing to remarry?

    1. Loneliness is unbearable.

    Married life, even if it is boring, is accompanied by someone, and it does not feel lonely, and the loneliness after divorce can be unbearable.

    No one listens to what is in the heart, and the unbearable loneliness gnaws at the whole body like ants, and after a long time, the idea of reuniting will naturally be born.

    Second, beautiful women are hard to come by.

    Not every member of the opposite sex can get along with you, and not every person of the opposite sex is the one you like in your heart.

    Maybe after the divorce, after going through thousands of mountains and rivers, I finally understand that what I once had is the best, the one who knows me best, and the most suitable for myself.

    3. For the sake of children.

    No matter who the child is with, if the husband and wife no longer marry, it means that the child will grow up in a single-parent family.

    And finding another partner does not guarantee that the other party will be good to the child.

    or get along so well, many couples who reunite choose to reunite because they can't let go of their children in their hearts, feel sorry for their children, and do so for the sake of their children.

    Fourth, I learned to be considerate.

    The original divorce may only be because the two parties cannot empathize and always consider from their own standpoint, which will cause contradictions, and calm down for a long time after the divorce.

    It can make the husband and wife reflect on themselves, ** do not do well, they will put themselves in each other's position to think, knowing each other's helplessness and compulsion. The husband and wife have learned to be considerate of each other, as long as they give each other a little step, the reunion will seem to be a matter of course.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Many couples will feel that it is not good for their children after their relationship breaks down and divorces, and the children do not have a healthy family environment to grow up, so should they choose to remarry their ex for the sake of their children at this time?

    This question is the same as the answer to the question "Should you divorce for the sake of your children?" If you want to revert, if you don't want to, don't revert, don't talk about children.

    Why don't you talk about your children? Asking whether to remarry "for the sake of the child", it can basically be judged, first of all, there is hesitation about the matter of "remarriage", that is to say, it is possible that the family does not want to answer the heart, but he is worried that not remarrying will have a bad impact on the child, and in the end, the child may blame himself.

    In fact, the point is not that you are divorced, remarried, or remarried, but that you have handled the relationship well. If handled properly, not only will the child not be affected by the bad influences, but he will also learn how to handle relationships correctly. So the point is, what do you think about yourself, do you still want to continue this marriage, if you want to, then revenge, if you don't want to, then you don't have to resume for the sake of children.

    Should I remarry for my children Does it make sense to remarry for my children?

    Does it make sense to remarry for the sake of children.

    If the husband and wife have no feelings anymore and just remarry for the sake of their children, it doesn't make much sense.

    Actually, I don't think there is a standard answer to this question. Matter. If you knew this was the case, why bother in the first place.

    You have to think about why you got divorced in the first place. If you choose to remarry just for the sake of your children, I don't think it makes much sense. If your essential problems are not resolved, you will still be unhappy after remarriage.

    An unhappy marriage is harmful to the growth of children. Because of the children, some people have time to calm down after divorce, and want to give their children a complete home, so they consider remarriage.

    Should I remarry for my children Does it make sense to remarry for my children?

    It is right or wrong to remarry for the sake of children.

    All marital problems under the pretext of children are irresponsible, and the pot of marriage cannot be carried by children. Marriage is a matter for both of you, and it has nothing to do with your children.

    I think we have to face up to the reality that divorce is divorced because the husband and wife have no ability to mend the marriage, or decide not to redeem it. Throughout the process, the child is just a bystander, and he definitely does not dominate; You must know that the relationship between husband and wife is higher than the relationship between parents and children.

    Should I remarry for my children Does it make sense to remarry for my children?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Many couples will remarry because of their children after divorce, will you remarry for the sake of your children?

    In fact, in our real life, there are many couples who will be divorced because of their children.

    Remarriage, the inner thought is to judge the hope of giving the child a complete family. But if it were me, I don't think I would choose to remarry for the sake of the children.

    First of all, a broken mirror cannot be reunited.

    If two people choose to divorce because of something in their married life, there must be something wrong with their relationship. But if two people remarry because of their children, the gap in the relationship cannot be repaired, which means that the broken mirror cannot be reunited. Even if two people remarry, the relationship between those two people will not return to the past.

    Secondly, improvisation is not life.

    In fact, divorced couples, if they choose to remarry because of their children, the feelings between the two people will not return to the same as before, that is to say, the two people are living together. It's just that because of the bond of children, such a relationship between husband and wife will not be very good. Therefore, in such a life, two people cannot live well together, and of course, the family environment for children will not be very good.

    This kind of improvising life is not the life that everyone wants at all.

    Again, children will not be happy.

    In addition, if two people live together improvisedly, the relationship between husband and wife will not be so harmonious, and the whole family environment will not be warm and happy. In such an environment, in fact, the child will not be happy, waiting for the child to grow up, imitation filial piety his heart may change because of such a family environment. It is extremely detrimental to the growth of children, and children cannot experience the happiness of the family.

    So, if a couple divorces and then remarries because of their children, if it does, I don't think I would do that. When two people are separated, there must be irreconcilable contradictions, and if they choose to remarry, there may be another irreconcilable situation, which is a kind of torture for each other, and it is also extremely detrimental to the growth of children.

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