Is it better for couples to communicate for the sake of their children to remarry, or to remarry?

The breakdown of the relationship, even if it is a remarriage, the unhappiness caused by the two people being together is even more serious to the child.

For the good of the child and for the good of oneself, the two are not necessarily contradictory.

When remarrying, it is necessary to coordinate the relationship between the new spouse and the child, so that the child feels at home in the new family. The most important thing is that when the new spouse treats your children badly, you must not let your children suffer by maintaining the relationship. If the new partner has a strong attitude and forces you to comply, give up the mate and take the child!

Make this attitude clear as soon as possible so that your new spouse is ready to treat your children well.

In addition, in the matter of divorce and remarriage, you should communicate with the child, fully solicit his opinion, respect his opinion, and explain his reason to him, if the child is not too young and sensible, he will understand you.

This is not the feeling of patronizing children, if you can endure the mental torment you will remarry, alas I still hope you live a little more freely, good luck!

Since the relationship between the husband and wife has broken down, there is no need to be together, but it does not mean that if you don't remarry, it's not for the good of the child, if you don't remarry, you won't remarry, but you can't leave a shadow on the child's heart, it's best to do a good job of ideological work with the child, in addition, even if you remarry, you must care about the child and take care of the child's feelings.

If you think that the best way for the good of your children is to remarry, you should be prepared to endure mental suffering, and most importantly, don't take your anger out on your children just because you are remarrying because of your children.

In our real life, there are many couples who remarry because of their children after divorce, and their inner thoughts are to give their children a complete family. But if it were me, I don't think I would choose to remarry for the sake of the children.

First of all, a broken mirror cannot be reunited.

If two people choose to divorce because of something in their married life, there must be something wrong with their relationship. But if two people remarry because of their children, the gap in the relationship cannot be repaired, which means that the broken mirror cannot be reunited. Even if two people remarry, the relationship between those two people will not return to the past.

Secondly, improvisation is not life.

In fact, divorced couples, if they choose to remarry because of their children, the feelings between the two people will not return to the same as before, that is to say, the two people are living together. It's just that because of the bond of children, such a relationship between husband and wife will not be very good.

Therefore, in such a life, two people cannot live well together, and of course, the family environment for respecting children will not be very good. This kind of improvising life is not the life that everyone wants at all.

Again, children will not be happy.

In addition, if two people live together improvised, the relationship between husband and wife will not be so harmonious, and the whole family environment will not be warm and happy. In such an environment, in fact, the child will not be happy, and when the child grows up, his heart may change because of such a family environment. It is extremely detrimental to the growth of children, and children cannot experience the happiness of the family.

So, if a couple divorces and then remarries because of their children, if it does, I don't think I would do that. When two people are separated, there must be irreconcilable contradictions, and if they choose to remarry, another irreconcilable situation may appear, which is a kind of torture for each other and extremely detrimental to the growth of children.

Marriage is happy, and each of us wants to have a happy marriage. ......However, the real marriage may be unhappy due to various factors, so the parties may choose to divorce. For families with children, divorce can have a very serious impact on the children, so some couples will choose to remarry because of the children after the divorce.

For this kind of question, what kind of choices will the parties make, including the three situations in which the parties will not divorce even if the relationship between the husband and wife is not in harmony with each other, although the divorce will affect the children, they will still choose to divorce, and after the divorce, they will choose to remarry for the sake of the children.

1, although the relationship between the husband and the wife is not harmonious, but for the sake of the children, the two choose not to divorce.

In real life, there are many couples who do not have a good relationship with each other. It can even be said that they are almost on the verge of divorce. ......However, because of having children, everything has changed.

Both husband and wife understand that divorce can have very serious consequences for their children, so they make the choice not to divorce. The sense of responsibility of these couples is very strong, and the relationship between them may gradually improve over time.

2. Divorce does have an impact on the children. But for the sake of his own happiness, he will still choose to divorce.

For some couples, they know that divorce will have a very serious impact on the child, but they will still make the choice of divorce. ......These couples are like this because their relationship has reached an irreparable level, or because they want to pursue their own happiness, so they pay less attention to their children. ......This situation has a very big impact on the child.

3. After the divorce, I found that the children were greatly affected, so I chose to remarry.

Among the various circumstances, the situation in which a couple finds that their children are affected by this after divorce and finally chooses to remarry is the most satisfying. ......Although the previous divorce had a great impact on the couple and their children, from the moment they chose to remarry, the relationship between the husband and wife was repaired, the impact on the children was also compensated, everything was back on the normal track, and the family would be happy again. ......This is clearly the most desirable outcome.