Why is it so difficult for parents to teach their little ones homework?

Children have poor attention and poor receptivity. Second, homework is boring, and children are not interested in writing homework. 3. The parent's education method is too rigid, and the child is not interested.

Because parents are not teachers after all, he doesn't know how to teach his children correctly, and he doesn't understand the children, which will make parents very angry.

Because the current textbooks are very different from before, children's learning speed has become faster and faster, and the subject content is becoming more and more difficult, and parents have not been exposed to these for many years, so it will be a little difficult.

Parents should let their children check after completing their homework every day, if there is no problem with him, where to check his mother, and if he completes it very well, give him material rewards, so as to mobilize his enthusiasm.

Talk to your child about the consequences of doing so.

Parents should have a good conversation with him and watch him do his homework carefully, so that he will not be fooled when he writes his homework, and he will be very good.

Parents accompany their children to do homework, which needs to be done in stages.

In fact, there is no such thing as a child who is born to learn, and good study habits need to be cultivated. Therefore, parents should do it in stages when it comes to accompanying their children to do their homework.

When his friend Xiao Chen's daughter first entered primary school, Xiao Chen thought that he wanted his children to understand that learning was their own business. Therefore, she never asked her children about their work at first.

Soon, she received a call from the head teacher. The head teacher told Xiao Chen that the child's homework was very poor, and asked Xiao Chen to pay attention. Xiao Chen told the head teacher that she thought that letting go would allow children to learn to manage themselves.

As a result, the head teacher said to Xiao Chen: "Not all children can let go at first. There are very few children who are born self-conscious.

At the beginning, parents are needed to guide them, and children will gradually establish good study habits. ”

When I first started from kindergarten to elementary school, I had no idea how to do homework. At this time, he needs the company of his parents to guide him on what to do and help him develop good study habits.

Around the third grade of primary school, parents can gradually let go and let their children try to manage their own learning books. Try to have your child complete the homework on their own, and the parent will check it later.

In the fourth grade of primary school, except for some memorization or dictation homework, which requires the cooperation of parents, other homework can be completed independently by children.

The ultimate goal of our parenting is to give our children enough power to leave us. For example, when a child first learns to walk, he needs to be supported by his parents and then gradually let go, so that the child can finally learn to walk independently. The same is true for homework, at first when the child does not know, parents need to tell him how to do it, and then gradually let the child do it independently.

Personally, I don't think that's the right approach! First of all, if the child does not do his homework well and does not listen to his parents, it does not mean that the child really belongs to the kind of child who knows his mistakes and cannot change them. As a parent, you should understand the reasons why your child does not write homework well and pay attention to the education method.

1. Be friends with your children and don't take drastic behaviors.

To educate your child correctly is to let go of your posture and take the initiative to be friends with your child, rather than acting high all the time. Parents should often have in-depth and intimate conversations with their children, and pass on their blind judgments to express their love for their children.

In addition, when children make mistakes, parents should first calm their emotions, avoid taking aggressive actions against their children, regardless of whether they are indiscriminately taught with sticks first, but calmly help children analyze and solve problems.

Treating children harshly not only fails to make them realize their mistakes and correct them, but also leaves a shadow on their hearts and makes their personalities extreme.

2. Give your child more company.

No one can replace the love and companionship of parents, only under the careful teaching and companionship of parents can children receive better education and develop good habits.

But in real life, many parents are forced by the pressure of life to let their grandparents and grandparents come over to help watch the children or leave the children directly in their hometown.

In this way, parents cannot give their child enough companionship to improve and improve, which will have a negative impact on his development.

Therefore, parents should treat their children more attentively, communicate with them more often, communicate with them or play more, keep abreast of their life and learning, and let them feel that even if their parents are not around, they are still caring and loving themselves.

Nowadays, children want less, and parents' hopes and expectations are pinned on this one child. I am afraid that my child will lose at the starting line of learning, I am afraid that my child will not be admitted to university in the future, and I am afraid that my child will not have a good future in the future. Therefore, as soon as the child enters the kindergarten, he begins to tutor the child to do problems, memorize poems, arithmetic, and when it comes to primary school, parents ask their children every day if they have done their homework?

If it's okay to say it's done, if it's not, it's either angry shouting or whipping. How is this not a lot of pressure on children!

First, everything has a degree, learning depends on oneself, school and family are external factors. It is said that there is nothing wrong with school teachers and parents letting children study hard, study hard, and study hard. However, there is a limit to everything.

What is Degree? The Ministry of Education, the National Health Commission and other eight departments jointly issued the "Implementation Plan for the Comprehensive Prevention and Control of Myopia in Children and Adolescents", which clearly states that no written homework will be assigned in the first and second grades of primary school, and the written homework in the third to sixth grades shall not be completed in more than 60 minutes. This is the degree, which is the homework standard formulated to protect the healthy growth of children in combination with the physical and mental characteristics of children and adolescents.

All repetitive work, punishment work, and difficult work that passes this time are all against the rules.

In addition, students are the main body of learning and the internal cause of learning, and school teachers and parents are all external factors, and external factors can only work through internal factors. Children have a lot of pressure on long-term homework, and it is easy to get tired of school, rebel and have psychological problems.

Second, how can parents help primary school students reduce the pressure caused by too much homework?

1.It is more important to change the concept and grow up healthily of the child. In order to alleviate the pressure of children's homework, parents must first change the concept that only university entrance examination is the future.

Inches are long and feet are short, each person has their own specialty, three hundred and sixty lines, and the line is out of the candidates. Without a healthy body, a sunny mind, everything is in vain. Therefore, on the premise of increasing the healthy growth of primary school students, it is more important to study hard and be positive.

2.Help your child find the happiness factor, reduce fatigue and relieve stress. If the child's homework is stressful, parents can do some service work, bring him a cup of tea, and peel an apple.

Let children feel the care and support of their parents. When the child's homework is done, accompany the child to watch the children's entertainment program, read "A Yuan", "Mi Xiaoquan" and so on. Let your child smile and have fun and forget all about fatigue and stress.

3.After the children have completed their homework and completed the day's learning tasks, parents can take their children to visit the city park zoo and botanical garden, and in the countryside, they can look at the crops in the fields, visit the orchard ecological garden, etc., so that the children can look at the green space and find the fun in nature.

4.In between children's homework, parents can also play ball, dance, sing, listen to **, play yo-yo, etc., and combine work and rest to reduce fatigue and pressure.

5.Increase your child's adequate sleep. Elementary school students are growing up, and long-term sleep deprivation can affect children's physical and mental health. So, don't let your child stay up late, and sometimes, even if the homework is not done, parents have to force the child to sleep.

When it comes to tutoring their children with homework, many parents feel powerless. In fact, many children's learning problems are universal, as long as you guide your child's learning a little, you will catch up with others. Although teachers also have certain responsibilities for children's education, it is also very necessary for parents to properly guide children.

How can parents help their children with their homework?

1. Correct guidance, don't always point out the child's mistakes, point out the mistakes to bring some praise, and then point out the wrong problems, or make a sign on the problematic homework, let the child find out the wrong place to correct, when the child finds out the wrong problem, praise the child in the way of praise.

Second, parents do not find that the child has a problem to criticize, blame, parents find that the child's homework is wrong, first of all, to ask the specific situation, and then let the child do it again, the serious attitude of parents is very important to the child, do not easily disturb the child, to wait until the child has done the homework and then check.

3. Parents must cultivate the habit of focusing on their children's homework, many children are always not serious enough when writing homework, and what can be completed in ten or twenty minutes will be delayed to one or two hours. Parents can encourage their children to complete within the specified time through some rewards, and then the children are usually very receptive.

4. Prepare a fixed learning environment for children, because to provide a fixed learning environment for children, so that children can devote themselves to learning, if there is no fixed learning environment, it is always affected by the surrounding environment, and it will also affect children's learning, causing them to be distracted.

Fifth, let children be good at thinking, many children do not like to think, when they encounter problems, they ask their parents. When children encounter problems, parents should not solve them immediately, but try to let children think about problems slowly, only by letting children find other aspects of knowledge through their own thinking, can they remember more firmly and learn faster.

Parents should provide their children with learning ideas. When a child encounters homework that he does not understand, he should patiently teach him how to solve the problem.

I think parents should be very patient and have a better attitude when tutoring their children to write homework, and don't get angry at their children because they write their homework incorrectly or because they don't do their homework correctly, which I think is very unhelpful for children's learning.

First of all, the most important thing is to be patient and not have emotions to counsel children. Secondly, it is necessary to guide children's learning correctly, so that children can learn consciously and actively. Then encourage your child more so that he has confidence in himself.

How can parents help their children write homework scientifically and effectively?

1. Provide a quiet desk.

2. Set a rule with your child: when to write homework and play when you come back from school every day. This rule should be set especially on weekends, winter and summer vacations.

3. Teach children to make a plan: every day when they come back from school, write what to write first and then what to write. It is generally recommended to do the easy ones that are good first, and then the complex ones.

4. Let the child set a goal: what time must he finish his homework.

5. Prepare a small post-it note book for your child and write down the homework assigned to each subject.

6. Ask the child to talk about the teacher's homework requirements before completing it independently. When you encounter a problem that you don't understand, think independently, and if you think about it, you can't do it, and your parents will give you some inspiration and guidance before you finish it. After all is done, the child first checks and corrects himself, and then the parents check and correct.

Finally, signing the parent's name will make the teacher feel that the parent is a responsible parent.

7. Don't hit, scold, don't yell. Scolding will only make the child worse and less confident. If the child really doesn't understand, mark a question mark, and the teacher will explain the homework mistakes the next day.

8. Parents can be busy with their own affairs when their children are doing their homework. If you are accompanied by you, it is best to look at writing and be an example.

9. In the first semester of the first grade of primary school, for children who do not know much, parents need to help them read the questions, because they can't understand the questions, let alone solve the problems.

10. Ask the children to finish their homework, organize the homework books and the textbooks to be used the next day and put them in their school bags.

11. Let children understand that homework is to consolidate the knowledge they have learned that day, and it is their own business, not for teachers or parents.

About author:Xuan Xuan's mother, English major level 8, senior high school teacher qualification, 16 years of teaching experience in primary and secondary education. It is a teacher and a mother, who knows both the difficulties of children and the pain of parents. Teach children English and talk to parents about education.