Why are little kids always so naughty

It's like this, and who doesn't come that way.

I didn't get beaten when I was a child, and at that time, my parents were educating me by persuading me to educate me, and I felt that it was wrong to beat and scold children, and often beating and scolding children would make children rebellious

Clause. 1. There will be rebellion.

When a child makes a mistake, parents do not use persuasion and education to talk to him patiently, but use violence to solve it, which will cause a psychological shadow to the child, and he will have a rebellious psychology in his heart after a long time.

will reject the education of parents and be unwilling to communicate with parents, anyway, in exchange for a beating. Therefore, they will hide their hearts, and over time, they may hurt themselves when facing problems.

Some children will beat their heads hard when they can't solve a problem, but this is actually related to the way their parents usually educate them. What's more, children will inflict this violent tendency on others.

When problems arise again, they will not be solved peacefully, but by force, and even hurt others.

Clause. 2. Willing to please others.

Children who grow up under the scare of their parents are prone to be willing to look at other people's faces to please others, and they will follow what others say they are not sure of their inner thoughts, speak carefully, and they will lower their posture.

Because of the fear that others will not like her, the fear of not playing with him, and the desire to please others everywhere, such children do not have their own independent character when they grow up, and they are easy to follow the crowd, and instinctively retreat backwards when they encounter difficulties, so it is difficult for them to succeed.

Thirdly, the child will become very timid.

Children who have lived in the scare of their parents for a long time will become very cowardly and timid, because when facing the parents of the **, they dare not show their hearts, and will only hide behind their backs and secretly observe the faces of their parents to please their parents.

When such a child grows up, he will also become unbrave to take on problems and responsibilities, evade and shirk responsibility, thinking that everything has nothing to do with him, because he has the impression that as long as he bears such a mistake, then he will accept a violent beating.

Clause. Fourth, children will lose trust in their parents.

If parents often carry out threats and intimidation education in the family, when the children are still young, they do not know that what the parents say is false and are all to scare them.

But when the children are older, they begin to have their own consciousness and judgment, they will know that their parents are cheating on themselves, then they will become more and more distrustful of their parents, and they will not want to say it to their parents when they are really in trouble and danger.

Hello friend, as a child, I was very naughty when I was a child, such a thing happens to everyone, but maybe everyone's naughtiness is different.

The word "mom see beating" refers to some children who were naughty when they were young and did things that were unacceptable to adults, so they were scolded by their parents, and even beaten by their parents.

When I was a child, I had a similar experience, and looking back on it now, I am also ashamed. It was during the summer vacation when I was in the second grade of elementary school.

My cousin came to my house to play, and after we finished our holiday homework, we realized that there was really nothing to do, so my cousin said to me, "Let's go out and do something interesting!" I nodded, and my cousin took me to a nearby kindergarten.

It turns out that what my cousin said about doing interesting things is to come to the kindergarten to do some pranks and play tricks on these kindergarten children. The two of us went to a nearby kindergarten, where these children were sitting in the open space of the kindergarten playing all kinds of games.

At this time, my cousin and I picked up water guns and sprayed them at the children who were in the kindergarten, and the result was that the children were sprayed with water.

As a result, many children cried because of our pranks, and the kindergarten teacher found out and criticized and educated my cousin, telling us not to do it.

But my cousin and I pretended to go away for a while, and while the kindergarten teacher was away, we went back to get water guns to spray these little basins, and the children started crying again, and the kindergarten teacher came to stop us.

One of the kindergarten teachers knew my mother, but when I got home, I was taught a hard lesson by my mother, and I realized my mistake through this incident, and I am still ashamed to look back.

Although parents use strict measures to make their children realize that they are wrong, these overly strict methods of education can also leave a psychological shadow on their children and have an indelible impact on their future lives. Therefore, an overly restrictive approach to education is inappropriate. The educational effect will be most significant if parents can educate their children in a gentler way.

Many parents will be determined to adopt this method of educating their children, which leads to the fact that such an excessively strict education can hurt their children because they agree with the view that a filial son and daughter are born under strict parents. Can this kind of radical education really make children grow up healthy? The answer is obvious.

This may not be what parents want. It can be said that if the parents are not strict enough, it will ruin the child's future. How it will affect children will be explained next.

1.This defense mechanism will gradually appear in the child's psyche.

If the parents are too strict, the child will rebel against the parents. When children show resistance, it is a sign that they have developed some kind of defense mechanism in their minds. Children have this defense mechanism mainly to protect themselves from their parents.

2.Due to the child's inner indifference, the parent-child relationship may gradually fall into crisis.

Children are psychologically fragile in the early stages of their development, and they need parental care, not harsh scolding. If children become very cold, it is mainly because they do not feel the love and care of their parents. Again, this kind of indifference can alienate the feelings between parents and children.

Generally speaking, good family education plays an important role in the healthy development of children's body and mind, and a good family environment will also affect children's future life to a certain extent. Homeschooling affects every aspect of a child's life, and its success has a very important impact on their future success. We can see that most successful people have a successful homeschooling behind them.

Parents who play an important role in homeschooling should understand their importance and mission to their children.

Children's education problems are different in each family's situation, and children's education methods will not be too different, try not to always use violent methods to teach children, it is easy to cause rebellion, and it is best to guide and communicate through guidance. Usually angry again, you still have to talk to your child calmly. Slowly guide her more from the language and behavior, not all at once, but have an adaptation process.

When a child does something wrong, the adult should tell him what is wrong, don't do it next time, and if you do it again, you will be beaten. The next time your child makes the same mistake, he'll know what's wrong.